Bakit ka badtrip today?

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Huwag ka na hanap asawa cath. Mag ampon ka na lang ng 100 na pusa.


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[_Cathy_]

Huwag ka na hanap asawa cath. Mag ampon ka na lang ng 100 na pusa.


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I hate cats kaya Saka gusto ko talaga anak. I want a "mine me"

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I hate cats kaya Saka gusto ko talaga anak. I want a "mine me"

Punta ka Thailand pwede doon pa IVF kahit single yun babae.


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[minicarph]

I hate cats kaya Saka gusto ko talaga anak. I want a "mine me"

dalawa na kayo iiyak pag may traffic

[_Cathy_]

Punta ka Thailand pwede doon pa IVF kahit single yun babae.


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I said the reasons why I do not want to be a single Mom. I really can't raise a child alone and I think it is unfair to deprive my child of a father. My child cannot even be enrolled in a Catholic school since they require a marriage certificate. Bata pa lang ang dami na agad disadvantages, I won't subject my child to that. That's why I don't agree with women who choose to be single Moms.

I'm already taking care of my elders. Wala ako kapatid na pwede tumulong sakin. Iba yung emotional, physical, financial support ng may asawa (sino magbabantay sakin sa hospital, sino bibili ng cravings ko, sino ka ***y time ko whenever I want it)

[_Cathy_]

dalawa na kayo iiyak pag may traffic

Pag nagka anak ako, grade school pa lang pag aralin ko na mag drive so he will drive for Mommy

My lolo taught my brother to drive when he was 11 or 12 (sa province) Freshman HS he was driving himself to school already. His school was in Alabang kasi and that was considered really far in the 80s

[dreamur]

I said the reasons why I do not want to be a single Mom. I really can't raise a child alone and I think it is unfair to deprive my child of a father. My child cannot even be enrolled in a Catholic school since they require a marriage certificate. Bata pa lang ang dami na agad disadvantages, I won't subject my child to that. That's why I don't agree with women who choose to be single Moms.

I'm already taking care of my elders. Wala ako kapatid na pwede tumulong sakin. Iba yung emotional, physical, financial support ng may asawa (sino magbabantay sakin sa hospital, sino bibili ng cravings ko, sino ka ***y time ko whenever I want it)

Hanap ka ng widower na mabait, mayaman at maliliit pa mga anak...

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[_Cathy_]

Hanap ka ng widower na mabait, mayaman at maliliit pa mga anak...

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Hindi naman ako naghahanap ng mayaman, basta yung kaya lang i maintain lifestyle ko.

Complicated pag may anak na. I turned someone down last year (about my age) kasi naman 4 yung anak! Buti sana kung isa lang. His wife died from cancer. They married really early kasi tapos sunod sunod anak.

[mda]

If ayaw mo sana magka asawa, then okay lang to have very high standards (rather be single than to lower standards)

Pero mukhang gusto mo ng husband and kids... kaso di rin bumababa yung standards hehe.

Something's gotta give. Isipin mo rin, ano yung fastest time between meeting and marrying... mga 3 years?

Maybe you aren't making yourself 'available enough' to the males in your life? haha (asan na si mr uls..?)

Just a thought.

[_Cathy_]

If ayaw mo sana magka asawa, then okay lang to have very high standards (rather be single than to lower standards)

Pero mukhang gusto mo ng husband and kids... kaso di rin bumababa yung standards hehe.

Something's gotta give. Isipin mo rin, ano yung fastest time between meeting and marrying... mga 3 years?

Maybe you aren't making yourself 'available enough' to the males in your life? haha (asan na si mr uls..?)

Just a thought.

How can you say naman na high standards ako Wala nga ko standard sa looks though I admit preference ko talaga matangkad because it makes me feel protected. Basta wag lang sana na mas matangkad pa ko pag naka heels.

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[MR_BIG18]

I wish it were that easy. Alam mo naman mga issue ko sa buhay Hirap din pag masyado mataas naging benchmark (Dad)

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lets see in a few years time, facts of life, around 40, womens market value will go down..if youre looking for a succesfull man that can support your lifestyle, most of them are older ones, they looking around for younger girls..if makakakita ka, most of the time its someone from your past or older guy that has money pero kailangan ng may magaalaga sa kanya kasi matanda na sya...

ask the men here in their 40s, 50s and 60s...what age bracket ang gusto nila if they were single, no children( or with children pero grown ups na like vic sotto) at succesful, ill be honest..sakin 21-25yrs old..only pls







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[mda]

How can you say naman na high standards ako Wala nga ko standard sa looks though I admit preference ko talaga matangkad because it makes me feel protected. Basta wag lang sana na mas matangkad pa ko pag naka heels.

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It's just really a guess based on what you post sa forums. I could be [very] wrong of course hehe.

Pero it sounds like you want to be in a relationship but can't find the right guy talaga...

[shadow]

How can you say naman na high standards ako Wala nga ko standard sa looks though I admit preference ko talaga matangkad because it makes me feel protected. Basta wag lang sana na mas matangkad pa ko pag naka heels.

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Don't be discouraged cath. Punta ka na sa states kasi bagay sayo Westerner dapat ang maging asawa moPinoys are Insecure, mama's boy and no match to your personality.


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[uls]

Cathy:

Hindi naman ako naghahanap ng mayaman, basta yung kaya lang i maintain lifestyle ko.

lifestyle mo estimate ko 70K to 100K per month (that's your dog, your shopping, personal care etc)

so the guy has to be making close to 200K per month at least

How can you say naman na high standards ako Wala nga ko standard sa looks though I admit preference ko talaga matangkad because it makes me feel protected. Basta wag lang sana na mas matangkad pa ko pag naka heels.

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height?

your standards are way more than height

after describing your "crush" for 12 months i guess it's clear to everyone here how high your standards are

[forceG]

Pag nagka anak ako, grade school pa lang pag aralin ko na mag drive so he will drive for Mommy

My lolo taught my brother to drive when he was 11 or 12 (sa province) Freshman HS he was driving himself to school already. His school was in Alabang kasi and that was considered really far in the 80s

I taught my daughter how to drive when she was eight manual tranny pa, and hirap sya sa handbrake. Now shes 13 gusto nya monty dahil Matic na and electronic parking brakes.. she once said bagay daw sa mga tamad na driver[emoji12]


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[_Cathy_]

lets see in a few years time, facts of life, around 40, womens market value will go down..if youre looking for a succesfull man that can support your lifestyle, most of them are older ones, they looking around for younger girls..if makakakita ka, most of the time its someone from your past or older guy that has money pero kailangan ng may magaalaga sa kanya kasi matanda na sya...

ask the men here in their 40s, 50s and 60s...what age bracket ang gusto nila if they were single, no children( or with children pero grown ups na like vic sotto) at succesful, ill be honest..sakin 21-25yrs old..only pls







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So you're practically telling me patulan ko na lang kahit sino dahil 30s na ko. Kahit addict o walang trabaho o 4 na anak?

Wala ako early 20s na papatol sa 40s if not for money

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[uls]

Cathy:

Hindi naman ako naghahanap ng mayaman, basta yung kaya lang i maintain lifestyle ko.

uls:

lifestyle mo estimate ko 70K to 100K per month (that's your dog, your shopping, personal care etc)

so the guy has to be making close to 200K per month at least

correction:

dapat pala ung husband ni Cathy should be making at least half a million per month

100K palang kay Cathy na mapupunta

tapos expenses pa for the household

syempre the guy has his own expenses pa

[mda]

Ilink na naten yan sa kabilang thread...

500K/mo is...

That's like <0.6% of the population haha.

[BratPAQ]

Sinamahan si wife sa LTO to renew her license. Namputsa sa cashier pila. 2 hours na kami. Nakakatawa yung isang babae nagbubunganga na habang nasa harap ng picture "ayusin nyo sistema nyo, 2 oras na ko dito eh, blah blah blah. Biglang Sabi ng LTO attendant picture na mam, smile". Ngiti naman yung nag bubunganga. 🤣

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[MR_BIG18]

So you're practically telling me patulan ko na lang kahit sino dahil 30s na ko. Kahit addict o walang trabaho o 4 na anak?

Wala ako early 20s na papatol sa 40s if not for money

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pls watch...

https://youtu.be/I0jLJrYBc5o

read carefully:

TLDR: Aging effects both ***es ***ual marketplace value but in different ways and at different rates. The Wall is a real thing, and men have one as well but it is not a reinforced steel wall like it is for women. Men should understand this concept and realize that male ***ual marketplace value also declines with age but at a slower rate.

Body: Ill keep this short and simple. ***ual Marketplace value is highly correlated with fertility values, and because men maintain fertility for longer than women, we also hold our value better. This does not mean it is everlasting though, men also do expire, albeit slowly and on a different scale.

For simplicities sake we can refer back to the notion of the wall. The wall is a bit exaggeratted on this subreddit. The real fertility wall for women, the point at which their fertility begins rapidly declining, is around 35 (not 25-30 as many people like to believe to fuel their revenge fantasy). Female fertility does begin declining as early as 27 but it is generally a very slow decline, and does not become more rapid until about 35.

Slideshow: Understanding Fertility & Ovulation: Facts to Help You Get Pregnant

That being said, age also has the effect of magnifying bad habits like lack of exercise, bad diet, smoking, etc... which is why you will find many more attractive women in the 18-27 range than you will find in the 27-35 age range. This is not primarily a function of hitting "the wall", rather its a function of a poor lifestyle being magnified with time.

In reality, a woman with good habits may actually be at her peak physical attractiveness in her late twenties to early 30's:

https://garageofmontecristo.files.wo...06-26-2013.jpg

The majority of women look their best in their early to mid twenties however because of lifestyle choices not being magnified with time.

Men on the other hand are slightly different. Male attractiveness is based upon more than just being pretty, many women aren't even attracted to super pretty men. With age comes ruggedness, and masculinity and a little bit of aging can make men look better. Because of these physical factors, combined with men being able to mature intellectually and aquire more resources with time, the majority of men are most attractive AFTER the age of 25.

Male fertility does not begin declining until age 35, after which it is a very slow decline. This also correlates very closely with male physical attractiveness which appears to peak in the late twenties up to the late thirties.

The myth that men have never-ending, increasing ***ual market value needs to be busted however. Male ***ual market value begins declining more rapidly after the age of 40, and significantly more rapidly after the age of 45. Yes there are outlier examples of men with money, fame, and power who can defy these numbers, but for 99% of men it is true. Even James Bond is typically under 50. The male wall is real, but its a weaker wall than womens.

***ual Marketplace Value And Fertility General Guidelines

Women:

Green Zone: 18-28

Green/Yellow Cusp: 28-33

Yellow Zone: 33-39

Yellow/Red Cusp: 39-42

Red Zone: 42+ = 90% infertility and majority unattractive, with some outliers

Men:

Yellow Zone: 18-20 (Immature, lack of resources, inexperience)

Yellow/Green Cusp: 20-24

Green Zone: 24-37

Green/Yellow Cusp: 37-42

Yellow Zone: 42-50

Yellow/Red Cusp: 50+

Red Zone: Men stay fertile up into their late age and with money and power and good health and looks can maintain some level of ***ual attractiveness into their 50s and 60s and beyond. Some men can maintain high ***ual market value in this age range due to money/power/health/looks but not the majority of men. Overall for the majority of men your ***ual attractiveness is SIGNIFICANTLY lower at an advanced age than in a mans ***ual market and fertility prime which is roughly between the ages of 25-40.

Lessons Learned: Aging effects everyones ***ual market value, even mens. We can't think of ourselves as perpetually increasing in value, it is only the case early on and in outliers. We as men have a peak ***ual market value age, just like women, after which it also declines but more slowly. We need to understand this, and maximize our time by accomplishing as much in our primes as we can. A high value male can indeed be significantly older than a woman, but have a realistic sense of this.





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