Malamig ba ang Valentine's mo this year?

**Akky M** · February 17th, 2022 09:42 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Lalaki ka, you have your pick of women! Men age like wine

Sa office pa lang namin, I know so many women in their 20s (now 30s) na good catch by society's standards (average looks at the minimum, well educated (CPAs), successful, mabait) pero single

One thing I noticed, hanap talaga ng babae stable and responsible. Mas pipiliin ng babae ang pangit na stable sa guapo na tambay. Continue working on your career and success, ikaw mamimili ng babae, yung hindi ka idi disrespect

. . whisky and wine

Wine - the boy romantico type

Whisky - get straight to business ( hotel or motel)

and I almost forgot the Beer - pag in need ng tuition at allowance

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**Erick Chavez** · February 18th, 2022 11:23 AM

Thank you mga ka gulong... now na realize ko nga na ako nga yung "just for her convenience"....

**dr. d** · February 18th, 2022 11:26 AM

Originally Posted by Erick Chavez

Thank you mga ka gulong... now na realize ko nga na ako nga yung "just for her convenience"....

the day is early, and the night is young.
you have the rest of your life in front of you.
pleasant adventures beckon.

**gearhead000** · February 18th, 2022 12:34 PM

Originally Posted by Erick Chavez

Thank you mga ka gulong... now na realize ko nga na ako nga yung "just for her convenience"....

Can you elaborate how you were able to come to that conclusion?

For the learnings na rin ng mga ka-singles natin dito who may be similarly situated.

**Erick Chavez** · February 18th, 2022 12:51 PM

Originally Posted by gearhead000

Can you elaborate how you were able to come to that conclusion?

For the learnings na rin ng mga ka-singles natin dito who may be similarly situated.

Na experience mo na ba na okay lang kayo pag happy lang sya, no text no reply,... pag okay naman kayo minsan matagal mag reply then mag rereply if may need sya.. minsan sa madalas "Gutom nako", need ko to go to..."

Yung feeling na alam naman nya na nag hihintay ka sa kanya mga 2 to 3 hours ka na waiting and chatting pero no reply, minsan seen pa nga...
tapos pag magkasama naman kayo puro work and officemates nya pinag uusapan nyo..

medyo may tama nga din yung nag advice sakin na hindi din maganda minsan yung feel nya na andyan ka palagi..

what broke my heart is my expectation na din siguro...

**kagalingan** · February 18th, 2022 12:59 PM

^
ikaw Lagi gumagastos? Ginagawa ka utusan?

**uls** · February 18th, 2022 01:06 PM

you became too available for her and she walked all over you

**uls** · February 18th, 2022 01:07 PM

you became too available for her and she walked all over you

Originally Posted by Erick Chavez

Na experience mo na ba na okay lang kayo pag happy lang sya, no text no reply,... pag okay naman kayo minsan matagal mag reply then mag rereply if may need sya.. minsan sa madalas "Gutom nako", need ko to go to..."

you're happy to be her driver

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pag di ka kailangan she doesn't have to reply

Yung feeling na alam naman nya na nag hihintay ka sa kanya mga 2 to 3 hours ka na waiting and chatting pero no reply, minsan seen pa nga...

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what broke my heart is my expectation na din siguro...

coz by being so nice and ever-dependable you expected her to like you

**_Cathy_** · February 18th, 2022 01:22 PM

Originally Posted by Erick Chavez

Na experience mo na ba na okay lang kayo pag happy lang sya, no text no reply,... pag okay naman kayo minsan matagal mag reply then mag rereply if may need sya.. minsan sa madalas "Gutom nako", need ko to go to..."

Yung feeling na alam naman nya na nag hihintay ka sa kanya mga 2 to 3 hours ka na waiting and chatting pero no reply, minsan seen pa nga...
tapos pag magkasama naman kayo puro work and officemates nya pinag uusapan nyo..

medyo may tama nga din yung nag advice sakin na hindi din maganda minsan yung feel nya na andyan ka palagi..

what broke my heart is my expectation na din siguro...

Sobrang turn off naman yang "Gutom na ko" She has a job, she can buy her own food

I'd move on if I were you. If she really likes you, it won't be one way. She may not initiate conversations but you will feel her enthusiasm when you message her. Also, since you drive her places and you treat her out, she should give back some way. 100%, ALL my girl friends that are into the guys they are with, hindi man sila nagbabayad sa restaurant, they reciprocate by giving him food, cooking for him or buying tickets to a show etc.

Also, a woman that likes you would want to hear about YOU. How your day went. What your hobbies are. She would learn about what you like (parang si UF ko natuto sa arts dahil sa date niya)

**gearhead000** · February 18th, 2022 03:25 PM

Well, I still won't try neither to discourage or encourage you.
Siguro kung dati eh all emotions ka, say 90/10, probably make it at least 60/40.
Be more observant and not let mostly your feelings to lead you.
Pero sabi nga ni uls, huwag mo na rin masyadong patatagalin pa.

After a while, be brave and get an answer direct from the horse's mouth so to speak.
But just be ready to face the reality, like you're really just a friend to her - or just a convenience.
Pero huwag nga lang agad magpadala sa maling akala. Marami na ring nagsisi sa bandang huli.

Here's to wishing you a happy valentine's day next year, either with her or another girl who can appreciate you.