Bakit ka badtrip today?

[CLAVEL3699]

^^^ Agree. away nga ang bagsak nyan.

[CLAVEL3699]

Natulog ako nang 11:30pm, may kumakanta pa sa videoke, well ok lang yun kahit paano. Pero ang magising ka ng 4am dahil kumakanta pa rin sila sa videoke nila ay hindi na nakakatuwa! For this week alone, twice na itong nangyayari.

Di naman tuloy sa ano pero nasisikmura nilang magkantahan hanggang ganung oras at hindi nila naiisip yun ingay na ginagawa nila sa disoras ng gabi? Kung ayaw nilang matulog, wag silang mandamay ng ibang tao dito.

every friday night ganyan ang kapitbahay namin kahit may village ordinance na dapat hanggang 12am lang ang party sa bahay.

sawang sawa na kami sa pagtatawag nang guard para katukin sila. wala din naman nangyayari

[uls]

seems like everybody agrees the girl's action is justified

cathy seems unable to put herself in the place of the girl kaya di niya maintindihan ang action ng girl

[CLAVEL3699]

seems like everybody agrees the girl's action is justified

cathy seems unable to put herself in the place of the girl kaya di niya maintindihan ang action ng girl

simple hi and hello sa text paglalo na sa babae nang galing at nasa phonebook... patay kang bata ka. away ang bagsak nyan at lalo na pagjealous type yung babae lahat pinaghihinalaan.

[uls]

and we can't fully rely on Cathy's side of the story coz naturally she's biased

she makes it sound like she's totally innocent and the girl is overreacting

di naman natin nabasa ang text ni Cathy. sabi lang ni Cathy hindi flirtatious ang text. well, para sa kanya hindi flirtatious pero baka para doon sa babae flirtatious ang dating

and Cathy may not be telling us the whole story

kaano-ano ba niya yung guy?

is she romantically involved with the guy dati?

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Para sakin, may "laman" Yung text.

Funny feeling of romantically involved dati sila.

[shadow]

First things first, what was the question? C4Y?


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[_Cathy_]

and we can't fully rely on Cathy's side of the story coz naturally she's biased

she makes it sound like she's totally innocent and the girl is overreacting

di naman natin nabasa ang text ni Cathy. sabi lang ni Cathy hindi flirtatious ang text. well, para sa kanya hindi flirtatious pero baka para doon sa babae flirtatious ang dating

and Cathy may not be telling us the whole story

kaano-ano ba niya yung guy?

is she romantically involved with the guy dati?

When was it ever right to tinker with other people's phone or messages? Given that the woman is the jealous type, it does not justify going on a rage with a SINGLE text message that you are suspicious of. It seems like politeness is lost in this society.

*shadow na delete ko na sa ASAR ko. Note that I did not just text "Hi. How are you" I texted "Hi. MY question. How are you?" The issue is if she has a problem with other women texting her BF, then she should have first confronted her BF and not go BALLISTIC on a stranger. It totally blows my mind that someone could overreact that way! Nothing justifies having to harass a stranger by texting and calling from a jealous single text message. I was merely being polite with the follow up, How are you line. And most of my text always has a hi even to my parents, lola, friends, boss or kuya. I have in my phone my most recent message which I sent to my KUYA. I don't think my kuya's wife or gf will go ballistic on me if I hypothetically sent this message using a different number, even without mentioning Kuya.



Even my friends say Hi, Hello or How are you when texting? Isn't that just polite to do so?!?!?



Even my Mom asks me how I am when we don't get to text ng matagal!

[shadow]

What was that first convo doon sa second photo? Yun naka scramble?


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[_Cathy_]

If you are using an android or ios device you can download a free app that will block only that specific number cathy. So even the text wont register. I do these all the time to number who flood my phone selling condos and other spam materials. That way you dont need to turn off your phone ;)

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I am using an android. What app is this? I don't wanna block all unregistered numbers because sometimes people change their number or it could be an unregistered number that I need to see the message naman.

[_Cathy_]

What was that first convo doon sa second photo? Yun naka scramble?


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We always have that problem, hindi ata compatible yung iphone sa note. She said: How have you been?Are you still busy with work? Was going to make you aya sana but I have a terrible cough and I am dyaje to go out because my cough sounds so bad.

[Ry_Tower]

*C4U:

Totoo na mali nga maging ballistic yung GF nang friend mo na just because of your text kung kilala ka na nang girl at alam na ganun talga kayo magtext. Papano kung hindi siya familiar dun? A single female texting a single guy "Hi, how are you?" still rings a different tune kasi imho. Kung may kasunod yan na "Can I ask you about our outing, work etc etc, I'm sure she wouldn't mind. Casual lang ang dating eh. Pero kung just "hi, Hello, how are you?" iba talaga dating. Kahit na ganyan kayo dati na super thoughtful, decorum dictates na you should respect the GF's stand on this if okay sa kanya na ganyan kayo ka-sweet sa isa't-isa magtext or not. Karapatan niya yun if she id not comfortable with it since mag-on sila. Yung pakikialam sa CP depende din yan sa usapan nang mag-BF-GF/asawa. Ako open CP ko kay mrs. and VV. I don't mind na tinitignan niya text/s ko, wala naman siya makikita dun eh. Sa iba maarig ayaw nila. Again hindi puwede yung gusto mo masusunod, may sarili silang diskarte.

[uls]

When was it ever right to tinker with other people's phone or messages? Given that the woman is the jealous type, it does not justify going on a rage with a SINGLE text message that you are suspicious of. It seems like politeness is lost in this society.

*shadow na delete ko na sa ASAR ko. Note that I did not just text "Hi. How are you" I texted "Hi. MY question. How are you?" The issue is if she has a problem with other women texting her BF, then she should have first confronted her BF and not go BALLISTIC on a stranger. It totally blows my mind that someone could overreact that way! Nothing justifies having to harass a stranger by texting and calling from a jealous single text message. I was merely being polite with the follow up, How are you line. And most of my text always has a hi even to my parents, lola, friends, boss or kuya. I have in my phone my most recent message which I sent to my KUYA. I don't think my kuya's wife or gf will go ballistic on me if I hypothetically sent this message using a different number, even without mentioning Kuya.



Even my friends say Hi, Hello or How are you when texting? Isn't that just polite to do so?!?!?

that example is different. that "kuya" you texted is probably your cousin or something

somebody has to enlighten you on why that girl behaved that way

many couples check each other's phones

it's coz they wanna be totally transparent to each other and also as a demonstration that they belong to each other

Re the message you sent -- the girl isnt really reacting to the content of the message but she's thinking about the underlying intention why you texted her bf

girls are like that. alam nila ang isip ng ibang babae

when she read the message naturally she asked her bf "sino yan?" "ano mo siya?" "baket siya nagtetext sayo?"

the bf must have been evasive like "wala yan" "just somebody i know"

so lalo na-rattle yung babae at lalo nag probe

Cathy do you lack imagination? parang hindi mo ma-imagine ang converation nila after the girl saw your message

at sa lagay na yan you're a girl!

you're supposed to know how girls think!

[chua_riwap]

Natulog ako nang 11:30pm, may kumakanta pa sa videoke, well ok lang yun kahit paano. Pero ang magising ka ng 4am dahil kumakanta pa rin sila sa videoke nila ay hindi na nakakatuwa! For this week alone, twice na itong nangyayari.

Di naman tuloy sa ano pero nasisikmura nilang magkantahan hanggang ganung oras at hindi nila naiisip yun ingay na ginagawa nila sa disoras ng gabi? Kung ayaw nilang matulog, wag silang mandamay ng ibang tao dito.

ano yan inuman?

grabe yang ganyan, walang pakialam sa ibang tao.
dito sa village namin, till 10PM ka lang mag videoke. pag lampas nyan, security guard na kausap mo.
at kelangan, itigil nyo na "pag-atungal".

[_Cathy_]

that example is different. that "kuya" you texted is probably your cousin or something

somebody has to enlighten you on why that girl behaved that way

many couples look at each other's phones

it's coz they wanna be totally transparent to each other and also as a demonstration that they belong to each other

Re the message you sent -- the girl isnt really reacting to the content of the message but she's thinking about the underlying intention why you texted her bf

girls are like that. alam nila ang isip ng ibang babae

when she read the message naturally she'll ask her bf "sino yan?" "ano mo siya?" "baket siya nagtetext sayo"

the bf must have been evasive like "wala yan" "just somebody i know"

so lalo na-rattle yung babae at lalo nag probe

Cathy do you lack imagination?

and you're a girl! you're supposed to know how girls think!

First of all, I don't know any friend that checks their BFs phone. I never checked or even intended to look at the messages of my exs phone and they never did the same with me. You need to demonstrate that you own each other? Insecure much??? The issue here is WHY GO ON A RAGE with a stranger. I can never relate because I never had trust issues with my BFs and my BFs never gave me reason to be jealous. Even if I accidentally saw a I miss you text on my BFs phone, hindi ko ugali manugod or mang confront ng ibang tao. And I am sure NONE of my friends or family will react that way.

[uls]

you're unexposed to people from other social classes so you assume everybody thinks and behaves the same as you

[uls]

The issue here is WHY GO ON A RAGE with a stranger

the girl sees you as a threat

so she did what she did

obviously you do not understand coz you would never do something like that

and coz wala ka kaibigan na babae na kaya mang away ng ibang babae out of jealousy

again, unexposed ka sa real world

[_Cathy_]

*C4U:

Totoo na mali nga maging ballistic yung GF nang friend mo na just because of your text kung kilala ka na nang girl at alam na ganun talga kayo magtext. Papano kung hindi siya familiar dun? A single female texting a single guy "Hi, how are you?" still rings a different tune kasi imho. Kung may kasunod yan na "Can I ask you about our outing, work etc etc, I'm sure she wouldn't mind. Casual lang ang dating eh. Pero kung just "hi, Hello, how are you?" iba talaga dating. Kahit na ganyan kayo dati na super thoughtful, decorum dictates na you should respect the GF's stand on this if okay sa kanya na ganyan kayo ka-sweet sa isa't-isa magtext or not. Karapatan niya yun if she id not comfortable with it since mag-on sila. Yung pakikialam sa CP depende din yan sa usapan nang mag-BF-GF/asawa. Ako open CP ko kay mrs. and VV. I don't mind na tinitignan niya text/s ko, wala naman siya makikita dun eh. Sa iba maarig ayaw nila. Again hindi puwede yung gusto mo masusunod, may sarili silang diskarte.

I did not have communication with the guy for a long time that was why I inserted the How are you line. I was merely being polite. And even with people that I often text, I really have the habit of saying "Hi", "Hey" or "How are you" (even to my Kuya, Mom, Boss, friends, or Lola etc) May kasunod talaga na question yung text ko. I am not texting the guy regularly. That was the first time in at least 3 or so months because I wanted to ask something nga. I did not even know that he had a GF. How will the girl know if I am single, married, young, old or whatever relationship I have with his BF based on a single text message. Ang issue ko dito is the way the woman reacted enough for me to turn off my phone. Nang away kaagad It was a SINGLE text message that triggered her rage! I do respect other women at hindi ko naman ugali mang landi ng BF ng may BF dahil ayoko din gawin sakin yan. And I have absolutely no intention of texting the guy again considering what happened to me with his GF. Anyway, wala ng text today. Sana tumigil na.

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Your missing the point cathy...

[chua_riwap]

you're unexposed to people from other social classes so you assume everybody thinks and behaves the same as you

agree w/ uls.
di mo pwede ikumpara sarili (& so w/ your friends) to other people. maaring mas liberated ka, yung girl na tinext mo, selosa at posessive.

sabi mo....Note that I did not just text "Hi. How are you" I texted "Hi. MY question. How are you?"

if you don't mind, at hindi naman siguro pagmamalabis......ano ba yung content o yung sinabi mo, sa portion na "MY question" ?

baka dun nagalit?