Insecure ex-boyfriends

[OTO]

Just an hour ago my friend's ex-boyfriend acted like a total a-hole by using her IM (without her permission) and bad mouthing me. Note that I am not interested in my friend for a number of reason primarily she lives way up north, she isnt my type and she's from the same school I'm from (I'm biased against my college-mates). I removed both my name, hers and her ex for privacy reasons. Also changed the emoticons because tsikot doesnt allow it. I would've given him a verbal lashing I am generally known for but I didnt simply because it is a delicate situation. What's up with insecure spazzes like him?

The log is as follows

1:56:42 AM the ex using girl’s IM: yes?
1:56:50 AM OTO: who u?
1:56:52 AM OTO: u “girl’s name”
1:56:53 AM OTO: or
1:56:57 AM OTO: someone else?
1:57:19 AM the ex using girl’s IM: im her boyfriend why?
1:57:30 AM OTO: thanks
1:57:32 AM OTO: (smiley)
1:57:35 AM the ex using girl’s IM: why?
1:57:38 AM the ex using girl’s IM: what do you need?
1:58:12 AM the ex using girl’s IM: im asking you what you need?
1:58:17 AM the ex using girl’s IM: from “girl’s name”
1:58:21 AM the ex using girl’s IM: why are you looking for her
1:58:52 AM the ex using girl’s IM: Buzz!!
1:59:24 AM the ex using girl’s IM: why wont you answer me now, you trying to hook up with “girl’s name”?
1:59:30 AM OTO: dude
1:59:40 AM OTO: i'm not interested
1:59:59 AM OTO: i just wanna chat with her lang
2:00:21 AM the ex using girl’s IM: don't dude me, im not being rude to you, im asking you nicely coz you wont answer
2:01:12 AM OTO: well ur not the person I want to talk too
2:01:26 AM OTO: and using her account
2:01:29 AM OTO: will not help u
2:01:33 AM the ex using girl’s IM: and?
2:01:42 AM OTO: respect her
2:01:43 AM the ex using girl’s IM: she knows im using her account
2:01:51 AM OTO: she doesnt like it
2:01:54 AM the ex using girl’s IM: so what the **** is your problem
2:02:09 AM the ex using girl’s IM: well tell her to tell me that
2:02:14 AM the ex using girl’s IM: if she doesnt like it
2:02:19 AM the ex using girl’s IM: then she should tell me
2:02:30 AM the ex using girl’s IM: so dont go ****ing around our business
2:02:43 AM the ex using girl’s IM: i was nice to you but dont tell me **** like that
2:03:30 AM OTO: suit urself
2:03:49 AM the ex using girl’s IM: if she doesnt want to, then why did she give me her password
2:04:01 AM the ex using girl’s IM: so dont go into our business
2:04:15 AM OTO: as i said
2:04:18 AM OTO: suit urself
2:04:24 AM the ex using girl’s IM: as i said dont go in our business
2:04:34 AM the ex using girl’s IM: if you have a problem then dont chat with her as well
2:04:53 AM OTO: suit urself
2:05:16 AM the ex using girl’s IM: again, dont chat with her if you have a problem with this
2:06:13 AM OTO: suit urself
2:06:14 AM OTO: (smiley)
2:07:16 AM the ex using girl’s IM: **** off

Here's what my friend had to say about her ex last July 18

2:38:37 PM OTO: (girl’s name)?
2:38:57 PM girll: o
2:39:07 PM girll: y?
2:39:10 PM girll: sino po ito?
2:39:21 PM OTO: (girl’s name)
2:39:23 PM OTO: is that u
2:39:27 PM OTO: or ur bf using ur account?
2:40:10 PM girll: yup
2:40:13 PM girll: y?
2:40:20 PM girll: si OTO ba ito?
2:41:01 PM OTO: u and ur bf back together?
girll went idle (2:46:43 PM)
girll became active (2:47:48 PM)
2:48:00 PM girll: this po?
2:48:07 PM OTO: ?
2:48:09 PM OTO: this?
2:48:13 PM OTO: this ano?
2:48:16 PM girll: im sorry
2:48:17 PM girll: who's this?
2:48:28 PM girll: si OTO ba ito
2:48:29 PM girll: ?
2:48:32 PM OTO: opo
2:49:22 PM girll: OTO what?
2:49:29 PM girll: ano sabi sayo?
2:49:40 PM girll: im sorry about what he said
2:49:44 PM girll: what did he tell you?
2:50:35 PM OTO: nothing bad naman
2:51:17 PM OTO: but i'd rather talk to "(girl’s name)" when I click on "girll"
2:51:55 PM girll: si OTO nga ito
2:52:09 PM girll: ?
2:52:48 PM girll: im (girl’s name)..
2:52:52 PM girll: ano sabi nya sayo?
2:52:57 PM girll: im really sorry about that
2:53:08 PM OTO: la lang
2:53:12 PM OTO: weird questions
2:53:14 PM girll: as in
2:53:16 PM OTO: like
2:53:18 PM OTO: sino daw ako
2:53:24 PM OTO: what will i give u daw
2:53:35 PM OTO: he found it weird that ill give u food
2:54:35 PM girll: huy
2:55:03 PM girll: i asked for it naman
2:55:11 PM girll: im sorry OTO ha
2:55:24 PM girll: i
2:55:33 PM girll: i really am
2:55:37 PM OTO: it's ok
2:55:41 PM girll: nahihiya ako sayo
2:55:48 PM OTO: no prob (girl’s name)
2:55:50 PM girll: sorry tlaga
2:55:51 PM girll: he's in US kse
2:55:54 PM OTO: ur bf doesnt know me
2:55:56 PM girll: basta
2:55:58 PM OTO: so baka kala niya
2:56:00 PM OTO: the worst
2:56:00 PM OTO: diba
2:56:02 PM girll: sobrang sorry talga
2:56:36 PM OTO: dont worry about it
2:56:39 PM OTO: things like this happens
2:56:40 PM OTO: (smiley)
2:57:01 PM girll: (sad face)
2:57:04 PM girll: IM REALLY SORRY
2:57:12 PM girll: it shouldn't happen like that
2:57:28 PM OTO: di mo ako kwinentohan
2:57:35 PM OTO: how u 2 got back together
2:57:40 PM girll: about him?
2:57:49 PM girll: during those times.. magulo kaming dalawa..
2:57:56 PM girll: i wanted to break up with him sobra
2:58:18 PM girll: he doesnt want to let me go
2:58:22 PM girll: he wants to work things out
2:58:24 PM girll: and he tried tlaga
2:59:12 PM girll: i dont
2:59:15 PM girll: kse im scared of him
2:59:22 PM girll: nung andito sya.. yun yung mga araw na sobrang hirap
2:59:26 PM girll: and magulo buhay ko
2:59:35 PM girll: away kami ng away
2:59:38 PM girll: so i wanted to get out
2:59:57 PM girll: dumating sa point na sobrang
3:00:00 PM girll: no respect na talga
3:00:04 PM girll: he would shout at me
3:00:12 PM girll: or pahiyain in public places
3:00:22 PM girll: even tried to break my wrist
3:00:34 PM girll: i pushed him din
3:00:38 PM girll: mga ganun
3:00:44 PM girll: he blackmails me
3:00:50 PM girll: so natatakot tlaga ako
3:00:57 PM girll: i wanted to get out
3:01:02 PM girll: tapos ayun..
3:01:16 PM girll: mahal na mahal daw nya ako
3:01:30 PM girll: and he doesnt want to let go
3:01:31 PM girll: i told him i dont want to be a battered wife
3:01:45 PM girll: so yun..
3:01:50 PM girll: after a few days..
3:01:54 PM girll: kami ulit..
3:01:58 PM girll: and things got better ng konti
3:02:08 PM girll: i dont know pa rin
3:02:14 PM girll: andun pa din yung fear
3:02:18 PM girll: and im not happy anymore
3:02:20 PM girll: sobra
3:02:21 PM OTO: this is one thing
3:02:24 PM girll: so yun
3:02:24 PM OTO: i've learned
3:02:31 PM OTO: after meeting a lot of ppl
3:02:34 PM OTO: and falling in love
3:02:52 PM OTO: you cant/shouldnt change the person u love
3:03:01 PM OTO: u should accept them for who they really are
3:03:12 PM girll: i want to be in peace
3:03:13 PM girll: alam mo yun
3:03:14 PM girll: ?
3:03:16 PM girll: yung totoong masaya lang
3:03:17 PM OTO: i know
3:03:20 PM girll: i want that
3:03:22 PM OTO: everyone wants peace
3:03:22 PM girll: i dont want to be in another relationship again after him..
3:03:31 PM girll: kse im really hurt and all
3:03:40 PM OTO: be strong
3:03:44 PM OTO: ur a strong woman
3:03:46 PM OTO: kaya mo yan
3:03:47 PM OTO: (smiley)
3:03:56 PM OTO: suggestion ko lang
3:03:57 PM OTO: umm
3:04:00 PM OTO: change ur password
3:04:49 PM girll: yup
3:04:52 PM girll: i did
3:04:56 PM girll: pero im really pissed off whenever he do that
3:05:02 PM girll: yung email nya mga kaibigan ko
3:05:08 PM girll: he's trying to control me
3:05:21 PM OTO: do u want that in ur life?
3:05:44 PM OTO: btw
3:05:46 PM OTO: am used to
3:05:56 PM OTO: bfs being weird around me
3:06:02 PM OTO: maybe its just who i am
3:06:05 PM OTO: too scary
3:06:05 PM OTO: (wink)
girll went idle (3:07:30 PM)
girll became active (3:09:08 PM)
3:09:54 PM OTO: ey
3:09:56 PM OTO: u ok?
3:10:48 PM girll: maybe
3:10:53 PM girll: i dont want that syempre..
3:10:54 PM girll: haay
3:11:11 PM girll: no
3:11:19 PM girll: i wish i really am
3:11:24 PM girll: pero ewan ko
3:12:12 PM OTO: i think i know why he's insecure
3:12:18 PM OTO: cause he knows
3:12:24 PM OTO: u can live w/o him
3:12:36 PM OTO: ika nga u urself walked out diba?
3:13:19 PM girll: yup he knows
3:13:27 PM girll: he knows din na madali ko lang sya mapapalitan
3:13:35 PM girll: he knows that

[empy]

i just scanned the convo (haba eh ) but i think the dude is a psycho who's just looking for trouble...either for the girl or for another convenient target (i.e. you). not worth it.

[jabbronx]

idiot pre. he professional needs help

[jabbronx]

he needs professional help...ano ba yan!

[Tacoma_34]

ask for his address here I will kick him in the arse.

[Rediesel]

ask for his address here I will kick him in the arse.

couldn't agree more.

If I were you I'll try to get to his location and tingnan ko ang yabang niya pag magkaharap na kami. I will beat the **** out of him. :devil:

[scarab]

...what a loser.

[ching]

di na kailangan patulan yung mga ganyang tao... sayang lang oras mo...

[onat_1]

i knew somebody who used to be like that,ME!!parang psycho talaga ko nun kahit sinong kausap ng ex-gf ko nun talagang inaaway ko at dinuduro ko.pero nung nag break kami dun ko narealize na psycho pala ko,so mga ganyan magigising din yan just totally ignore him malayo naman sya sa iyo so di mo kailangan na "watch your back"everytime.

[Tacoma_34]

dapat talaga seryosohin mo lang ang asawa, mga gf gf wala yan. me too i was so jealous all the time , tapos yon nga pag break i realized praning yong mga attitude ko.

[chain]

eh gago pala pre... walang katuturan na psycho ganyan..

just like what others said, both of them are going trough a terrible period. so the slightest things flip him out. don't let yourself get caught in the middle (you weren't doing anything at all naman eh). insecure and paranoid ang ganyan.

[EL Chicane]

waste of time sheesh

[OTO]

Funny thing about the guy is he took Psych classes in college. Good thing he's hiding in the US... Kung luv na luv niya yung gf niya eh di bakit siya nag-US?

[EL Chicane]

I'm bored to death.

[tinky]

mods can i get my 30 seconds back?

[quiksie]

x gf ko ganito dati grabe superpsycho

[stinkaboy]

sicko! move on man!

[Josh0027]

dont mind him not worth it

[ts1n1ta]

uh-huh okaaayyy....

why would she give him her password anyway? *confused*

[tinky]

^^ because there are a lot of morons out there.

I used to date this guy and he even insisted on giving his password to me.

We broke up 4 years ago and out of boredom last night,for the very first time
after the breakup,I checked to see if he still has the same password.

Guess what????? the foo* hasn't changed it.Maybe he trusted me so much.

Pero I'm not making a habit out of it because I respect other people's privacy.

This thread triggered me to check his email.

I treat password like an underwear.

Hinde shine-share!!