Kiddie playgrounds... Gadam parents/adults

[theveed]

My son LOVES to play sa mga playgrounds ng Jolibee/Mcdo or basta play area (free or may bayad)...

In general he almost never pushes anyone, says sorry kung may natapakan, says excuse me if he wants a turn, and he's only 2.

Kanina my wife brought him and my 7 yo neice sa McDo sa may Sports Center ng Marikina, a 3 year-old kid pushed my son TWICE hard and naiyak sya, nakita ng wife ko, napasigaw "wag pong manulak, may nasasaktan" dun sa bata.

Being a kid syempre laro padin yung bata. Sinabihan ng wife ko yung grandparents na kasabay nung nanulak na nananakit yung alaga nila, paki bantayan naman.

Di man lang nag sorry, tinignan lang asawa ko at inisnab sya.

Mind you "may kaya" yung kasama nung bata, magara suot, naka Filipiniana type pa yung lola.

Ayaw nga lang umalis pa nung anak ko so laro pa sila.

When they left, nagsumbong yung niece ko na nung nasa tube sila may nag push din sa anak ko na mas malaking kid kasi naghahabulan sa loob...

Now while those rowdy kids do tick me off, I don't really get mad at them kasi bata yun eh, naglalaro lang sila and usually kids under 8-10 can't related to "more fragile", younger kids...

Now the parents/yaya/bantay are the MOST annoying A-holes lagi...

Dati when I was watching my son play sa Playroom sa Mega (I was with him sa loob), a 10 year old fat kid kept hogging all the toys, pinaiyak pa yung dalawang bata kasi inagaw yung gamit... Yung lintek na nanak sabi "o tama na, madami na yan ha, ilagay mo na dun sa bahay na linalaro mo".

Generations and generations of IDIOTS lagi nakikita ko dito...

There's ZERO way that most kids will end up being model, sociable members of society when they have nobody in their household that has an ounce of social responsibility in them.

[nugundam93]

exactly. it's so sad.

[wulf]

very typical, kaya kami we bought our own little tykes slide e, so the kids can play all they want without being bullied...malinis pa! of course kids are kids and they'll want to eat there from time to time, so we avoid bringing them pag madami masyado kids sa playground, especially on weekends para maiwasan talaga mga kunsintidorang parents/yaya & their undisciplined brood

sometimes you'll encounter pa yung mga walang ginawa kundi mag-text while those that they're supposed to be watching nakakasakit na and if you point it out to them, they'll just shrug their shoulders

[the_wildthing]

Minsan kasi pinababayaan lang sa yaya, or kahit yung magulang, pinababayaan lang, katwiran, "bata yan". Which I think is sometimes wrong. Dapat nga habang bata saka mo tinuturuan kung anong tama at mali. Dun lang naman sila makikinig sa 'yo. Pag matanda na, wala ka nang magagawa.

[Flagg]

Accidentally mo tapakan yung paa ng matanda sabay dedma... ahihi.

[Fast Eddie]

buti ung bata ko di cya nanunulak kung nakipaglaro sa mga ibang bata.

ung apo ng sister ko, nanunulak ung batang un. minsan noon mga 5 or 6 y/o siguro palang sila pinagtutulak nya ung cousin nyang babae na kasing edad
nya. nag-iiyak ung babaeng pamangkin ko. kaya ung anak ko ayaw ko cyang ilapit doon sa apo ng sister ko. kaci, masyadong violente ung apo ng sis ko. naku!#**, kundi lang apo ng sis ko un, sarap siguro kutusin sa ulo.

kaya ako iwas na lang sa mga public playground ng mga fast food resto.
kaci, maraming makukuhang mga sakit ang mga bata jan. ung anak ko nun,
madalas makakuha ng sipon sa mga ibang bata. kaci, di naman masyadong
sina-sanitized ung mga playground nila. kaya ako di na bale, sa park na lang
cya.

pero toto un, maraming mga parents/yaya jan, di nila alam turuan ung mga
anak/apo nila na di manulak ng ibang bata.

kaya ako nun, pag ung anak ko nanunulak, pinapalo ko at pinagsasabihan ko para masaktan cya. kaci mas mabuti na ung saktan/paluin mong anak mo, kesa naman makasakit cya ng ibang bata. baka pati ung mga parents/
grandparenst nung bata maka-away mo pa silang di oras, dahil lang sa mga bata.

that was my experienced.

[CaRGirL]

my son has also bad experiences sa mga kiddie playgrounds, to a point na ayaw na nya maglaro ulet. it took weeks/months before he started playing in a kiddie playground. kasi naman may isang bigger boy ('round 7 y/o) tinulak ang anak ko then tumama sa isang toy ang face nya.

my mom, told my son, if someone pushes you, push him back. sabi ko sa mom ko, wag naman turuan ng masama. sabi ng mom ko, self defense lang naman daw.

i don't feel its right. i told my son na magsumbong na lang sa akin pag may tumulak or mangbully sa kanya.

[Jun aka Pekto]

When my daughter was younger, some kid pushed her to the floor at the mall playpen. I didn't hesitate one bit and got on his face. When his mom intervened, I told her what her son did and he got a spanking on the spot.

Other times, I'd get on the playpen with my daughter. If some kid started pushing her around, I'd do the same thing to him. If he took a toy from my kid, I took it right back. Eventually, that kid got the idea. If the parents had a problem with it, they had to deal with me. I try to nip problems in the bud before it gets worse.

[mazdamazda]

not just in playgrounds... even in malls or any public place ganyan.

ang lilikot ng mga anak... they would constantly run around then bump into you (without even saying sorry) while their freaking parents are just watching.

minsan nakikipag-away na sa ibang kids, yung parents walang paki.

[m2's kumander]

naku sir theveed you can't expect na kahit na galing sa buena de familia eh maganda asal. mas madaming spoiled brat.

whenever my niece is here in manila, we would go to eastwood so he can play.
yun kid, i guess is 7 yrs old. he pushed my niece (who is just 3yrs old.) and nahulog yun pamangkin ko sa stairs nung slide.

gosh di ako nakapagpigil, nilapitan ko yun bata and told him to be careful, lumapit yun nanay at sinabi na bakit ko daw inaway yun anak nya.
haller...nakita naman nya yun ginawa nung anak nya.

siguro nasa pagpapalaki yun ng mga parents. di pwedeng reason na kasi dahil bata. hay.... :nono:

[nicolodeon]

siguro nasa pagpapalaki yun ng mga parents. di pwedeng reason na kasi dahil bata. hay.... :nono:

Yep I agree.

[ILuvDetailing]

gosh di ako nakapagpigil, nilapitan ko yun bata and told him to be careful, lumapit yun nanay at sinabi na bakit ko daw inaway yun anak nya.
haller...nakita naman nya yun ginawa nung anak nya.

Geez, di ata niya binabantayan anak niya? o atleast man lang tignan kung ano ginagawa? Masyado ata silang busy sa kanilang trabaho or whatever they're doing. what if nadisgrasya yung natulak ng anak niya? puro sarili lang iniicip.

[edTV]

Theveed, like most of us I'm a protective father as well. Recently, I took my daughter to active fun, since we did'nt bring the yaya with us I had to go with my daughter inside the play area. The bigger kids were really rowdy and they don't mind pushing and shoving smaller children. There's this one big kid pushing he's way thru that I just can't help but push back, ayun semplang buti nga.

That's why on sundays we try to catch the earliest mass para walang rowdy children running around. Once the priest stopped in the middle of the sermon to give a sermon to the parents of the rowdy bunch

[vhenok]

Minsan kasi pinababayaan lang sa yaya, or kahit yung magulang, pinababayaan lang, katwiran, "bata yan". Which I think is sometimes wrong. Dapat nga habang bata saka mo tinuturuan kung anong tama at mali. Dun lang naman sila makikinig sa 'yo. Pag matanda na, wala ka nang magagawa.

very well said sir WT!

Habang bata, dapat disiplinado na agad. They should be thought what's bad or not....and the importance of friendship by means of sharing!

Dami kaming natuto ng mga kids ko kay Barney eh!

[cyrusblutrooper]

very true, mapapansin nyo kalimitan kung sino yung ang kasama ay yaya o maids yun ang mga stubborn. kulang sa pansin ang ibang kids maybe yung parents nila work ang primary focus nila, too bad.

[empy]

sapakin mo na lang kaagad yung parent para quits na kayo sa anak

[m2's kumander]

sapakin mo na lang kaagad yung parent para quits na kayo sa anak

:twak: haha. ayos!!!

madami namang factor why some kids are really that bad...friends, media, parents, etc.

siguro..for parent and future parents. we should really spend more time with the kids.

pero may mga batang sadyang sutil...share ko lang yun cousin ko na laking guam...7 yrs old...pinakulong yun parents nya...kasi daw sinasaktan sya.
di naman totoo. napanood lang daw nya sa tv...ayun ginaya ng loko.

[mrpink]

kakapanood yan ng wrestling sa tv .. hehe ..

[city]

those parenst get a kick out of watching their kids bully other kids because it gives them a sort of revenge when they were also beaten when they were kids.

[theveed]

Sa mga magulang talaga ako galit, di ko sisisihin media, ampucha 7yo palang ako nanood na akong wrestling linggo-linggo at kung ano-anong bayolenteng HK martial arts movie sa bahay hehe...

Wala lang talaga utak mga hinayupak...

City: Malamang hehe.