
Originally Posted by
minicarph
ayaw mo kasi mag internalize eh
you complain about your officemates, your family, your crush all the people in your life disrespecting you one way or another. why not incorporate ONE solution to all your problems, magpapayat ka. think of it na that's the only solution even if your stomach or cravings say otherwise, even if your friends wouldn't care if fit ka or fat ka, nobody ka pa din sa kanila.
I had a friend once who got into boxing coz he wants to impress a girl. so regularly, he went to a special boxing gym. then his other friends would say exercise ka ng exercise basted ka pa din nyan kasi ampangit mo. so then came the day na medyo he lost like 50 lbs and he was so buffed, nagpropose sya, and guess what basted siya! Lol tawanan talaga kami lahat nun. I can never forget what's his face when that day came.
and then the miracle happened, after languishing for like 2 weeks alone ayaw nya magpakita samin. every month we see him, he's becoming leaner and fitter. wala sya imik about it, and we didn't even bother to recognize. tapos hayun may nagkagusto sa kanya, ang yaman nun girl, mas naka-jackpot pa sya. pero this was in a span of 2 years. of course it was a long process him, rollercoaster ride talaga.
im not saying that you'll get the respect, or you'll get your dream man. but you STARTED and you were dedicated / determined to it no matter what.
long story short, lahat kami nuon na alaskador sa kanya, kasing taba din yan nuon. but when I saw that something's change in him, naku never ako maging on the other end of the karma sabi ko sa sarile ko. So I used that motivation too when he was changing. all our other friends, ayun lumba-lumba pa din ngaun.
ngaun sya happily married with a rich wife, and I mean very rich talaga. ang guess what mataba na naman sya ngaun probably because he has kids and they re the world to him. but he's so happy.
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si kuya big, you know why I so like him here, coz he was once like that friend of mine, he was once like me, walang control sa consumption. ang gusto ko lang kay kuya big, when he eats a lot or splurge, he counts the days he splurged and utang nya yun , meaning kelangan bumawi sya. kumbaga parang bible, if you sinned, my act of contrition.
you cant have your life enjoying everything there is chocolates, sweets, good friends/relatives/bosses, good systems, then complain here there.
dont complain, use that negative energy to energize you
if you ate a lot, even more energy to energize you
if you are stepped / trampled upon, then para ka nag red bull ng energizer, multiplied tenfold dapat yun
if somebody praises/compliments you, he/she is an enemy who want you to stay the same.
ngaun alam ko, mahirap kasi mag-isa ka. you really need a feedback system. si kuya big yun. si kuya big ang mag-fefeedback sayo