actually i understand the guy. What if the guy encounters an accident and becomes paralyzed? then because the girl does not really love him, just goes around and gets new boys and started wasting money for "luxuries" and leaves the guy unattended?
i would not want a wife who would not dedicate her life to me since i would be dedicating my whole life to her after the wedding...
maybe im just imagining things.....
so why waste a good shag? .....just make sure the guy doesnt get paralyzed...