Malamig ba ang Valentine's mo this year?

[dr. d]

Yup, I totally agree. Some women can be ruthless

OT.
a man finally divorced his wife, ruth.
to celebrate, he bought a boat and called it "ruthless".
la lang.

[uls]

yes as per her.. office - bahay hatid lang... whats the point of that if andito naman ako....

anyway as of today never pa kami nag usap ulit, may mga text/chat sya but i choose tumahimik muna....

yun nga inisip ko pwede naman i-message ka after OT pahatid sayo

[Ry_Tower]

Unfortunately some women lie. Talk is cheap. There are women na they don't really like the guy so much but keep him around for I don't know what you would call it, reserve, retainer, spare tire or whatever

The reality is for the OP to know that for himself. Kulang info natin to gauge the "her" in this case. Si Op na makakasagot niyan tsaka ako firm believer na personal dapat kapag kakausapin, not thru text or call. Mas totoong talk is cheap kapag hindi harapan. May napapasagot nga ng text text lang eh.

[_Cathy_]

^Napaka disrespectful naman kasi nung hinintay tapos pinauwi. Kahit kaninong gawin tao yun (friend, relative or family member) that was rude. But yeah, it's OPs decision naman what his next step is.

alipin on call.
tunay na pinagsasamantalahan.
at dahil bulag sa pag-ibig yung lalaki,
"ok lang sa kanya."

Pussy whipped...

[viper888]

Sad to say

But you were the back up plan


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[_Cathy_]

Sad to say

But you were the back up plan


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What's sad about situations like that, yung first choice probably isn't crazy for the girl, may uncertainty, kaya kailangan ng back up. What a toxic cycle

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[uls]

medyo OT pero related sa dating

gumawa ako ng ligaw reward matrix hehe



explain ko...

from the point of view ng guy yan ha

the worst situation for a guy to be in is in the top right

sumuyo ka na ng todo... gumastos at lahat... wala ka napala

you don't want to be in that situation

ang winner diyan ung babae -- tumanggap siya ng attention, gifts, flowers and she didn't have to give anything in return (di siya nag commit sayo)

sa top left, sumuyo ka ng todo pero at least you got the girl

but that isn't an ideal situation coz in order to keep the girl kailangan mo sumuyo nang sumuyo

it's not an ideal situation for the girl either coz she chose to be with a guy who she doesn't really look up to (under sa kanya ung guy, he is at her mercy)

the most ideal situation is to be in the lower left -- di ka sumuyo nakuha mo pa ung girl

for the girl naman, the guy must be really something

i mean the guy must be such a good catch that a woman would commit to him even if he didn't do much to win her

both the guy and girl are winners

in economics that's pareto optimal

sa lower right naman zero zero -- wala suyo, wala chicks

[Erick Chavez]

Unfortunately some women lie. Talk is cheap. There are women na they don't really like the guy so much but keep him around for I don't know what you would call it, reserve, retainer, spare tire or whatever

This broke my heart...

[_Cathy_]

This broke my heart...

Lalaki ka, you have your pick of women! Men age like wine Sa office pa lang namin, I know so many women in their 20s (now 30s) na good catch by society's standards (average looks at the minimum, well educated (CPAs), successful, mabait) pero single One thing I noticed, hanap talaga ng babae stable and responsible. Mas pipiliin ng babae ang pangit na stable sa guapo na tambay. Continue working on your career and success, ikaw mamimili ng babae, yung hindi ka idi disrespect

[gearhead000]

This broke my heart...

Don't be disheartened. Sabi ko nga, kung talagang nasa puso mo... ipaglaban mo.
While doing so, don't be too blinded by your emotions also.
Kilatisin mo rin siyang mabuti, katulad ng siguradong pagkilatis din niya sa iyo.
Like many have said here, baka for her you're there just for the convenience.
Learn to see through her. Don't lower your standard, or at least not too much.

Andami ko nang naging crushes before, and some feeling ko talaga eh "siya na, wala nang iba."
But seeing them after a long while, my reaction was "Ewww... buti na lang!"
I dodged a bullet there. Although syempre meron din namang mga T.O.T.G.A.