sobrang sensitive (balat sibuyas)

[NightRock]

Ang solusyon ko dyan "KEEP CALM and IGNORE them".....

[170kphlang]

madalas ganito..

[Newcomer123]

DESIDERATA


Go placidly amid the noise and the haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible, without surrender,
be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and clearly, and listen to others,
even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious
to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain or bitter, for always
there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals,
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment;
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore, be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be.

And whatever your labors and aspirations
in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

©1927 Max Ehrmann (renewed) Bell & Son publishing, LLC
Used with permission

I always refer to this poem to know how to place myself wrt others and vice versa. Suggest you do the same

[holdencaulfield]

Totoo bang sensitive yan, o baka gin-guilt trip ka lang niyan para pansinin/tulungan mo? Some people can be quite manipulative, even kids. Either way i'm willing to bet he'll blame *you* for not texting him, even if he picked the fight. Yung tipong lahat ng tao me kasalanan pwera siya mismo.

Anyways, if you think the friendship is worth keeping, just reply in a seemingly supportive manner: "aww, kawawa ka naman", "wow malas mo naman"...that kind of b.s.

In the end he/she either has to grow up, or cut the manipulative crap, if he/she wants to stay friends.

hindi naman manipulative ito, ang kaso "lalaki" itong maramdamin nato. kung puwede ko nga lang itext noon ng "t*ngina mag resign ka na at huwag mo nako itext tungkol sa mga demonyo, halimaw at mga hudas mong boss!"

actually sinabihan ko na kung hindi ka na masaya, umalis ka na sa trabaho mo. eventually ginawa niya ang kaso ulit paglipat ng trabaho ganun ulit! sinusundan ata ng mga impakto itong kaibigan ko.

ako naman yung pinepeste niya, aguy syet! kung bebot ito "baka" maiintindihan ko pa.

at kung sasabihin ko na "aww, kawawa ka naman" o "wow, malas mo naman"-- lalo akong yari niyan.

sarcasm at insulting ang magiging tunog niyan sa kaniya. patay ako diyan.

at yung mga taong particular sa bertdey, aguy syet!

di mo lang mabati tampurorot na! sasabihin sayo na naalala nila bertdey mo pero sila di mo man lang nabati.

ang naaalala ko lang naman yung mga binabati ko sa bertdey tulad ng mga magulang at mga kapatid ko. asawa at anak ko at bukod pa dun wala nakong maalala sa dami ng isipin ko. pero kung sa barkada sa dami rin, di ko na rin maalala. mga lalaki pa yung matampuhin.

yari nanaman nga ako sa barkada ko nato, alam ko anytime bertdey nung inaanak ko sa kaniya, nakalimutan ko na kung anong date.

[nhel0719]

pano ba gagawin sa mga taong ganito? masisira araw mo pag sila nakakasama mo.

may mabanggit ka lang na unti na di nila nagustuhan, magtatampo na. magbiro ka lang ng bahagya, away na!

may masabi ka na di mo naman sinasadya at hindi naman yun ang talagang ibig mong sabihin, isyu na!

hihingi sakin ng payo tapos hindi magugustuhan at ikasasama pa ng loob, hayup na buhay talag to!

eh di ko naman mabilang mga text nila dahil sa problema.

at kung di ba naman sila mga kumag, sakin pa sila hihingi ng payo eh alam naman nila mga sagot ko!

mga payo ko nga sa sarili ko natatakot akong gawin.

pero seryoso, banas na banas ako sa a taong ubod ng sensitive ang kikitid ng utak!

lalo na yung mga nangungutang tapos wala ka kunwaring pera, ay sus!

Hmmmm ano kaya kung bigyan mo na lang sila ng barya para humanap sila ng ibang makakausap nila besides you :D

[ejbulacan]

Totoo bang sensitive yan, o baka gin-guilt trip ka lang niyan para pansinin/tulungan mo? Some people can be quite manipulative, even kids. Either way i'm willing to bet he'll blame *you* for not texting him, even if he picked the fight. Yung tipong lahat ng tao me kasalanan pwera siya mismo.

Anyways, if you think the friendship is worth keeping, just reply in a seemingly supportive manner: "aww, kawawa ka naman", "wow malas mo naman"...that kind of b.s.

In the end he/she either has to grow up, or cut the manipulative crap, if he/she wants to stay friends.

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[1D4LV]

hwag mo na lang pansinin.
ako mas ok na ako sa balat sibuyas kesa sa amoy sibuyas.

[Horsepower]

Utangan mo ng malaking halaga para iwasan ka.

[holdencaulfield]

hwag mo na lang pansinin.
ako mas ok na ako sa balat sibuyas kesa sa amoy sibuyas.

gusto ko yung amoy sibuyas. tapalan mo nalang ng itlog tapos kanin, meron ka nang fried rice.

ganiyan ang masarap kaibiganin.