What's a meantime girl?

**karlbo** · July 18th, 2006 09:51 PM

share ko lang to... medyo may kaunting link ito sa pseudo relationships...

What's a meantime girl?

She's the one you call when you’re bored because she makes you laugh. She's the one you talk to when you're feeling down because she's willing to lend an ear and be a friend. She's not the one you call when you need a date to your Company's Christmas party, or to go dancing with on a Saturday night. She's the one you spend time with between
girlfriends, before you find "The One". You know the one who you keep around in the meantime.

She's not one of the guys, not a tomboy, but you don't look at her as a "real" woman, either. She's not bitchy enough, moody enough, or ***y enough to be seen in that light. She's too laid-back; too easily amused by the same things your male buddies are amused by. She's too understanding, too comfortable - she doesn't make you feel nervous or excited the way a "real" woman does. But she's cool, and nice, and funny, and attractive enough that when you're lonely or horny and need intimate female companionship, she'll do just fine. You don't have to wine and dine her because she knows the real you already, and you don't have any facades to keep up, no pretenses to preserve. You're not trying to get anything of substance out of her. She's not easy, but you know that she cares about you and is attracted to you, and that she'll give you the intimacy you need. And you know you don't have to explain yourself or the situation, that she'll be able to cope with the fact that this isn't the beginning of a relationship or that there's any possibility that you have any real romantic feelings for her. It won't bother her that you'll get up in the morning, put on your pants, say goodbye, and go on a date with the woman you've been mooning over for weeks who finally agreed to go out with you. She'll settle for a goodbye hug and a promise to call her and tell her how the date went. She does just so cool . . . why can’t all women be like that?! But deep down, if you really think about it (which you probably don't because to you, the situation between the two of you isn't important enough to merit any real thought), you know that it's really not fair. You know that although she would never say it, it hurts her to know that
despite all her good points and all the fun you two have, you don't think she's good enough to spend any real time with. Sure, it's mostly her fault, because she doesn't have to give in to your needs – she could play the hard-to-get bitch like the rest of them do, if she really wanted to. But you and she both know that she probably couldn't pull it off. Maybe she's too short, or a little overweight, or has a big birthmark on her forehead, or works at Taco Bell, or just really not that type. Whatever the reason, somehow life has given her a lot of really great qualities but has left
out the ones that men want (or think they want) in a woman. So she remains forever the funny friend, the steadfast companion, the secret lover, and you go on searching for your goddess who will somehow be everything you ever wanted in a woman. You'll joke to her that she should be the best man at your wedding, and she'll laugh and make a joke about a smelly rental tux. She doesn't captivate you with her beauty or open doors with her smile. Mainly she blends in with the crowd. She's safe. She doesn't want to be the center of attention and turn the heads of everyone in
the room. But she wants to turn someone's head. She wants to be special to someone, too. We all do. She has feelings. She has a heart. In fact, she probably has a bigger and better heart than any woman you've ever known because she's had a front-row seat to The Mess That Is Your Life, and she likes you anyway. She obviously sees something worthwhile and redeeming in you because although you've given her nothing, absolutely no reason to still be around, she is.

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**cutedoc** · July 18th, 2006 09:57 PM

another word for it : friday girl=)

**van_wilder** · July 18th, 2006 10:13 PM

karl meantime girl ka na?

**karlbo** · July 18th, 2006 11:06 PM

Originally Posted by van_wilder

karl meantime girl ka na?

hehehe share ko lang naman eh.. medyo ganito ang nafifill ng mga girls that is into pseudo relationships

**GlennSter** · July 19th, 2006 01:11 AM

it's actually their choice...

pero minsan napapnsin ko sa friends ko na naging meantime girl eh wala silang magawa kasi gusto talaga nila yung guy even if alam nilang for the meantime lang sila...

**russpogi** · July 19th, 2006 04:05 AM

Karl! Girl ka na pala!

hehehe!

Seriously, tama si Glenn. It's thier choice to be or not to be a "meantime girl". Sometimes, girls really need to unload their feelings but oftentimes with "some guy" and that "guy" takes advantage of the situation by making her his "meantime girl". It's not right and definitly not good. Wawa naman yung girl.

**finchy18** · July 19th, 2006 07:47 AM

Originally Posted by russpogi

Karl! Girl ka na pala!

hehehe!

Seriously, tama si Glenn. It's thier choice to be or not to be a "meantime girl". Sometimes, girls really need to unload their feelings but oftentimes with "some guy" and that "guy" takes advantage of the situation by making her his "meantime girl". It's not right and definitly not good. Wawa naman yung girl.

hahaha! russ.. mabait c russ ngayun ah..

**empy** · July 19th, 2006 08:08 AM

i thought it was kinda like a "Hollaback Girl"

**mazdamazda** · July 19th, 2006 09:58 AM

in short... she's just one of your friends...

**alwayz_yummy** · July 19th, 2006 10:05 AM

pwede din naman mangyari din sa guy eto,e...

hey not that im saying its me.......sometimes, i get my meantime girl to talk with or im a meantime boy with my girl <space> friends.....may better half na ako,e

**Altis6453** · July 19th, 2006 10:35 AM

I think I've come across the article or post before...

**1D4LV** · July 19th, 2006 10:59 AM

fafa karl: sino "meantime" girl mo ngayon ha? hehehehehe.

**BlueBimmer** · July 19th, 2006 11:03 AM

kala ko bootycall girl..wrong thread

**karlbo** · July 19th, 2006 08:58 PM

Originally Posted by happy_gilmore

fafa karl: sino "meantime" girl mo ngayon ha? hehehehehe.

Iinum nalang natin yan pare... pag nagkita kita nalang tayo siguro.. heheh

Originally Posted by ownertype

I knew it at ikaw ang author nito. i saw this coming. hayuf ka karl. he he he.

hmmm... medyo matagal na kasi tayong hindi nagkakakwentuhan...

Originally Posted by happy_gilmore

nyahahahaha! same thought pre.... para bang alam ko na in advance na may gagawing ganito si karl....

hayuf!

kaya ata ako nadadalas sa may south?! hehehe

Originally Posted by ian_rex

hehehe. just my wild thoughts.

i agree she happens to be your friend. your closest girl friend. note girl friend is different from girlfriend.

its tricky because 1) it is disastrous to your wonderful friendship 2) you might fall for her and subsequently go back to #1.

saka isa pa, kawawa naman yung 'meantime girl' na yun. para syang basahan. pag gamit na,tapon na

believe me. i've been once a 'meantime boy'. hehehehehe

same thoughts... WILD! hehe

**skyglider** · July 19th, 2006 11:08 AM

yun pala yung nangyari sa kanta ni Lobo... How Can I Tell Her yata ang title.

meantime girl nya pala yung chick dont...

**isketi** · July 19th, 2006 11:47 PM

Originally Posted by skyglider

yun pala yung nangyari sa kanta ni Lobo... How Can I Tell Her yata ang title.

meantime girl nya pala yung chick dont...

Mas bagay ata yung kanta ni Bituin Escalante sa mga meantime girls:

Heto ka na naman
Kumakatok saking pintuan
Muli naghahanap ng makakausap
At heto naman ako
Nakikinig sa mga kwento mong paulit-ulit lang
Nagtitiis kahit nasasaktan ...

Ewan ko bakit ba hindi ka pa nadadala
Hindi ba't kailan lang nang ika'y iwanan nya
At ewan ko nga sa 'yo
Parang balewala ang puso ko
Ano nga bang meron siya
Na sa akin ay di mo makita ...

Refrain:
Kung ako na lang sana ang iyong minahal
Di ka na muling mag-iisa
Kung ako na lang sana ang iyong minahal
Di ka na muling luluha pa
Di ka na mangangailangan pang humanap ng iba
Narito ang puso ko
Naghihintay lamang sa iyo, oh-oh-oh ...

Heto pa rin ako
Umaasang ang puso mo
Baka sakali pang ito'y magbago
Narito lang ako
Kasama mo buong buhay mo
Ang kulang na lang
Mahalin mo rin akong lubusan ...
(Repeat refrain)

Kung ako na lang sana, oh-oh-oh..
(Repeat refrain)

Kung ako na lang sana ...

**Eismann** · July 19th, 2006 11:19 AM

Medyo off yata yung Lobo song comparison:

How can I tell her about you?
Girl, please tell me what to do?
Everything seems right, whenever I'm with you.
Oh girl, won't you tell me?
How to tell her about you?

Dito kasi sa Lobo song, the author is torn between a concubine and his wife.
Parang dito yata kasali majority ng tsikoteers...ha-ha-ha-ha

**ownertype** · July 19th, 2006 01:37 PM

I knew it at ikaw ang author nito. i saw this coming. hayuf ka karl. he he he.

**1D4LV** · July 19th, 2006 01:40 PM

Originally Posted by ownertype

I knew it at ikaw ang author nito. i saw this coming. hayuf ka karl. he he he.

nyahahahaha! same thought pre.... para bang alam ko na in advance na may gagawing ganito si karl....

hayuf!

**ian_rex** · July 19th, 2006 01:57 PM

hehehe. just my wild thoughts.

i agree she happens to be your friend. your closest girl friend. note girl friend is different from girlfriend.

its tricky because 1) it is disastrous to your wonderful friendship 2) you might fall for her and subsequently go back to #1.

saka isa pa, kawawa naman yung 'meantime girl' na yun. para syang basahan. pag gamit na,tapon na

believe me. i've been once a 'meantime boy'. hehehehehe

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