How do you feel right now?

[_Cathy_]

Be careful what you for. Housewives end up being totally dependent on their husbands. Am sure there are many successful examples of this arrangement, but there are many cautionary tales as well.

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Yes, I definitely don't want to be 100% financially dependent on my husband.

I'll make sure I still have money of my own. I want to be able to buy gifts for my husband that did not come from his own pocket. LOL! There's also a side of me that wants to keep my career. I just can't imagine being pregnant and going to the office.

And I really want to be hands on in taking care of my family. I could just imagine crush, my brother told me, when I have my SO na, I should make sure that I have the toothpaste in his toothbrush ready when he brushes his teeth, that type of alaga daw. I love doing those things

kasi in traditional patriarchal societies, the pressure to succeed is on the men

there's almost no pressure on women to "succeed"

their women just have to be well bred well trained to be good wives be very supportive of their husbands

Cathy's upbringing is like that

i don't expect her to find a cure for cancer or become a CEO

written by Cathy's spokesman - uls

My family is extremely patriarchal. We look up to the men in our family. But the extreme side is if a man is weak, they get absolutely no respect.

My Lola (Dad's side) and my Mom stresses the importance of being a good wife. They have good marriages naman, so I guess it's true. Number 1 rule - don't be dominant!

Did i say you are a failure? That link i posted are the extremes. So definitely, may mga something in between. It is just that you are more probably leaning on the dreamer side at this point.

Dont take this too personally.

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Yeah I agree with you

[StockEngine]

Be careful what you for. Housewives end up being totally dependent on their husbands. Am sure there are many successful examples of this arrangement, but there are many cautionary tales as well.



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"Shouganai"

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[_Cathy_]

Kawawa naman yung mga boss ko, sa sobrang dami ng ginagawa, nalilito na They don't even know what output they want anymore. Ako naman nangangapa, I don't want to add to their stress.

People are leaving the company and they are not replacing, so more work for those that are left. They cut our team by half already since 2017. And apparently they are expecting more cuts. But as long as my boss is here, as they say "kapit lang" LOL!

[ray_noel]

Kawawa naman yung mga boss ko, sa sobrang dami ng ginagawa, nalilito na They don't even know what output they want anymore. Ako naman nangangapa, I don't want to add to their stress.

People are leaving the company and they are not replacing, so more work for those that are left. They cut our team by half already since 2017. And apparently they are expecting more cuts. But as long as my boss is here, as they say "kapit lang" LOL!

Due to inflation ba yan for this year ms cath? Hehehe...

Yung nawala last year 2017 pag reincarnate sana mas maganda ang future nila... hahaha!

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[_Cathy_]

Due to inflation ba yan for this year ms cath? Hehehe...

Yung nawala last year 2017 pag reincarnate sana mas maganda ang future nila... hahaha!

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Net loss na kasi yung company where we work kaya halos wala ng increase at bonus since last year. Kaya maraming umalis tapos hindi naman pinapalitan. Last year I had to absorb the work of an AVP that was forced to retire. Ang dami rin na redundate this year

[shadow]

Net loss na kasi yung company where we work kaya halos wala ng increase at bonus since last year. Kaya maraming umalis tapos hindi naman pinapalitan. Last year I had to absorb the work of an AVP that was forced to retire. Ang dami rin na redundate this year

If that's the case jump ship ka na while you still can.


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[_Cathy_]

If that's the case jump ship ka na while you still can.


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I can't. I'm staying as long as my boss is here. Tiis na lang sa sweldo. 10th yr ko na rin in 2019, sayang retirement.

Last man standing na ko, my remaining 2 friends will both be gone by end of the year

[shadow]

I can't. I'm staying as long as my boss is here. Tiis na lang sa sweldo. 10th yr ko na rin in 2019, sayang retirement.

Last man standing na ko, my remaining 2 friends will both be gone by end of the year

40 ka na cath, [emoji111]🏼️ can you really see yourself doing the same thing until sa retirement mo? Assuming you'll be working until retirement age.

This will be the second half of your career, if not now you'll be stuck diyan na lang.


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[_Cathy_]

40 ka na cath, [emoji111]��️ can you really see yourself doing the same thing until sa retirement mo? Assuming you'll be working until retirement age.

This will be the second half of your career, if not now you'll be stuck diyan na lang.


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Kurutin kita e! Pinapatanda mo ko parati.

Happy naman ako sa work. Hindi ako happy sa sweldo but there are a lot of non-monetary benefits that I won't be able to get from other companies. That's the reason why I don't want to leave because I doubt na makakahanap pa ko ng boss na kasing bait ng boss ko who lets me get away with murder

I tried to switch industries in my mid 20s, unfortunately, same industry pa din ako bumagsak. If I wasn't able to switch in my 20s, I doubt that I will be able to do it in my 30s. Also, I'm in a "specialist" role so my expertise is not in demand with other companies, it is specific to where I work.

[dr. d]

Gulo nga eh! Usapan namin nuon para sakin, pero after a few months, ginawang family nalang. Kaya I think my right ako.

para nga sa iyo.
para meron kang gamitin.
but hindi para i-benta mo.