How do you feel right now?

[Little Missy]

does he even deserve her affection?

It's not as if he just left her. She did something that might have pushed him away and she herself admitted that it's her fault and that's she's done it many times. Guys have feelings too and that to me sounded like a hurt guy. Guys who don't care won't get affected. If I care about how he feels, there's no shame in reaching out especially if it's my fault. If Cathy won't do it, it's fine.

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[StockEngine]

It's not as if he just left her. She did something that might have pushed him away and she herself admitted that it's her fault and that's she's done it many times. Guys have feelings too and that to me sounded like a hurt guy. Guys who don't care won't get affected. If I care about how he feels, there's no shame in reaching out especially if it's my fault. If Cathy won't do it, it's fine.

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do you think he'll ever settle? isnt he a player?

[thenightcrawler]

I will wait for him to text or call me na lang. But that might take months based on what he did the last time he unfriended me

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Nakakalungkot naman yun. If someone is significant to me kase hindi ko matitiis.. I don't want to waste time.

Sorry if this is too personal.. Wala ba gf si SO? exclusively dating kayo?



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[minicarph]

I don't know how I should feel about my SO. I told him I don't want to see him (I cancelled two days in advance) and that I will make amends with crush He should know that that was just one of my "episodes" He did not reply and I figured he would call me after a few days.

Today I checked FB and saw that he unfriended me! OMG! He did the same to me last year! This is so immature!!! He's in his 50s and will he unfriend me every time he gets mad at me!?! It's like I am in a relationship with a teenager.

Why the hell does he do this???

ah eto ba yun ba yun may malibog na tatay

[Little Missy]

do you think he'll ever settle? isnt he a player?

I think it's hard for a guy to settle if the girl cancelled on him because of another guy. Maybe she has to straighten up as well.

I get your point. I dated a guy who I knew I was not supposed to be dating in the hopes that if we give it a try maybe it will work. But I ended up just wasting my time.

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[minicarph]

I think it's hard for a guy to settle if the girl cancelled on him because of another guy. Maybe she has to straighten up as well.

I get your point. I dated a guy who I knew I was not supposed to be dating in the hopes that if we give it a try maybe it will work. But I ended up just wasting my time.

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kung sa JCo donuts kayo nag-date sana, di naubos oras mo. order ka half-dozen, sarap tig 3 kayo hihi

[Little Missy]

kung sa JCo donuts kayo nag-date sana, di naubos oras mo. order ka half-dozen, sarap tig 3 kayo hihi

Tara JCo tayo ni Dreamur treat niya.

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[_Cathy_]

Not forgive. It just means I could move on easily from that person. How could you get angry with a dying person even if he's evil.

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I can. I've cut off people from life, even blood. Weren't you the one who said na pag gusto ko ang tao, I worship the person pero pag ayoko ang sakit ko magsalita?

Nung nag away kami ng Lola ko a few years ago, she was 90 na. I LOVE my lola but when she did something that I told her not to do, I stopped talking to her. Everyone was telling me to give in dahil 90 na Lola ko. It took about 6 mos and on her birthday, my Lola apologized to me personally and I'm so happy she did. Pero ganun lang talaga ako. No matter how I love the person, ayokong mauna to apologize pag tingin ko ako ang tama.

In the case of crush, mahal na mahal ko rin siya, pero kahit ako ang mali, I could not get myself to contact him

I dunno but something inside me gets switched on when they're being vulnerable. When he turns quiet like a little boy na parang iiyak, urgh I wanna hug him. [emoji21]

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May instance na halos maiyak na siya from frustration sakin

why are you wasting time on SO and this crush? will they ever commit? men who will commit will chase after you. playing games is such a waste of youth. 2019 is around the corner...

SO makes all the effort naman e. I'm not even sure I want commitment from SO, I am just enjoying his company because he is a constant in my life.

Some are just so into S&M.[emoji14]

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HAHAHA! You know what they say about crazy people, we're intense

[chronicle]

I don't know how I should feel about my SO. I told him I don't want to see him (I cancelled two days in advance) and that I will make amends with crush He should know that that was just one of my "episodes" He did not reply and I figured he would call me after a few days.

Today I checked FB and saw that he unfriended me! OMG! He did the same to me last year! This is so immature!!! He's in his 50s and will he unfriend me every time he gets mad at me!?! It's like I am in a relationship with a teenager.

Why the hell does he do this???

Sempre nasaktan and pretty obvious naman na gusto ka nya.

So ineexpect mo na suyuin ka ulit dahil isang episode lang yon? Alam ba nyang episode yon? Palagi mo ba syang ganyan din itreat at sanay na sya? If yes, may point ka.
Wala ka ba talagang balak sagutin yung SO mo? Hanggang friends lang?

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[_Cathy_]

It's not as if he just left her. She did something that might have pushed him away and she herself admitted that it's her fault and that's she's done it many times. Guys have feelings too and that to me sounded like a hurt guy. Guys who don't care won't get affected. If I care about how he feels, there's no shame in reaching out especially if it's my fault. If Cathy won't do it, it's fine.

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Yes, I'm not a saint myself. I'm guilty off not knowing when I am hurting a person's feelings. Example when he opened up to me about how he is frustrated na things are different na (physically/s3xually) once he reached his late 40s. Inasar ko pa lalo na, buti pa si crush no problems in that department. Thinking about it, that must be a blow to his ego, pero hindi naman siya nagalit. He just told me na "Didn't I tell you to forget about him?" Mas marami pa ko worst na sinabi/ginawa kay SO than that.

Nakakalungkot naman yun. If someone is significant to me kase hindi ko matitiis.. I don't want to waste time.

Sorry if this is too personal.. Wala ba gf si SO? exclusively dating kayo?

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Definitely walang GF si SO, that would make a "kabit" if he did. He told me we are exclusive, he says I'm his BF He complains that I never introduce him to my friends. Hesitant pa rin ako to do that. Pero kung di kami nag away, I already told my office friends na introduce ko si SO sa kanila. Gusto rin kasi ma meet ni SO yung manyak office mate ko. Though sabi ng office buddy ko, that is a very bad idea haha

ah eto ba yun ba yun may malibog na tatay

Yes