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April 13th, 2016 09:44 PM #21is it the women's fault? no, its both their fault, but on the other side, it was the woman who decided to let the man in and thus resulted to an offspring... the question is why do they say on social media that they are proud single moms and when you ask them, they will respond they are not interested to get child support from the father?
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April 13th, 2016 10:09 PM #22
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April 13th, 2016 10:36 PM #23
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April 13th, 2016 10:56 PM #24
Most single moms I've seen don't have time to hang around social media sites. But, you say you've seen them. What was their reason for not accepting child support?
You mentioned them saying the father is useless, lazy, no money, and is a headache... From my perspective, these are the kind of dads who cannot or will not provide child support anyway. So, it sounds very contradictory to what you're saying.
I've seen my share of single-mom Filipinas who got out of their marriage. They're friends with my wife and visit from time to time. They have no problems accepting child support from their ex-hubbies. In fact, the only deadbeat among them is the Filipino ex of one of them which was the last thing we expected. We expected a Caucasian ex to be more of an a-hole. But, no. It turned out to be the Filipino ex.
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April 13th, 2016 10:58 PM #25Originally Posted by ;2714916
i don't think these accurately represent the world of unwed mothers/ single moms.
is it possible, someone is confusing angst for pride?Last edited by dr. d; April 13th, 2016 at 11:26 PM.
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April 14th, 2016 12:03 AM #26
having a fatherless family promotes the cycle of single parenthood especially in advanced countries.
female children tend to seek father figures
when puberty hits, they become less likely to discern good guys from bad guys just to fill the void
and the cycle continues as a result.
male children, on the other hand, don't have any fathers to look up to as their role model
when puberty hits, they're more likely to develop r selective traits
r/K selection theory - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
r/K Selection Theory |Damn, son! Where'd you find this?
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April 14th, 2016 08:34 AM #27
And based on my limited experience,- they are aggressive too.... Maybe, they're thinking that they have "no more" to lose... Huwag lang sanang makatiyempo ng isa pang loko....
Kawawa nga sila, but then again, you can only help them so much....
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April 14th, 2016 09:51 AM #29My work will bring me to some parts of the Middle East and Africa. My schedule permits me to visit my family for only two weeks in six months. The same holds true with my colleagues. I cannot say with all honesty that I help my wife raise our children because I am an absentee father. Most of my colleagues got separated from their wives for one reason or another. They, too, are not raising their children together with their ex-wives or ex-girlfriends.
Your logic is wrong. You better study or read again your Logic 101 if you had taken it in college. Good sense and prudence will teach us that if you are not sure or you do not know of a particular fact you are going to comment on, do not open your mouth and speculate. A sage once said that, it is better to be thought of stupid than open your mouth and remove all doubt.
I and my colleagues cannot accept the idea that because we do not raise our children together with our wives, ex-wives, girlfriends, ex-girlfriends, partners, ex-partners, our children might grow up imbalance and hence would someday become "headaches" for a leader.
And do not give the reason that your thread applies to single mothers only because you are talking of children who are not "raised in balance by a father or mother" who "might" become crooked leaders.
A tsikoter here said that, if you post or open a thread, make some research first. This should perfectly apply to you.
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April 14th, 2016 10:28 AM #30
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Cheaper brands than Motolite but reliable as well