The argument of disclosure of being a transgender is a different point altogether.

Most transgenders (especially in cultures where it's not even an accepted reality, such as the Philippines) are wary of disclosing their true identity because of fear of ostracism and judgment.

Try putting yourselves in their shoes. Say, you're a transgender and a homo***ual - you dress, act, and look like a girl and you're attracted to guys. There's this guy who starts to like you and you get close.

At this point, I personally feel that if I were the transgender, I would have to disclose it to him in order to prevent continuing the relationship through deception. However, on the flipside, it is also possible that the transgender will not tell the truth for fear of losing the guy who won't accept her for who she really is. I think it's a cowardly and selfish thing to do, but many will do it because they fear that they'll never find someone who'll accept them if they don't. That's just the reality of it.

I understand how one can judge transgenders for that, because it's a selfish act regardless of their gender.


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