
Originally Posted by
minicarph
ang problema kasi kapag may siblings, tapos you always look good and somehow projecting an image of no problem, nabubuwiset sila. eh anong magagawa ko eh yun ang training ko, na kahit anong problema project an image na walang problema. siblings are emotional coz they are somehow misers, misery loves company. and then they are threatened coz if you are portraying an image of success, the parents tend to compare you to them then favor you. if honorable sila, then there is no wrong in the comparison eh, and kaso theyre not honorable so they attack and twist me, instead of admitting to themselves na sila ang cause ng failures nila.
you know how they do it, they will start with me treating my wife as a queen even surpassing spending as compared to my parents daw . the entire year they 'd do that while you are busy working. they will have eyes, they will observe then twist. so come christmas season, they will use their children to get affection from my parents. YOu know what! even that gagamiten nila to spite me coz I still dont have a child of my own. is that even honorable? how could anyone go so low, using their own children as an excuse for them to get more from my parents, and demonizing me and my wife coz we are living like Solenn or Nico. there was this one time when my wife was given a stress pill and then isinumbong nila, abortion pill daw yun WT! I only learned of that 3 months after na, damage has been done coz somehow, nakapasok sila sa room namin while we were away and only the maid was there. yun kasi pill may isang ingredient daw dun that can damage the uterus according to the wife of my brother, na starting doctor pa lang nun. My dad was furious to me that time kasi sabi nya anong klaseng babae daw ang kinuha ko ayaw mag-anak. wala daw silbe ang mga taong walang anak sa mundo. you know that hurt be so much, and I rebelled and I went to the gym and instead find friends like me duon, mga health buffs na hinde puro anak pinag-uusapan. imagine sabhan ka ng tatay mo ng wala kang silbe kasi wala kang anak all because na-brainwash na sya.
if you want brothers/sisters like that, inyo na lang kapatid ko lol.
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hi, you know what's even more hurting. my dad who is my role model telling that to my face when I was the only one who followed him, his teachings since the start. na do good, perform well in life. at 25 I am already running 3 businesses , and I already bought 1 brand new car, and I used car on my own. tapos yan mga kapatid ko 30 na ngaun pati tuition ng anak nila inaasa pa nila sa magulang ko. dyan ka in-accept that life isn't fair. every year, I am grasping / absorbing that idea kahit ang sakit sakit.