Bakit ka HAPPY today?

**_Cathy_** · July 3rd, 2013 01:16 PM

Originally Posted by uls

syempre he was attracted to her BEFORE

kaya nga naghahanap ng mas bata

tingnan mo si vic sotto, cesar montano

lagi mas bata pinapalit nila

But what about men who never strayed and were faithful to their wives.

When I met my ex, I was physically at my best, over the five years we were together I grew older and gained weight etc

BUT I know that when he looks at me, he looks at me with the same attraction when we first met. Not all men are pigs like Vic Sotto and Cesar Montano. I still have faith.

**uls** · July 3rd, 2013 01:16 PM

cathy may know a lot about the mechanical aspects of *** (from watching ****) but she doesnt know much about the real world complexities of ***

**uls** · July 3rd, 2013 01:20 PM

Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you

But what about men who never strayed and were faithful to their wives.

When I met my ex, I was physically at my best, over the five years we were together I grew older and gained weight etc

BUT I know that when he looks at me, he looks at me with the same attraction when we first met. Not all men are pigs like Vic Sotto and Cesar Montano. I still have faith.

syempre meron mga lalake na loyal sa asawa hanggang mamatay

so it's up to you to choose the right man

we're talking about *** so i'm talking about the raw animal side of men

we are attracted to hot women coz that's what nature programmed us to be attracted to

so it depends on the individual's moral values to control animal instinct

kung di ma-control maghahanap ng mas bata iiwan ang asawa

**greenlyt** · July 3rd, 2013 01:21 PM

Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you

There is a compromise I think

Or other ways of finding out?

you have to experience it to find out
just like learning how to ride a bike, hindi ka matoto just by reading books or watching a video

**vinj** · July 3rd, 2013 01:34 PM

Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you

But what about men who never strayed and were faithful to their wives.

That's something you have to discover and it's all part of the bigger picture of marriage... it's not the always the *** or the physical attributes once people get onto a deeper level (this is my opinion).

Originally Posted by uls

cathy may know a lot about the mechanical aspects of *** (from watching ****) but she doesnt know much about the real world complexities of ***

As earlier mentioned, it's not anytime, anywhere, on-demand once reality sets in.

Oh i forgot, there are no compromises in a marriage. It's mutual, it's give, it's take... no ifs, no buts.

Try to read this article (the sender was a Philo teacher of ours back in college): Partners and Marriage by Eduardo Jose E. Calasanz | Occam's Razor

Edit: The author of the article is different. It was forwarded and shared in the Philo classes before if memory serves me well.

**_Cathy_** · July 3rd, 2013 01:40 PM

Originally Posted by vinj

That's something you have to discover and it's all part of the bigger picture of marriage... it's not the always the *** or the physical attributes once people get onto a deeper level (this is my opinion).

As earlier mentioned, it's not anytime, anywhere, on-demand once reality sets in.

Oh i forgot, there are no compromises in a marriage. It's mutual, it's give, it's take... no ifs, no buts.

Try to read this article (the author was a Philo teacher of ours back in college): Partners and Marriage by Eduardo Jose E. Calasanz | Occam's Razor

That article was sent to me over 9 years ago! My friends and I liked it very much too.

**_Cathy_** · July 3rd, 2013 01:42 PM

Originally Posted by greenlyt

you have to experience it to find out
just like learning how to ride a bike, hindi ka matoto just by reading books or watching a video

I really think I will go insane if I give myself to someone and we don't end up together

I really look forward to it but I can't do it outside marriage talaga. Hay.

**uls** · July 3rd, 2013 01:45 PM

Originally Posted by vinj

That's something you have to discover and it's all part of the bigger picture of marriage...

yup the BIGGER PICTURE

cathy, you have a lot of growing up to do

you're still too immature and bratty for a mature relationship

marriage pa kaya?

after your 5 yr ex, you weren't able to hold down a relationship

you've met people but when they got to know you they couldnt stand you

for now it's not about finding the right man

you gotta be the right woman first

**CLAVEL3699** · July 3rd, 2013 01:46 PM

Originally Posted by greenlyt

you have to experience it to find out
just like learning how to ride a bike, hindi ka matoto just by reading books or watching a video

bigat nyan bro... pero totoo dito talaga nagsisimula ang magandang pagsasama.

My bestfriend since elementary days always says gusto nya mapangasawa ay virgin dahil dun hindi sya tumikim nang babae hanggat hindi sya kinakasal dahil yun ang gusto nya.

Noong nag asawa sya ginastusan nya talaga ang kasal nya kasi akala nya virgin yung napangasawa nga, ang mahirap nun ni minsan ay hindi nila pinag usapan ang tungkol sa *** sa 1yr nilang magbf/gf...

Honeymoon...booom hindi na pala virgin yung napangasawa nya... todo away to the max ang nangyari... after 3months naghiwalay sila.