tell a guy you like him, right or wrong?

[CaRGirL]

is it ok, or not, to tell a guy you like him...

he's nice, sweet, thoughtful & caring... i like him, but don't wanna fall 'coz i don't want to get hurt.

what should be done??

[nugundam93]

better to tell him what you feel kesa may mangyari pang iba. :D

pero not wanting to fall for him coz u don't wanna get hurt is iba rin...

[the_wildthing]

There is no right or wrong. It's ok. It's the nineties. (Ay hindi na pala.) But there are downsides to telling and not telling.

If you tell him and hindi ka pala nya type, maiilang yun.

If you tell him at type ka nya, baka i-take advantage lang.

If you don't and you lose him, you'll never know what could've been. He could also just be waiting for a sign. (Torpe naman nya kung ganon hehe.)

If you do and it doesn't work out, new thread nanaman yun.

And more...

So ang sagot dyan ay, "Sabihin mo na. Bahala na si Batman."

[jim]

just tell him in a friendly manner then everything will follow. just don't fall for him in an instant. it's really hard to stand up especially from a HARD FALL.

[CVT]

Real touchy. You may come in too strong for him and he would shy away, or he may think that you're *easy* and be taken advantage of.... I would be more inclined towards the former.

Anyway, this could be a crossroad for both of you, so my personal opinion is you tell him. In what way? I really cannot answer... Maybe just say it in a friendly manner like "What do you think our friends will say or think if they learned that we are sweethearts?... hahaha"

Good luck....

[1D4LV]

uy! CG, in love ka na ulit? hehehehehe. recovered na huh?
anyway, i really don't see anything wrong if you tell him you like him... you are just speaking your mind lang naman and that is your right. so what kung di ka nya type? at least nasabi mo yung nasasa loob mo. and if he is a friend, i am sure he will understand.

OT: bakit ba punong-puno ng love threads ngayon ang tsikot? epekto ba ito ng movie ni bea alonzo, john lloyd cruz and sam milby?

[city]

is it ok, or not, to tell a guy you like him...

he's nice, sweet, thoughtful & caring... i like him, but don't wanna fall 'coz i don't want to get hurt.

what should be done??

sounds to me you already fell....send him a flower. I'm always touched when girls tell me they like me...if i happen to like her too..i'm not touched..i'm ecstatic and will immediately plant a kiss on her lips.

[1D4LV]

sounds to me you already fell....send him a flower. I'm always touched when girls tell me they like me...if i happen to like her too..i'm not touched..i'm ecstatic and will immediately plant a kiss on her lips.

to add, send him flowers and chocolates. if you would want to go a step further with him, send him flowers, chocolates and a pack of condoms. bwehehehehe. just joking....

[Walter]

Inform him indirectly. If he finds out directly, he might just give mercy love.

[outmap]

Tell him... Wag mong itago ang nararamdaman mo sa kanya. I he likes you, good... If not, move on.

[Jun aka Pekto]

is it ok, or not, to tell a guy you like him...

he's nice, sweet, thoughtful & caring... i like him, but don't wanna fall 'coz i don't want to get hurt.

what should be done??

I don't see why not. If you get hurt (which I take you to mean rejection)...... Mmmm, tough one. Oh well. At least now, you'll know what countless guys go through at least once in their lifetime..... It's life, you know.

Of course, if you tell him you like him, it might give him the idea that he'll be batting a homerun with you, if you know what I mean. I'd say, wait and let the relationship develop on its own. Eventually, he'll be the one to make the move if he likes you.

Edit: At least it's not as direct as I was with my wife. I told her frankly in a letter, "I need a wife. Will you marry me?" I was surprised she said yes. Of course now, I'm paying for it by being under you know what..... She used to be so "mahiyain".

[badkuk]

i'm not in your position po, pero sooner or later, it's much better to have it out in the open. pag ako kasi, ayoko ung naiiwan sa alanganin ung bagay bagay, tapos magkakatamaran/magkakalimutan na lang. kung oo, di oo; kung hinde, e di hinde -- walang 'maybe' or 'baka'. imho mas nakakainis ung mabitin e

...pero diskartehan nyo po siguro ng mabuti; di kaya pwedeng iparamdam sa kanya na pasimple muna? if not...maybe the mutual friend/bridge/double agent may come in handy. pero eventually, kelangan din siguro na mag usap kayong dalawa ng masinsinan B)

[box_type]

for me there is no right nor wrong in telling a guy you liked him, it all boils down to your type of personality, just be yourself, if your comfortable telling him you like him just tell him so and if your not , don't, simple as that...hth

[Mguy]

Tell him. . . . just don't expect anything in return.

But if you really have no plans on going to the next step with the guy, don't tell him. You're just giving him false hope.

[baiskee]

better tell him. pero hindi yung tipong nagmamakaawa ka na tanggapin ka nya. sabihin mo lang na type mo sya.

pero hindi mo sya hahabol-habulin...dedma ka pa rin, wag mo pahalata na patay na patay ka....leave some mystery baby. ;)

[johnpt]

its ok to tell a guy but in your case dont because youre not ready

[niwde11]

eto nakita ko lang sa net dati. actually signature ko dati. "Playing hard to get and not impossible to get is still the societal norm despite modern setting. One must be able to discover the thin line that exist between the fine art of flirting versus the boorished foly of seduction." ewan ko pero parang di naman OT. HTH

[empy]

this is a tough one. on one hand, it's refreshing for a guy to meet a girl who won't make him go through all the bullshit of courtship before she lets him know she's interested.

on the other hand, you have to be sure that he likes you back and is basically honorable. if not, you're leaving yourself open to being used. i'm ashamed to admit it, but in my single days i would go after girls who i knew/someone told me that they liked me - whether or not i actually liked them - because i knew that they were "low-hanging fruit" (in other words, easy to pick up, heehee). pero gagamitin ko lang sila and lose interest quickly.

yes, i'm probably going to hell :evillaugh

[city]

this is a tough one. on one hand, it's refreshing for a guy to meet a girl who won't make him go through all the bullshit of courtship before she lets him know she's interested.

on the other hand, you have to be sure that he likes you back and is basically honorable. if not, you're leaving yourself open to being used. i'm ashamed to admit it, but in my single days i would go after girls who i knew/someone told me that they liked me - whether or not i actually liked them - because i knew that they were "low-hanging fruit" (in other words, easy to pick up, heehee). pero gagamitin ko lang sila and lose interest quickly.

yes, i'm probably going to hell :evillaugh

you are!....devil!......hahaha

[5Speed]

I'd say yes.... there are so many ways of letting him know that you like him but without any directly saying it in his face if you know what I mean. Subtle ways sometimes works wonders....and it is more romantic and climactic....