how do you deal with the mood swings of your woman? (wife, gf)

[170kphlang]

everybody has mood swings but almost all women have it more often, but us guys still love them. so how do you deal with it?

[olidotcom]

wife had this just recently.. i just ask her and let her think what is the cause of she being 'sad'... then after a couple of minutes.. then she'll understand that its that time-of-the-month thing... :D

[Picard]

Rule of the thumb is wag sabayan. Just listen to what she has to say and/or just ignore. Women, unless they are bipolar, sometimes do not understand their own occasional emotional turmoils. One of you really has to swallow the pride.

[Ry_Tower]

Rule of the thumb is wag sabayan. Just listen to what she has to say and/or just ignore. Women, unless they are bipolar, sometimes do not understand their own occasional emotional turmoils. One of you really has to swallow the pride.

+1, huwag na lang sabayan at lilipas din. Gotta' love them for what they are.

[hein]

That is why they invented Marraige. Para hindi makatakbo ang guys.

[vinj]

Rule of the thumb is wag sabayan.

This is what i do, pag bad trip. I just leave her alone and play with the kids or clean the car. Minsan gagatungan ko muna pero it's better to just leave them alone really and let the storm pass.

[baludoy]

dinadaan ko na lang sa tennis o sa takbo. for me, i find it best when she sorts out stuff like these for herself. after a while lilipas din iyong mood swings niya - or that's what i wish anyway.

anyway, kung hindi pa lumipas iyon, i'll be too tired to argue naman so tatango-tango na lang ako

[holdencaulfield]

ngayon sa sala ako natulog. t*ngna minsan sarap ba sanang layasan. parehas pa ata kaming bi-polar. ako naitulog ko na yung problema, pagka gising ko ok nako. si kumander ang hirap makalimot.
solusyon lang tulog, kalimot, pasensya and siempre isipin mo kung bakit mo pinakasalan ang asawa mo.





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[testament11]

Mahirap makipag-deal sa partner mo pag meron nito. Just like my gf, di mo alam kelan aatake ang mood swings. Mas worst pa nga mood swings ng gf ko ngayon gawa ng medication niya. Irregular kasi at dinaan na sa contraceptive pills ang medication para bumalik sa normal ang cycle.

Minsan, di mo rin kasi maiiwasan makipagsabayan dito, lalo na pag ang problema ay sobrang liit. Di mo rin maiiwasan makipagtalo lalo na kung wala ka rin naman ginagawang masama o kasalanan.

Siguro, dapat ikaw nalang ang mag-trigger sa babae na "o, umaatake na ang mood swings mo". Sa point of view ko lang, tayo kasi mga lalake madalas sumasalo pag umatake ang mood swings. Wala tayong ibang choice kundi umintindi at intindihin. Pero sa mga girls, dapat sana eh intindihin nila na hindi rin biro ang ginagawa nating pagsalo ng mood swings nila.

[Patti]

hmmm ganun ba yun bro test?di kaya may nagawa kang mali na hindi ka aware kaya nagreact ng ganun si gf?just a thought..