who do you ADMIRED the most

[ihateyouandme]

A gal who got herself pregnant and hooked a guy to marry him with threats in order for him to marry her? (Will you ever consider loving this kind of girl?)

or the gal who lets go of the guy even if it means she will be suffering from this incident. And the only thing she can do is let go and cry inside.

What can you say about the guy who is in this kind of mess? Is he worth the love of the gal who let go ? How many of you here guys would marry someone just because of a kid(on the way)? Thanks

[cutedoc]

imo id go against above views, id still marry for the sake of kids and try to work things out after, i know you might say mali na nga nagyari gagawa pa ng mali, for me you could still do damage control and save the future of the kid, hayaan mo na yung future ng sarili mo, pero wag mo hayaan ang future at kinalabasan ng kalokohan na nagawa mo=)

[mikey177]

The couple I admire the most is the one that controls the urge to have *** until after they have taken their marriage vows.

Call me old-fashioned, I don't give a hoot.

[BlueGirl]

kung ako yung girl at na preggy ako ng bf ko,il ask him kung gusto niya talaga ako pakasalan,kung dahil lang sa bata,hindi nalang...mahirap na baka maghiwalay din kami mas trauma ata un sa bata kesa maging single parent nalang ako.

[nugundam93]

cryptic pero andun naman sagot.

i admire that person who won't try to right a wrong with another wrong. :D

[just4u]

as for me, i don't admire anyone in the incident....

for the preggy one - i bet type na type niya iyong guy for her to threaten him...

for the one who is left crying - di naman siya sure kung labs nga siya nung guy - she's better off without him

as for the guy - mahina siya...(although, puwede niyang ikatwiran : gabi nun, madilim.....j/k)

imo

[ihateyouandme]

just to be clear this is a triangle mess

a gal(thirdparty), a guy (bf) , the one who was left crying (gf of the guy)
well i asked the guy how it happened he claimed to actually wanting the same thing happening and there was active participation.

my question is: will you guys actually is would you consider loving this gal (third party) who is threatening the guy and forcing him to marry her? do you respect that kind of gal. Someone who f*cks around anyone and who doesnt have a job?

[Chip]

well i asked the guy how it happened he claimed to actually wanting the same thing happening and there was active participation.
--what do you mean? what is this 'same thing happening'? ill assume na they both wanted to fool around

well i dont admire anyone in this situation. there's nothing admirable about cheating, about being a victim and about blackmail.

[oldblue]

support the incoming kid for life and marry who he really loves, that's the most admirable thing to do

[ihateyouandme]

support the incoming kid for life and marry who he really loves, that's the most admirable thing to do

Very well said!

Among the three who is the most admirable? i know that none may be admirable but rank them 1,2,3..1 as being the most admirable (judging by his/her virtues)

[ILuvDetailing]

I agree with oldblue, the support/guidance for the child is the most important thing, whether the couple marries or not.

[ihateyouandme]

hhhmmm..ok...nobody admires anyone in the situation.
Then who do you hate the most in the scenario? Which and who is the most hateful?

[basti08]

i wont ever marry for a kid...pero hirap salita ng tapos...
and yes, nobody admires anyone in the situation...

and of course, IMO the guy is not worthy for the love of the latter gal,
if he's vulnerable sa mga katulad ni 1st gal, eh marami pa syang makikitang ganyan.
at maraming beses pa sya magkakamali.

mi dos centimo amigo ;)

[wren]

nung nakita ko yung title ng thread, i was gonna put mother theresa. .

looking at the situation, ang biktima dito IMO is the girlfriend, pero if i was her, good riddance, kasi he's already cheating on her, what's gonna stop him from cheating in the future? sure it hurts short term, pero long term, she's better off without him. as for the BF marrying the pregnant girl for the kid's sake, i've seen too many loveless marriages, and it's not pretty, the kid suffers the most. he can support the kid without resorting to marriage.

[oldblue]

Very well said!

Among the three who is the most admirable? i know that none may be admirable but rank them 1,2,3..1 as being the most admirable (judging by his/her virtues)

1 gf - victim
2 bf - victim of seduction
3 3rd party - seducer & user & planner.

[ihateyouandme]

i guess so the gal is better of him. What is everyone's view? Had any of you ever been the number 1, 2 or 3? what did you do when you were in that scenarios? Well right now im getting ready to move on and see the beauty of this world.

[ihateyouandme]

guys question: will you ever love someone who has been whoring around so to speak until she is 35 years old? I would just like to know. Will you consider ever loving this kind of person even if she became the mother of your "mistake" child? Considering that she threatened you to marry her?

Another query: This child...it was made by mistake and done not in a good way, where did it came from? heaven or hell? just thinking out loud

[scarab]

...kahet disgrasyada, always consider a new life (child) as heaven sent. it's up to the parents whether to give the child a good life or make his/her life a living hell.

OT... kala ko rin who you admire for the year 2005.

[CVT]

Fellow male tsikoteers,- tingin kayo sa salamin. It takes 2 consenting adults to consumate a ***ual act, unless under duress.

I do not admire anyone here.

It is entirely the guy's fault. He was not the victim. He was a willing participant. He should be responsible for his actions and he should not 'excuse' himself from it.

[Chip]

I have been cheated on and beleive me, after the initial pain and feeling of betrayal, murderous thoughts entered my mind when i found out. I kept signing to myself the "pare ko" song-"kung kelan ka naging seryoso saka ka nya gagaguhin". what did i do? i got even. how? long story na hehehe

but looking back, kawawa din sya sa ganti ko e. i lost my moral high ground when i decided to get even. oh well, i dont claim to be a saint.
the best thing you can do is move on and live well. thats the best revenge.