May ganyan din kaming situation ng wife ko...may relative siya na nanghihiram every now & then, 1k - 2k, sometimes 3k - 10k, utang daw, pero hindi naman binabayaran...

Of course I always complained, kasi naipon na rin over the years, medyo sizeable na yung amount. But what she told me made me think twice and see the situation in a different light:

"Buti nga ikaw ang inuutangan, at hindi ikaw ang nangungutang"