What happened to my clothes maraming butas butas (circles)Wala naman daga sa bahay namin. Could it be ipis? But why that particular set of clothes only.
Nakakapikon talaga yung ex ko. He asked me to order from Amazon using my credit card and I hate how he does not initiate making the payment. The amount does not matter, whether big or small, it's the person's reliability. If I ask my friends to buy for me, even if the use their card, I give the cash payment as soon as they make the charge!
What ticks me off so much is if my ex an actual job then he would get his own credit card! He does nothing the whole day precisely because he has no job and then he complains na hassle to go to the bank to deposit the payment. It is really no wonder I cannot respect him in our 5 yrs togetherMy biggest mistake is thinking that he will change - get a job and be a responsible adult
I can't even count on him for anything. His friends I can count on, but not him.
Why why why am I magnet for these types of men! I want someone close to my dad (my Mom said Dad is nagiisa and I agree) Hard working, Successful, Masipag (5 am gising na), In charge, Protective - basically a man who has his life in order! What did I ever do to deserve this! Is this karma? I think I have long paid for that already!
Last edited by _Cathy_; February 13th, 2018 at 03:43 AM.
Sinabi ko naman nag iisa Dad ko pero at least someone close nga.
I just want a man with a strong personality and good character. Wala nga ko standards physically basta wag lang I'm taller than him
I don't believe one can change a person. Full stop.
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Last edited by _Cathy_; February 13th, 2018 at 12:09 PM.
We're still friends but I don't see him often. Just a few times a year. His parents travel a lot and his Mom still buys me (and the rest of my family) pasalubong. They also invite me in their family affairs.
He is not the only man like that in my lifeSome look like they have their life in order on the surface but it you dig deeper, hindi rin pala.
sabi ko nga men in your circle are lazy
example ung ex mo and that 50 yr old
rich kids kasi
never had to work for anything in their lives
D A perpetual student
My ex is middle class though. This is more frustrating because there are people who don't even have to work and yet had careers or made their own money. Honestly, if I am mid 40s and I just stay at home the whole day and do NOTHING, I would be so ashamed of myselfHe had several opportunities to get a job but he found BPOs (Accenture) beneath him. If he really wanted, there is so much money to make on the internet (blog, youtube etc) It's a cringeworthy means of earning money but at least he is earning.
I don't know why I am so malas when it comes to men. This is karma I think, but I have paid for it long ago.
Yes. Nothing turns me off more than a person who is lazy or an underachiever especially men.
I don't care how much money the person has, but just as CVT said, there is dignity in having a job (something to that effect hehehe)
I think I'm gonna have fever. Sore throat and feeling heavy![]()
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