How to break-up with ur partner?

[kiper]

;)

without any reason..na kesyo palaging nag-aaway..etc..pano kung di mo na talaga mahal ung gf/bf mo? ano magandang gawin tungkol dito?

how to break-up without any hard-feelings or anything related to that..?

[odell]

you deserve someone better than me

[27th_Faktory]

hindi naman kaya yun no hard feeling kahit hindi nya pinapakita may galit pa rin syo sa loob yan.......

hahapan mo ng butas hehehehehe

[mbt]

odell,

medyo super gasgas na yung line na yan ha hehehe

[empy]

sorry...but i just realized i'm gay

[ARB]

odell yan ba ang line na ginamit sa yo?

[the_godfather]

kiper, you seriously want to break up with her? has the fire run out / the water run dry, so to speak?
guys would normally say the line (to borrow from odell) "you deserve someone better", but to tell you frankly, this line is so used...and i'm sure your gf is smart enough to see through that, right? sometimes it can be annoying how guys seem to underestimate the intelligence of the female species...
if you really want to end it nicely and not add more damage to the break-up, you can do it gradually...small hints, inconsistencies, etc...make her feel that it's you who's wrong (caveat: since you want to break up wit her, you have to carry the brunt of being the bad guy, even if you're not) - i'm not saying that this happens all the time, but it's better than just telling her flat out that you've fallen out of love - if you do this, she'll plague you with the question "why?" and she might not accept / belive it right away, she may even try to persuade you into thinking that you're temporarily deluded and that you'll get back together eventually. girls are a mean specie, kiper. hehehe...
but of course, the best judge would have to be you coz you're the one who knows how your woman will handle it. good luck in breaking up (sounds weird? kinda paradoxical, huh?)

[Litespeed]

Just tell her you need some space. That you two need to grow up in separate ways. Sometimes "change" is good. Just look her in the eyes and tell her the truth. You just have to be adults to discuss this matter maturely. Good Luck.

[Toffee]

" i forgot to tell you, may asawa't anak pala ako "

im pretty sure this will work:D

[GlennSter]

kiper....lahat na ng posibleng "lines" ay nagamit na at gasgas na gasgas na.....

chaka there will be NO WORDS to make anyone better or not feel pain when breaking up...

kami nga ng ex ko..maganda ang pag break up..pero super sakit parin.....and it will always be like that..masakit kahit anong sabihin mo...

just tell her how you really feel...ung totoo...wag naman masyadong brutal.....

like siguro.."i feel na hindi na ako kasing saya at nag g grow gaya ng dati......." etc..etc...

good luck.

[gretzy]

i agree wid glenn, tell her d truth, imo it hurts more when i know the reason n he doesn't wanna admit it, ayaw namin ng lokohan

[pnay_fickle_minded]

mahirap talaga makipag-break lalo na pag di mutual... for me, mas gusto ko meron muna sya gawin para mag-away kami, then sabay break na... mahirap kasi eh, lalo na kapag ayaw ka pa nya pakawalan...

[ghosthunter]

Breaking up is always painful especially if you are on the "receiving" end. There is no way to make it less painful. No words to make it easier. No actions that can make it softer.

[chieffy]

siguro umpisahan mo sa, "mag-break muna tayo"...(silence)...tatanungin ka niya ng "bakit?"....sabihin mo na totoo...

[ghosthunter]

usually guys & girls use the term "cool-off" when they actually want to say break-up just to make it easier.

[kiper]

ang hirap..tagal ko na ring nagabbalak..parati nya kong tinatanong kung mahal ko pa sya..di ako makasagot ng diretso..ung last time (saturday) di na talaga ako sumagot..huhu..pero sinasabi niya na willing syang makipag-break sakin kung hindi ko na talaga sya mahal (10 months na din kame) kase wala naman daw syang magagawa about dun..di naman daw niya ko pwedeng pilitin..sabay babanatan nya ko na mahal nya ako..huhu..


i hate to be tha bad guy..ayoko din maghanap ng butas..parang ako rin ung bad guy nun..saka mabait talaga gf ko..pano ba yan..?

[pnay_fickle_minded]

di ka na siguro na-chachallenge kaya parang nagsawa ka na...

medyo nahalata na rin pala nya... suko din sya pag di na nya kaya... pero siguro u have to tell her gently na u need space for awhile ... pano ang gently? basta tell her in a nice and dramatic way para di naman harsh sa kanya, nakakahalata na rin sya na parang ayaw mo na diba

[baiskee]

Originally posted by pnay_fickle_minded
di ka na siguro na-chachallenge kaya parang nagsawa ka na...

medyo nahalata na rin pala nya... suko din sya pag di na nya kaya... pero siguro u have to tell her gently na u need space for awhile ... pano ang gently? basta tell her in a nice and dramatic way para di naman harsh sa kanya, nakakahalata na rin sya na parang ayaw mo na diba

yup, i agree with pinay..hinay-hinay lang baka mabigla and besides naiintindihan ka pala eh.

and bait naman nya, ikaw muna ang inisip.
(hehe, nangunsensya b?)

[fierari]

Originally posted by Toffee
" i forgot to tell you, may asawa't anak pala ako "

im pretty sure this will work:D

walanjo hehehehhehe

[an_01]

Originally posted by kiper
ang hirap..tagal ko na ring nagabbalak..parati nya kong tinatanong kung mahal ko pa sya..di ako makasagot ng diretso..ung last time (saturday) di na talaga ako sumagot..huhu..pero sinasabi niya na willing syang makipag-break sakin kung hindi ko na talaga sya mahal (10 months na din kame) kase wala naman daw syang magagawa about dun..di naman daw niya ko pwedeng pilitin..sabay babanatan nya ko na mahal nya ako..huhu..


i hate to be tha bad guy..ayoko din maghanap ng butas..parang ako rin ung bad guy nun..saka mabait talaga gf ko..pano ba yan..?

ey kiper! i think your girl really loves you that much...and if you don't feel the same way anymore, you better tell her the truth na kung wala na talaga. like what the song says, "there's no easy way to break somebody's heart..."
so i guess the only way for you to deal with the situation is to be totally honest with her...and tell her how you really feel. telling her the truth may doesn't necessarily mean that you are breaking up with her na...malay mo during the course of your discussion/revelation, you might have this realization that you still feel somethin for her pala, and that all you need to do is rekindle the fire of your love for her...