How do you feel right now?

**Egan101** · September 6th, 2018 12:12 PM

Originally Posted by chico020

Gulo nga eh! Usapan namin nuon para sakin, pero after a few months, ginawang family nalang. Kaya I think my right ako.

If you bought it with your own money, maybe they would not force that on you. If your parents bought it for your use, they will always have a sense of dominion over things they bought. Is the car under your name?

**KingoftheNorth** · September 6th, 2018 01:01 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

I'm devastated. Pinaparusahan na naman ako

What happened?

BTT:

Sh!tty. Colds, cough and equally bad tasting meds...

**_Cathy_** · September 6th, 2018 01:44 PM

Originally Posted by KingoftheNorth

What happened?

BTT:

Sh!tty. Colds, cough and equally bad tasting meds...

My only 2 friends in the company will both be gone by year end. I will be all alone (friendless) in the office by the start of 2019.

I used to look forward to Mondays because that meant spending time with my friends, we were 8 in the group then one by one my friends started leaving until only 3 of us were left in a span of 8 years.

Daya ng friends ko! I was supposed to leave at 2017, ang nangyari ako yung last man standing

I can't help but think that this is a sign that I should resign and move to the US. Initially kasi I was only thinking of a sabbatical because I don't want to resign, but I can't imagine my life without my friends.

We talked nga about how we are a solid group because at a certain age and position it is hard to make new friends in the office, iba yung bond ng sabay sabay yung journey niyo sa career. And 8 years, I spent more time with them than my HS or College friends

**chronicle** · September 6th, 2018 01:49 PM

^
Just do it.

Sign yan na sa US muna dapat.

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**KingoftheNorth** · September 6th, 2018 01:55 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

My only 2 friends in the company will both be gone by year end. I will be all alone (friendless) in the office by the start of 2019.

I used to look forward to Mondays because that meant spending time with my friends, we were 8 in the group then one by one my friends started leaving until only 3 of us were left in a span of 8 years.

Daya ng friends ko! I was supposed to leave at 2017, ang nangyari ako yung last man standing

I can't help but think that this is a sign that I should resign and move to the US. Initially kasi I was only thinking of a sabbatical because I don't want to resign, but I can't imagine my life without my friends.

We talked nga about how we are a solid group because at a certain age and position it is hard to make new friends in the office, iba yung bond ng sabay sabay yung journey niyo sa career. And 8 years, I spent more time with them than my HS or College friends

They are not friends who leaving you Cath. They are friends who are merely moving office addresses.

You might gain new ones at work after all. And if you don't, take a sabbatical or go to the U.S. even. But know that they're still your friends.

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**chico020** · September 6th, 2018 02:09 PM

Originally Posted by Egan101

If you bought it with your own money, maybe they would not force that on you. If your parents bought it for your use, they will always have a sense of dominion over things they bought. Is the car under your name?

Wow! That's the problem now! The car is under the name of my father, but he and they said it was for me. Damn! hurting so! And they opened a convo to make that car as for us. They bought it for me not my own money. It is just a sad story when it based to their promises..

**_Cathy_** · September 6th, 2018 02:14 PM

Originally Posted by chronicle

^
Just do it.

Sign yan na sa US muna dapat.

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I really think it's a sign nga. And my Mom was not of any help because when I told her about my friends leaving and me being left alone, she blamed me for delaying my documents

Originally Posted by KingoftheNorth

They are not friends who leaving you Cath. They are friends who are merely moving office addresses.

You might gain new ones at work after all. And if you don't, take a sabbatical or go to the U.S. even. But know that they're still your friends.

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They assured me we will still viber. Pero iba pa rin yung presence, like my office buddy, he always goes with me to the grocery and to do my errands. And we have our traditional Friday lunch and dinner in a new restaurant. They both expressed concern about leaving me nga

About having new friends, malabo talaga. It's the age, position and "trip". All our new hires are fresh grads or 20 somethings. Very rare do we hire 30s and officer level. That's why when our group was nalalagas, walang dumadagdag. Even my office buddy said, we can't make barkada to our staff, bukod sa age, it's controversial.

Swerte yung mga barkada na walang nag resign na group nila

**_Cathy_** · September 6th, 2018 02:18 PM

Originally Posted by chico020

Wow! That's the problem now! The car is under the name of my father, but he and they said it was for me. Damn! hurting so! And they opened a convo to make that car as for us. They bought it for me not my own money. It is just a sad story when it based to their promises..

My parents bought my car but it's under my name. EVEN SO, I will still ask their permission if I were to sell it - their money, their decision.

You should be thankful that your parents bought you a car. I'm sorry, but the entitlement is kinda strong here.

**Egan101** · September 6th, 2018 02:18 PM

Originally Posted by chico020

Wow! That's the problem now! The car is under the name of my father, but he and they said it was for me. Damn! hurting so! And they opened a convo to make that car as for us. They bought it for me not my own money. It is just a sad story when it based to their promises..

Since it is under the name of your father and he spent for it, he has every right to tell who gets to use it or not. I assume he spends for gas and maintenance also. You are just being to use it for free.

Don't worry too much about it. At least, you have a car you can use without having to worry on the cost of its ownership.

**jut703** · September 6th, 2018 02:24 PM

Originally Posted by chico020

Wow! That's the problem now! The car is under the name of my father, but he and they said it was for me. Damn! hurting so! And they opened a convo to make that car as for us. They bought it for me not my own money. It is just a sad story when it based to their promises..

It's his money, his rules. I agree that your rant reeks of so much entitlement. You should be grateful you have a car to use.

If you don't want anyone else deciding for you, you can always buy your own car with your own money.

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