How do you feel right now?

**_Cathy_** · October 12th, 2018 05:55 PM

Showed a photo of SO and I to a guy friend. I asked what he thought. He said bagay daw kami tignan ni SO (which really matters to me)

BUT BUT BUT mas maganda daw katawan ni crush, arms pa lang kita na daw na muscles (honestly this turned me on, because that is what I first noticed sa body ni crush) Si SO mukhang wala daw muscle mass hahaha! I was surprised he knew this because it is true. SO does not exercise much while crush does it regularly. And that is why we both think SO will not be able to keep up with me

Now I feel so bad because why the fck did I ever let crush go!!! Here we go again!!!

**thenightcrawler** · October 12th, 2018 06:22 PM

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Ang gulo nga ng status namin. I never called him my BF but he calls me my GF and whenever he goes psycho he would complain about what kind of relationship do we have raw

Pero we could go over a week without talking to each other - I don't think that is normal for BF GF [/QUOTE ]

Based on your story, I think he doesn't really love you.. For real. He's hanging around maybe because you give him something or you satisfies his ego.. Baka kaya hanggang ganyan lang setup nyo - - malabo.. Ok na sa kanya kase wala commitment.

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**_Cathy_** · October 12th, 2018 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Ang gulo nga ng status namin. I never called him my BF but he calls me my GF and whenever he goes psycho he would complain about what kind of relationship do we have raw

Pero we could go over a week without talking to each other - I don't think that is normal for BF GF [/QUOTE ]

Based on your story, I think he doesn't really love you.. For real. He's hanging around maybe because you give him something or you satisfies his ego.. Baka kaya hanggang ganyan lang setup nyo - - malabo.. Ok na sa kanya kase wala commitment.

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I don't stroke his ego naman. He complains that I make him feel so unattractive. I have a feeling he wants to get into my pants and sees me as a challenge. I also don't want to commit to him naman e hahaha! But he does things for me and he is a constant in my life saka maa asahan ko talaga siya. He did things for me more than my ex of 5 yrs...

**thenightcrawler** · October 12th, 2018 07:16 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

I don't stroke his ego naman. He complains that I make him feel so unattractive. I have a feeling he wants to get into my pants and sees me as a challenge. I also don't want to commit to him naman e hahaha! But he does things for me and he is a constant in my life saka maa asahan ko talaga siya. He did things for me more than my ex of 5 yrs...

Ohhhh... a challenge? Maybe.. kase you said nga na player sya no.

How do you make him feel unattractive? Is it like comparing him to someone else?

Natawa ako, in another thread Uls broke down guys depending on the roles to girls.. And based on your story about your relationship with SO it seems he falls to the category "gay friend" . Hahaha check it out.

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**remzam** · October 12th, 2018 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by thenightcrawler

I don't stroke his ego naman. He complains that I make him feel so unattractive. I have a feeling he wants to get into my pants and sees me as a challenge. I also don't want to commit to him naman e hahaha! But he does things for me and he is a constant in my life saka maa asahan ko talaga siya. He did things for me more than my ex of 5 yrs...

Quits lang naman pala. May benefit ka sa kanya, may goal sya sayo...

That is my theory di ba? He's still there because you're the unattainable goal. He hasn't been successful into getting in your pants so he still pursues.

The question is... Until when will he do that or once he gets what he wants, will he still be there?

So far he has moved forward in this game since he was able to make you miss him and look forward to being with him again.

***nung birthday date nyo, after the dinner, wala ba syang hint na binigay... Like, wag muna tayo umuwi or something... Did he give you a goodnight kiss or did you? Cheeks? Or more? (as usual, wag sagutin if you think TMI)

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**sean-archer** · October 12th, 2018 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Quits lang naman pala. May benefit ka sa kanya, may goal sya sayo...

That is my theory di ba? He's still there because you're the unattainable goal. He hasn't been successful into getting in your pants so he still pursues.

The question is... Until when will he do that or once he gets what he wants, will he still be there?

So far he has moved forward in this game since he was able to make you miss him and look forward to being with him again.

***nung birthday date nyo, after the dinner, wala ba syang hint na binigay... Like, wag muna tayo umuwi or something... Did he give you a goodnight kiss or did you? Cheeks? Or more? (as usual, wag sagutin if you think TMI)

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Pursuing until magka developan na Talaga both parties.. One night stand is tolerable, 2nd or 3rd,.. Arrghhh, that's intimacy... Because she decided to do it again with you.. Now that is something..

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**_Cathy_** · October 12th, 2018 07:56 PM

Originally Posted by thenightcrawler

Ohhhh... a challenge? Maybe.. kase you said nga na player sya no.

How do you make him feel unattractive? Is it like comparing him to someone else?

Natawa ako, in another thread Uls broke down guys depending on the roles to girls.. And based on your story about your relationship with SO it seems he falls to the category "gay friend" . Hahaha check it out.

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He is intelligent, mixed blood and his family has money so he is used to women fawning over him. I never fawned over him, in fact up until now he can't accept that I was not crushing over him when I first met him. My crush then was a full blooded Spanish but he insists I like him daw LOL. And he knows I like Ateneans so every time I like a new guy and tell him he is Atenean, he HATES it LOL. I guess I subconsciously make him feel like kulang siya and he does not get that from other women.

He is the dependable guy. That is one reason why I can't let him go also. I know maaasahan ko siya. He can't be the gay friend because SO is very much alpha and he makes me manyak every chance he gets.

Dati nga nag ballistic yan, told me, he can get any girl he wants pero anong ginagawa niya going after me when I am PAST MY PRIME. hahaha!

Marami din naman tiniis sakin si SO.

[QUOTE=remzam;3016867]

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Quits lang naman pala. May benefit ka sa kanya, may goal sya sayo...

That is my theory di ba? He's still there because you're the unattainable goal. He hasn't been successful into getting in your pants so he still pursues.

The question is... Until when will he do that or once he gets what he wants, will he still be there?

So far he has moved forward in this game since he was able to make you miss him and look forward to being with him again.

***nung birthday date nyo, after the dinner, wala ba syang hint na binigay... Like, wag muna tayo umuwi or something... Did he give you a goodnight kiss or did you? Cheeks? Or more? (as usual, wag sagutin if you think TMI)

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He has been here for 15 yrs lol. I am older and fatter from when we first me, but he treats me just the same. I would expect he would drop me since I am not attractive anymore. But yes he does tell me that he wants to sleep with me, he says he knows nasa loob kulo ko and that turns him on

He does not give hints, he is straightforward. He always makes me akbay and kisses me in public (sa cheeks or shoulders) He also likes to stroke my jawline and my nape. I would make him sungit before but on my birthday I just let him na.

**remzam** · October 12th, 2018 08:19 PM

He has been here for 15 yrs lol. I am older and fatter from when we first me, but he treats me just the same. I would expect he would drop me since I am not attractive anymore. But yes he does tell me that he wants to sleep with me, he says he knows nasa loob kulo ko and that turns him on

He does not give hints, he is straightforward. He always makes me akbay and kisses me in public (sa cheeks or shoulders) He also likes to stroke my jawline and my nape. I would make him sungit before but on my birthday I just let him na.

Sometimes, men get attracted also to women because gusto "maka una"

Baka ganyan sya sayo.

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**_Cathy_** · October 12th, 2018 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by _Cathy_

He is intelligent, mixed blood and his family has money so he is used to women fawning over him. I never fawned over him, in fact up until now he can't accept that I was not crushing over him when I first met him. My crush then was a full blooded Spanish but he insists I like him daw LOL. And he knows I like Ateneans so every time I like a new guy and tell him he is Atenean, he HATES it LOL. I guess I subconsciously make him feel like kulang siya and he does not get that from other women.

He is the dependable guy. That is one reason why I can't let him go also. I know maaasahan ko siya. He can't be the gay friend because SO is very much alpha and he makes me manyak every chance he gets.

Dati nga nag ballistic yan, told me, he can get any girl he wants pero anong ginagawa niya going after me when I am PAST MY PRIME. hahaha!

Marami din naman tiniis sakin si SO.

Sometimes, men gets attracted also to women because gusto "maka una"

Baka ganyan sya sayo.

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But he doesn't believe I'm a virgin. Impossible daw because I look wild wtf talaga

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**remzam** · October 12th, 2018 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by remzam

But he doesn't believe I'm a virgin. Impossible daw because I look wild wtf talaga

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Hinuhuli ka lang nun...

"sinong niloloko mo? Ikaw di ka na virgin... Patunayan mo nga?!"

Yun yon eh hehehe

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