What's on this guy's mind?

[_Cathy_]

kaya pala you said favored ang conservative

i said favored ng parents

i was right

I know!!! Hindi ba pag favored ng parents eh favored na din ng guy? Ako kasi ganun e.

[Lucius]

I guess the girl just wants to know how bad you want her diba.

I thought it's understood na babawi yung girl pag kayo na. It's like you just need to prove yourself first. Sa ligaw stage ang hirap nasa guy pero pag BF GF na yung girl naman babawi sa guy. Ako kasi I hold everything back for when until the guy becomes my BF.

Aha, yea okay naman talaga na pag 'official' na eh gagawin na lahat JK

[_Cathy_]

hmmm. the guy won't suddenly stop unless there's a good reason for him to stop like if you did something radical or show-stopping. if he really was attracted to you then he won't stop even if he finds someone else coz in his mind you're still a candidate, and men can do this on multiple women.

he's probably playing mind games on you. withholding attention until YOU break the silence. if you do this you instantly communicate that you like him. you lose the game and you re-establish to him where he stands and that you're totally owned hehehe

this game is very effective on women, just look what's its doing to you right now hehehe

I hate mind games

[Lucius]

I hate mind games

Are you finally admitting that you are the 'friend' in this thread?

Sub-consciously girls are playing mind games ALL THE TIME. Ever been into a situation na kunwari the guy will ask you out, tapos sasabihin mo you have plans na pero wala naman. Or kunwari sasabihin mo you're seeing someone pero ang totoo eh wala nga nagtatanong sayo? I have girl friends that tells me stories whenever we bump into each other, and as expected ganyan ang naririnig ko lagi.

Kahit gusto or ayaw ung guy, minsan iba iba ung sinasabi just to play the guy around their palm

[uls]

I know!!! Hindi ba pag favored ng parents eh favored na din ng guy? Ako kasi ganun e.

nope

i have a dude friend who loves his gf but the dude's parents hate the girl

the parents have fixed him up with a girl pero di type ng friend ko

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I guess the girl just wants to know how bad you want her diba.

I thought it's understood na babawi yung girl pag kayo na. It's like you just need to prove yourself first. Sa ligaw stage ang hirap nasa guy pero pag BF GF na yung girl naman babawi sa guy. Ako kasi I hold everything back for when until the guy becomes my BF.

i understand that

but there are girls who don't let you go thru that

they treat u nice already on Day One you met

that's what i call "magaan kasama"

effortless kasama

when you're with the girl, di ka suyo mode

she makes you feel comfortable

you can be yourself

no "best foot forward" act

given a choice between a girl who tests me and a girl who makes me feel at ease agad

it's a no brainer

[_Cathy_]

Aha, yea okay naman talaga na pag 'official' na eh gagawin na lahat JK

di naman lahat. hehe.

[Lucius]

nope

i have a dude friend who loves his gf but the dude's parents hate the girl

the parents have fixed him up with a girl pero di type ng friend ko

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i understand that

but there are girls who don't let you go thru that

they treat u nice already on Day One you met

that's what i call "magaan kasama"

effortless kasama

when you're with the girl, di ka suyo mode

she makes you feel comfortable

you can be yourself

no "best foot forward" act

given a choice between a girl who tests me and a girl who makes me feel at ease agad

it's a no brainer

Yup, those girls with low expectations but same quality lang as those with high expectations of course san pa ba yung guy.

Girls who doesn't expect much = quality time, exciting. Girls who like this and that and doesn't want that blah blah type = hassle, boring and dapat laging careful which results to DISASTER dates most of the time sa sobrang ingat minsan nagiging boring haha

[_Cathy_]

i understand that

but there are girls who don't let you go thru that

they treat u nice already on Day One you met

that's what i call "magaan kasama"

effortless kasama

when you're with the girl, di ka suyo mode

she makes you feel comfortable

you can be yourself

no "best foot forward" act

given a choice between a girl who tests me and a girl who makes me feel at ease agad

it's a no brainer

Oh kasi if I meet a guy it's either romantic or platonic. If it's been set as platonic, ideally it shouldn't develop into something romantic.

May kilala akong girl who has a big crush on our office mate, she was really nice to him and trying to pass it off as friendship. Yun pala making the moves na. It's so sneaky kasi. Eventually he got the guy. But that is just too much work. hehehe.

If you see a girl ba, alam mo na agad if you want her in either a romantic or platonic manner? Or you always start with friendship?

[ans_lim168]

Oh kasi if I meet a guy it's either romantic or platonic. If it's been set as platonic, ideally it shouldn't develop into something romantic.

May kilala akong girl who has a big crush on our office mate, she was really nice to him and trying to pass it off as friendship. Yun pala making the moves na. It's so sneaky kasi. Eventually he got the guy. But that is just too much work. hehehe.

If you see a girl ba, alam mo na agad if you want her in either a romantic or platonic manner? Or you always start with friendship?

For me I would start it out as friendship, but before that I would already set my mind if I'm after a romantic or platonic relationship with her.

[uls]

Cathy:

If you see a girl ba, alam mo na agad if you want her in either a romantic or platonic manner? Or you always start with friendship?

friends

actually, i get to know more about a girl when we're friends

kesa sa girls na from the start palang alam na nila may romantic intention ka -- they tend to be more cautious, they put up a front, they're more protective of their image etc

pag alam ng girls wala ka romantic intention sa kanila, mas at ease sila e

mas totoo sila

and i hate being in suyo mode

it's so fake