Guys: Ok Lng Ba Manulot Ng Girlfriend???

[OTEP]

Originally posted in HCP: http://z3.invisionfree.com/HCP/index...howtopic=36937

I know the threadstarter. What do the Tsikoteers think?

Eto situasyon: hindi na kasi maayos samahan nila. nahihirapan yung girl. although wala nman sila balak maghiwalay. pero sumasama sayo lumabas yung girl. type mo yung girl. gs2 mo din nman sya maging gf. alam mo at ng girl na magiging masaya nman kyo kung magiging kyo. manunulot ka ba? post na for your opinions.

note: hypothetical lng po ito. wala itong kinalaman na tunay na pangyayari

[Memphis Raines]

What's the status with the boyfriend? Bestfriend or regular friend mo lang?

Kung si Erap pa, "It's depend.."

[VtEC]

kung best friend ko yong may gf forget it nalang.madaming babae kumpara sa dami ng bestfriend.pero kung kilala lang yong guy, why not.

[russpogi]

Kahit ano pa situation, it's ethically not right to do so. The best move is to wait for them to break up, then move in the picture. Respeto lang sa kapwa lalaki.

[jundogg]

not a good thing to do.
better wait for your turn if you really like the gurl.
let them finish their affair first before butting in.

[silver streak]

away o gulo ang pagtatapusan ng sulutan blues na yan...mas mabuti pa kung kakalas muna ang isa sa relationship para maiwasan ang gulo idudulot ng panunulot...sabi nga sa ten commandments--thou shall not steal; thou shall not covet thy neighbor's love; honor thy father and thy mother...

[Lucius]

Ok lang, basta magpapasulot yung girlfriend. Pag nagpasulot naman yung babae, iwanan mo na and wag ng balikan. Kung ikaw ang may problem, wag ka muna mang-husga. Baka marami kang kulang diba.

[maykel]

Kahit ano pa situation, it's ethically not right to do so. The best move is to wait for them to break up, then move in the picture. Respeto lang sa kapwa lalaki.

plus one here.. respeto sa kapwa lalaki. kung talaga type mo yun girl, wait for their relationship to end before pumasok sa eksena, otherwise wag na makisawsaw. dami pa girls and besides its not good to have a GF na nasulot mo lang. wala ka peace of mind dahil kung nagawa ng girl yun sa dati nyang BF, she can do it to you din.

[alwayz_yummy]

been there pre..

alam ko malabo sila noon, i assumed na wala na sila, kasi sa tagal na ng di nagkita...i butt-in, naging kami..... pero all the while "out-of-respect" daw di nya pinapaalam sa akin na nag-kikita parin sila ng unang BF nya than me...kahit anung tago nya/ginagamit palusot, or di ko nakita, alam ko na nakikipagkita siya sa original bf nya.

i even confronted the 2,e.. kunwari naligaw lang ako sa lugar na pinagkikitaan nila... thats why i did not chose her over my wife--reason: if she can kept i a secret to me during those days, mas lalo na pag siguro nagkatuluyan kami...

oh well, one thing is for sure that i can be proud of-- nagsisisi siya at binitawan nya ako! ganun din, iniwan din siya nung guy...an shes still single parin....

[zero]

ipapayo ko sa kanya...
kung seryoso ka dun sa chick, go for it!
pero kung sasaktan o gagamitin mo lang, huwag na lang bro.
give her a good friendly advice na lang re. her problem with her bf.

[Nelson de Leon]

The golden rule applies to all.

[mbeige]

Kahit ano pa situation, it's ethically not right to do so. The best move is to wait for them to break up, then move in the picture. Respeto lang sa kapwa lalaki.

Hindi lang ito respeto sa kapwa lalaki, pati na rin sa babae. If you completely respect the girl, you will not get involved until they're officially over.

Finally as others have mentioned, make sure hindi ka lang ginagamit ng babae. This means you must also respect yourself.

[Flagg]

My bro's and best buds GFs are verboten. All others are fair game.

Look at it this way, you're giving the lady an experience she can only have with you.

[6shooter]

My bro's and best buds GFs are verboten. All others are fair game.

Look at it this way, you're giving the lady an experience she can only have with you.

talaga po? yun ba ang tinatawag na "double standard"?

[dbuzz]

My bro's and best buds GFs are verboten. All others are fair game.

Look at it this way, you're giving the lady an experience she can only have with you.

ilibs talaga ako sa mga bitiw mo bro.. swak..

[[r]ichkri3g]

Kahit ano pa situation, it's ethically not right to do so. The best move is to wait for them to break up, then move in the picture. Respeto lang sa kapwa lalaki.

yup i agree. do not do unto others as you would expect they should do unto you. how would you feel if sayo naman ginawa yan? na agawin ang current gf mo?

[xTrememan]

eh kung alam naman pala nung girl na magiging masaya kayo kung magiging kayo... why not? gusto din naman nung babae... wala naman siguro magagawa current boyfriend nya kasi choice nung babae yun and nahihirapan na din sya... yun nga lang... baka magkasapakan kayo nung boyfriend nyan o sunugan ng bahay dahil ...

pero ewan... mejo magulo ang sitwasyon na yan.. kasi sabi pa eh wala naman sila balak maghiwalay... ang tanga naman nung babae... nahihirapan na nga sya ayaw pa nya humiwalay... hehe!

[falken]

Hintayin na lang niya pag officially break na yung couple. Mukhang di na rin tatagal pag di na masaya ang isa. Kesa makarma pa.

[orly_andico]

Sometimes people don't have any balak to leave a bad relationship because they cannot visualize any alternatives. Ganyan din yung mga abused spouses eh.

So... (without making any ulterior moves) show her how a guy should treat a girl. With any luck she'll realize that she can do better, and decide na maghiwalay.

OTOH, you would still get blamed anyway. But try to keep your nose clean and not actually induce her to break up. Just be there and be the bida to the current BF's contrabida.

[ooba99]

Yung kay Pedro, kay Pedro. Yung kay Juan, kay Juan. Wag agawin yung kay Pedro at Juan. Away yan!