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  1. Join Date
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    Did you get the feeling that you threw away something you may not find again?

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    yeah maybe i did... but who knows.. you'll only find that out if you do get married?

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    I might have. But, it is/was my belief that she didn't "truly" loved me...

    7303:soda:

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    Quote Originally Posted by CVT View Post

    I might have. But, it is/was my belief that she didn't "truly" loved me...

    7303:soda:


    yeah i guess that makes it easier...

    but what if you know that he/she truly loves you?

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    i don't entertain regrets. i don't wanna punish myself by carrying such burden all my life.

    if it were a case of true love he should have fought for it at a time when i was incapable and eventually proved me wrong.

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    I cheated on my "first love"

    But what hurts you only makes you stronger..

    So i've regret things i've done before, but there's no way to turnback time...
    So live with what you have done, and be smarter of your actions in the future. :-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by ab_initio View Post
    i don't entertain regrets. i don't wanna punish myself by carrying such burden all my life.

    if it were a case of true love he should have fought for it at a time when i was incapable and eventually proved me wrong.
    what if he did try to fight back, but it was too painful that it destroyed his will..

    eventually proved you wrong... would that actually happen in your situation?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CVT View Post

    I might have. But, it is/was my belief that she didn't "truly" loved me...

    7303:soda:
    +1. She still likes to play around with somebody else. And still wants me on the side.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blutut View Post
    Did you get the feeling that you threw away something you may not find again?
    i thought so, pero minsan may dadating pa rin pala na mas magmamahal sa yo

  10. Join Date
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    Yup, and it's not always easy to break somebody's heart

  11. Join Date
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    Yes. I have a lot of regrets and my friends never fail to remind me of some of the good guys that I let go.

    I guess when you are young you cannot compromise the attributes that you want in a person. I hate how I was shallow when I was younger.

    I know how it feels like to be rejected too. Karma I guess.
    Last edited by _Cathy_; November 22nd, 2010 at 04:43 PM.

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    yup! do I regret it? nope. part of growing up.
    Last edited by shadow; November 22nd, 2010 at 05:03 PM.

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    2x

    1st nung 17-18 palang ako...Wala kasi ako choice kasi magkalayo kami ng lugar and super! as in SUPER YAMAn nila talaga and promdi naman ako noon tapos yung girl pa ay halos lahat ng gusto ko ay bibigay nya pero hindi ko naman kaya paasahin yung girl. ANg sakit! ANd feeling tanga-tanga ko hanggang ngayon.

    Yung 2nd girl naman ay masyadong obsessed siya sa akin kahit hindi naman kami naging official na maging kami. Pinasakit nya masyado ulo ko kasi nagbantang magpapakamatay tapos sinusumbong pa ako sa mother nya. Last month lang ay nagpunta mom nya sa bahay namin kasi ayaw daw lumabas ng room nya kapag hindi ko sya pinuntahan sa bahay nila.

  14. Join Date
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    Madami na rin kaso kaya guilty talaga ako. Haha. Hope they've moved on na. :D

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    i just did....

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    Quote Originally Posted by blutut View Post
    Did you get the feeling that you threw away something you may not find again?
    Kung something yes, and some of the times hindi naman sinasadya.

    If true love, nope. I don't believe in fairy tales and "love at first sight" din eh. Plus real love means continuing with the relationship even if you have reached the point of "its getting to predictable, common and boring" between the two of you. That's when the brain functions above the heart. Well, at least for me. ;)
    Fasten your seatbelt! Or else... Driven To Thrill!

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    yes, and it haunts me the past decade...

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    YES. Though years have passed, I still feel pangs of guilt everytime it crosses my mind. We were together for a long time and I even assumed that we would end up together but I guess fate had different ideas.

    She really loved me but during our time together, we fought like cats and dogs. Sadly, we were fighting over mundane topics. It built up inside me and just got to me--all that competition and resentment; It was the straw that broke the camel's back when I finally realized I couldn't deal with her anymore.

    You know how difficult it is when a couple has been together for a long time and nag-break? Let's just say there's a period na parang hindi break. One party assumes that everything is still fine and dandy as if reality hasn't sunk in. Then afterwards, the dam breaks.

    So, at first, she was angry at me when I broke it off for real. Ako na ang sumuko. She called me names, texted me relentlessly saying how spiteful she is. Then she would backtrack and apologize, saying sorry daw and bati na daw kami. I didn't budge at all.

    Nakita ko siya umiyak, pleading na balikan ko siya. But still, although sobrang hirap, I couldn't deal with it anymore. Ako na lang ang maging masama.

    So time has passed. We're good friends na (both of us are in a relationship with another person). But still, some of the guilt haunts me. Siguro I just have to live with it and be a better person.

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    I-chapter na ninyo iyan, bros and sis.

    Move on,- and never look back....

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    Oo meron na. I had to take the hard path na suyuin pa ung present gf ko ngaun kaysa dun ako sa mahal na ako. Buti naman naintindihan niya ko. Wala kasi talaga ako feelings para dun. syempre kaya nagpakahirap ako kay present gf ko dahil mahal ko talaga.

Have you ever dumped someone who truly loves you?