Ano gagawin niyo !!!!!! (Senti Moments)

[Hell_fire]

May Girlfriend ako. I know that I love her and she loves me. pero may past siya na it keeps on haunting me kasi ang common denominator namin ay parehas namin friend. Naging sila nung friend namin (yata ha!!!) it seems like in a million years na hindi talaga sila pwede so they broke up (sabi niya eh).

I know that she is reassuring me that I am the only one. I know and I feel that kaya lang parang nandun lagi ang kaba at takot ko na mawala siya.

Sabi nga nang friends namin, normal raw yun, pero parang di ko makuha ang logic or magulo lang ang utak ko na maparanoid.

I need your help guys. alam ko medyo magulo ang story ko.

Basta : Mahal ko siya at Mahal niya ko. Pano ko ba matatangal ang nararamdaman kong ito. I don't want her to feel na may nararamdaman akong kakaiba

Pero OK naman kami nang common denominator na friend namin

Help na lang guys

[IceColdBeer]

Advise ko lang... Just be yourself and never mind her past if you really love her. Same thing din dun sa fears mo na mawala sya kasi kung talagang mahal ka nya di mangyayari yun. I guess what you are feeling right now is insecurity lang dahil kilala mo yung ex nya pero sabi mo na din na alam mo mahal ka nya, so wala ka dapat na ikatakot.
HTH.

[pajerokid]

Pare, bury the hatchet and get on with your life. Wag mo na lang isipin, get busy with work or something. Accept the past coz you cant do anything about it.

[TEAL]

Originally posted by pajerokid
Pare, bury the hatchet and get on with your life. Wag mo na lang isipin, get busy with work or something. Accept the past coz you cant do anything about it.

......anyway kung tama ang fears mo, marami naman dyang iba!

[Hell_fire]

Ay bilis sagot nakakatuwa

Boss icecoldbeer - Yung nga po ang iniisip ko sabi nga sa isang post kung mahal mo accept who she/he is! siguro nakakatakot lang na malaman mo na maaring may possibility pa diba thanks po ulit

Boss Pajerokid - Lakas ko naman na isang moderator thank you po... pero natatakot lang siguro ako mawala siya kaya napaparanoid

Guys continue with the posting

[NightRock]

uh mukhang dati ka na poster dito nag palit lang hehehe

Good ahead with your life forget the past...mahirap kalabang ang pagiging paranoid....

[boknoyxtrm2001]

Nightrock,

Any in particular ????? heheheheheh


Any way hellfire,

ito lang ang masasabi ko....... If you really love the person accept for what he/she is, what she has... sometimes lang kasi you get to hear or see some points na kala mo you are in doubt.

Love her like you never love before.... expect that the common friend will always be there use him as someone to tighten your bonding.

I know you get what I mean

[yebo]

normal lang yan ma-insecure ka sa ex ng gf mo. ako ganyan din sa misis ko dati, seloso kasi insecure sa ex nya.

ang ginawa lang nya para mawala insecurities ko e inalis nya lahat ng connections dun sa ex nya. all gifts, all pictures, anything that will remind her of that relationship e kinalimutan nya. she even gave away jewellery to friends. so since she was the one who made the innitiative, ako din wala na rin ako reason na maging insecure.

misis ko din insecure sa ex ko dati. so ganun din ginawa ko, anything that reminded me of my ex went to the garbage can. even my old phone book i threw away. (yung engagement ring ng ex ko matagal na natapon sa Los Angeles hehehe! anyone for a 1k diamond solitaire, it's in the pacific ocean off the boardwalk!) anyway, total and complete ang ginawa kong pagtapon ng lahat ng memories para di ma-insecure ang misis ko (na gf ko pa lang nuon).

mahirap lang sa inyo ay friend mo din ang ex nya. so why not talk kayo 3? since sabi mo good terms kayo ng ex nya di ba, kausapin mo na kung pwede give some space for you and your gf to develop the relationship completely withour interference. ang problem e kung di pumayag gf mo na layuan na muna yung common "friend" ninyo. ibig sabihin nun e meron pa din. pag pumayag gf mo, solve ka na wala ka na dapat dahilan maging paranoid.

[Prometheus]

Niloloko ka lang ng gf mo, joke lang. Mahal ka ng gf mo kaya lang insecure ka sa friend nyo. Make your gf special, gawin mo yung di kayang gawin ng ex nya, kung gusto nya kasalan eh di pakasalan mo.

[pajerokid]

hellfire, no problemo dude. Lahat po kami dito mabait.

Back to your dillema. Lahat tayo may sariling way to cope with emotional stuff like this. Frankly, di na po ako tinatablan ng ganyan kasi gurang na ako. Its your responsibility to accept your gf's past and her responsibility to make you feel that the past is indeed buried.

Goodluck to you both Make love not war.

[OTEP]

Nung time na nawala na ang insecurities ko, bigla naman akong iniwan...

I'm not trying to dampen your spirit. Nagshe-share lang po...

[CaRGirL]

hmm... sounds familiar ang situation ah :D.. anyway...

as most of the previous posts say... just accept the person for what she is... you just have to spend more time with her to know what is the real situation... pero nasa utak lang ang doubts...

always remember na if ever there's something na gusto mo sabihin sa kanya or gusto mo gawin, better do/say it as early as now, or regret it for the rest of your life....

***by experience lang naman po...