Girl Question

**laklak** · February 13th, 2008 11:27 PM

Just in time for valentines... maybe the experts could help me out

I work for a fairly large company, so my circle of friends is limited to my department.

There is a girl who i often see at work, she is from a different department and any chance of a link (common friends) is totally non existent.

Im having a hard time coming up with a way to make a first move. Im somewhat hesitant to approach her since i dont want to seem too eager, plus i dont want to mess up since i often see her around and i want to avoid awkward moments just in case.

Most likely she notices me, its just a gut feel that i have, but i really dont want to read too much into anything.

Any inputs?

**hungryalien** · February 13th, 2008 11:38 PM

just got for it! no pain no gain..

if she snob you, ok lang.. di naman kayo same department.. if she talks to you, eh di good!

tomorrow might be a good day to do so.. just come up with a silly/funny approach and blame it on valentines day

good luck!

**laklak** · February 13th, 2008 11:50 PM

thanks for the inputs. Accounting sya, engineering ako.

**EGcoolmhan** · February 14th, 2008 09:33 AM

Originally Posted by hungryalien

just got for it! no pain no gain..

if she snob you, ok lang.. di naman kayo same department.. if she talks to you, eh di good!

tomorrow might be a good day to do so.. just come up with a silly/funny approach and blame it on valentines day

good luck!

bro,

ako sa iyo...deskarteng malupet.

**rsscertified** · February 14th, 2008 09:42 AM

I would suggest - make use of the Valentines day and have deliver some flowers to her - pwedeng hindi roses for the meantime.. Make sure to leave your name/dept/local number - of course when she receives it she'll call you up and thank you for the flowers you sent.. Then approach her personally to finally introduce yourself - "Hi, my name is .." and so on.. make the move now.. First impression lasts everytime.. Sabayan mo ng Axe colongne na din

good luck!

**rsscertified** · February 14th, 2008 09:47 AM

oh yeah - I forgot - make sure to strike a conversation with her - talk about her work, hobbies, kung medyo may common hilig kayo, strike that one up too - then don't forget - invite her for a drink - you could say "let's have a drink sometime is that ok?" naks! ayan na lakasan na ng loob yan pre. hehe.. Tapos after the talk, ask her for her number/mobile/ym/msn etc.. then constantly communicate with the girl.

**raine** · February 14th, 2008 09:57 AM

yes go for it, lakasan lang ngloob yan, kung di mo susubukan di mo malalaman, kaya ng kung minsan yung panget pa ang nakakapagpasagot sa maganda kasi siya ang malakas ang loob manligaw.

**chua_riwap** · February 14th, 2008 09:58 AM

Pa'no Lak, kung sabihin sa iyo........

"Salamat sa atensyon and pagki-care mo sa akin. Pero may BF na ako. Let's just be friends na lang..........."

Patay!

**Syuryuken** · February 14th, 2008 09:47 AM

tama si yebo hinay-hinay lang, iba ang diskarte sa professional at sa pakawalang babae

pero pag bibigyan ka ng sign arya kapatid wag mo ng pakawalan

**russpogi** · February 13th, 2008 11:38 PM

Hmmm.. What dept are you and is she from, if I may ask?

**yebo** · February 13th, 2008 11:48 PM

lakasan lang ng loob yan. or in other words, pakapalan ng mukha

pag nakita mo, e di say "hi. kamusta? ano balita? grabe ang init dun sa office namin, wala ba vacancy dyan sa inyo?? pag sumagot, e di kausapin.

next time mo makita, say "hi" ulit. "kamusta" ulit. pag sumagot, kausapin ulit.

wag mo ask name nya, hayaan mo siya magsabi. parang "ay oo nga pala ako si laklak. uy hindi ah, nick ko lang ang laklak, di ako lasenggo. ikaw umiinom ka? i mean tubig? meryenda tayo minsan." pag tumawa, tawa ka din. pag di pa din sinabi sa iyo ang name, sori ka kasi may boypren na sya! joke!

put your best butt forward, basta cool ka lang tsong! wag ka manliligaw agad, basted ka agad nyan. friends muna saka na yung flowers and chocolates. pag binigay na sa u ang cel number, yan pwede ka na gumire. soft approach, di na uso ngayon ang gulpi de gulat

**laklak** · February 13th, 2008 11:53 PM

Originally Posted by yebo

lakasan lang ng loob yan. or in other words, pakapalan ng mukha

pag nakita mo, e di say "hi. kamusta? ano balita? grabe ang init dun sa office namin, wala ba vacancy dyan sa inyo?? pag sumagot, e di kausapin.

next time mo makita, say "hi" ulit. "kamusta" ulit. pag sumagot, kausapin ulit.

wag mo ask name nya, hayaan mo siya magsabi. parang "ay oo nga pala ako si laklak. uy hindi ah, nick ko lang ang laklak, di ako lasenggo. ikaw umiinom ka? i mean tubig? meryenda tayo minsan." pag tumawa, tawa ka din. pag di pa din sinabi sa iyo ang name, sori ka kasi may boypren na sya! joke!

put your best butt forward, basta cool ka lang tsong! wag ka manliligaw agad, basted ka agad nyan. friends muna saka na yung flowers and chocolates. pag binigay na sa u ang cel number, yan pwede ka na gumire. soft approach, di na uso ngayon ang gulpi de gulat

ok, binigyan mo ako ng idea. salamat!

**chua_riwap** · February 14th, 2008 02:11 AM

Tama si Yebs, hinay-hinay muna. Kaibiganin mo muna siya. Tiyag lang yan.......

**pitbullz** · February 14th, 2008 02:17 AM

gumamit ka ng axe cologne

**n2knee** · February 14th, 2008 03:10 AM

bro, naalala mo pa ba yung kasabihang, "never $h!t where you eat?"

**n2knee** · February 14th, 2008 03:23 AM

Originally Posted by yebo

put your best butt forward, basta cool ka lang tsong! wag ka manliligaw agad, basted ka agad nyan. friends muna saka na yung flowers and chocolates. pag binigay na sa u ang cel number, yan pwede ka na gumire. soft approach, di na uso ngayon ang gulpi de gulat

naalala ku yung office mate ko noong bagong salta pa ako sa corporate world. isa siang indonesian (matanda sia sa akin ng limang taon). kinaibigan ko sia dahil, ika nga, may intention akong iba. mga ilang bwan na ang aming pagiging magkaibigan ay hindi ko pa masabi sabi ang gusto ko hanggan sa isang umaga na lang binigyan ko sya ng isang dosenang bulaklak. ok na sana, kaso ang sumira sa aking diskarte ay yung pagsasabi ko sa message ng "i love you!" ang sabi nya, hindi daw genuine iyung pagkakasabi ko dahil masyado daw maaga para maramdaman na mahal mo ang isang tao...

**zaza.altis** · February 14th, 2008 08:42 AM

galing talaga advice ni sir yebo

. makalaglag.... Casual lang muna sa una para kung sakaling hindi meron ka pa mukhang ihaharap sa kanya. If you don't go for it somebody else will and you will never know

.

**uls** · February 14th, 2008 09:23 AM

Laklak goes to accounting dept...

laklak: "Hi, i'm from the engineering dept."

girl: "So?"

laklak goes back to engineering.

**roninblade** · February 14th, 2008 08:47 PM

Originally Posted by uls

Laklak goes to accounting dept...

laklak: "Hi, i'm from the engineering dept."

girl: "So?"

laklak goes back to engineering.

hangkulet! hahahah! parang pwede sa episode ng Dilbert or ng the I.T. Crowd

**Djerms** · February 14th, 2008 02:57 PM

Originally Posted by yebo

lakasan lang ng loob yan. or in other words, pakapalan ng mukha

pag nakita mo, e di say "hi. kamusta? ano balita? grabe ang init dun sa office namin, wala ba vacancy dyan sa inyo?? pag sumagot, e di kausapin.

next time mo makita, say "hi" ulit. "kamusta" ulit. pag sumagot, kausapin ulit.

wag mo ask name nya, hayaan mo siya magsabi. parang "ay oo nga pala ako si laklak. uy hindi ah, nick ko lang ang laklak, di ako lasenggo. ikaw umiinom ka? i mean tubig? meryenda tayo minsan." pag tumawa, tawa ka din. pag di pa din sinabi sa iyo ang name, sori ka kasi may boypren na sya! joke!

put your best butt forward, basta cool ka lang tsong! wag ka manliligaw agad, basted ka agad nyan. friends muna saka na yung flowers and chocolates. pag binigay na sa u ang cel number, yan pwede ka na gumire. soft approach, di na uso ngayon ang gulpi de gulat

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