why are men so afraid...

[dory]

of committment?

ka bad trip dba? since i know that most members here are guys, can you please shed me some light on this issue??

i mean, it's not all the time that you find a girl that would really love you... still, you take them for granted...

you say you love them.. but you can't commit.. anlabo naman nun diba?

whew... just ranting...

[sHoCkAbSoRbEr]

Most men I know are simply a$$h0L3$. Don't take them seriously. Or better yet, wag mo na lang pansinin. I myself don't like commitment (read: don't like not afraid) because I know I haven't met a real one yet. Just let them pass your way but never ever believe in them. It's their nature anyway, a j3rk!

PEACE OUT.

[kiper]

exempted ako jan.

ganyan talaga mga lalake..badtrip..!!

[explorer]

ate dory, ayaw ba mag commit ni bosing mbt? baka naman mahina ka lang mag lambing sa kanya? :bwahaha: :bwahaha: :bwahaha:

at the age of 34, i'm still not ready for a lifetime commitment. seguro nga di ko pa nakita yung babae na makapag-iba ng pananaw ko sa buhay. men are only ready to commit when they are truly in love and ready to face a maried life.

[NightRock]

How would you know that he is not ready to be commited?? Did you asked HIM?

What kind of commitment you need??? if its just a month or 2 for being steady I think its not enough time to know if the Guy is ready for commitment..

(look who's talking hehehehe)

[ghosthunter]

sometimes they dont like the feeling of being in a commitment, like you can only see only one girl, etc. (what if he meets the girl of his dreams but he is commited na to another senario).

[gretzy]

der r lots of destructions, so many girls, so many things that they wanna do, i think its better not to commit rather than leave the girl hanging after.

[pissword]

uhhmm... i think what your saying is that kung ang hirap makahanap ng true love then why are we playing around ?? hehe

ay teka d ako kasali..why are they playing around??? isip bata eh..iisipin kaya nila lahat, iisipin MADAMI PA IBA DYAN.. tama nga un sabi ni sir explorer..

until a guy meets a gurl na makakapagiba ng pananaw nya sa buhay i dont think mag seseryoso ang guy

alam mo bakit??kasi matigas ulo ng guys...kelangan macatch mo tlaga ang attention para magrab mo din tlaga sya. but still after that kelangan magawa mo na sayo lang attention nya. if ndi then alam mo na... lingon dito lingon dun.

to sum it up...if u love the guy more than he loves you..lumayo ka na sakit lang yan

[odell]

Originally posted by sHoCkAbSoRbEr
Most men I know are simply a$$h0L3$. Don't take them seriously. Or better yet, wag mo na lang pansinin. I myself don't like commitment (read: don't like not afraid) because I know I haven't met a real one yet. Just let them pass your way but never ever believe in them. It's their nature anyway, a j3rk!

PEACE OUT.

:freak:

[dory]

uhmm.. commit as in going steady lng ayaw na.. i'm not talking about marriage here.. bata pa ko..

he says se loves me raw.. pero ayaw raw nia ng responsibility, and nde p raw sha ready mag committ..

in fairness at least he's honest...

d ko lng talaga ma-gets kung ba't ganun.. mahal raw nia ako, pero d nia kaya mag committ? anlabo dba?

to sum it up...if u love the guy more than he loves you..lumayo ka na sakit lang yan

hafta agree with this one..

[krscla]

Give him time... :D

[Gi]

dory don't feel too bad. hindi lang naman ikaw ang may ganyang problema e. : ) madami tayo......

loving someone means accepting him or her for what he or she is. and that is always absolute. love doesn't ask anything in return. and also remember love is a reward in itself.

bali baliktarin mo pa ang mundo masarap pa rin magmahal ng tao.

kaya lang, mas masarap ang mamahalin ka in return..........

[gretzy]

Originally posted by krscla
Give him time... :D

dis is d best advice here so far... :D

[Gi]

in addition

yung guy siguro may mga fears and may mga insecurities

he loves you per se, pero he might be overwhlemed with the package that comes with going steady with you, i.e. the parents, the friends, dealing with school or work, etc.

segurista mga lalaki IMO.

at least alam ko ako oo
: )

[NightRock]

Dori tanong ko lang ano ba talagang commitment ang ibig mong sabihin like what?? is he loves you regular dates kayo like normal couples.. uh seeing each other ehh ano pa ba nag kulang .. kung pinapalita naman nyan na LOVE ka nya ehhh...

Sorry di ko ma get kung ano talagang commitment ang gusto mo...(labo talga ng mga girls minsan)

[angst]

to sum it up...if u love the guy more than he loves you..lumayo ka na sakit lang yan

i agree on this one.

NightRock: i think what she meant sa commitment eh ung bf/gf thing...

[Karding]

I dont know, I can't relate to your situation dory.

GL

[Djerms]

Gretz,
Heres another good advice..

Dory,
Yup. Give him time...

[pissword]

uhhmm... dory wag mo madaliin.. give him time. i mean bigyan mo sya ng time na marealize nya un situation nyo.

and d naman dahil u like/love each other kelangan na mag relationship agad. nakakasira lang kasi yan minsan... just go with the flow. basta ba nakikita mo na mahal ka nya, nafefeel mo din, ok na yan kesa sa pumasok kau sa relationship tas halfbaked lang pala feelings nya. eventually sya naman bibigay if serious sya eh...

if ndi pa rin nagbago, i dont think serious sya.. wag ka magdepend sa sinabi nya...look at his actions din

bolero marami sa guys, kaya dapat sa actions ka tumingin. mahahalata mo naman. gudluck

[1D4LV]

imho, men are afraid of committment dahil most men are afraid in losing their freedom.

pero excempted ako dito sa case na to. i had committed and married my wife at age 22.