What's on this guy's mind?

[chua_riwap]

Di ko na nabasa yung mga past posts dito. Anyways......Cathy, si 42 ba very much single pa rin ba?

[Lucius]

You start sensitive topics, so we expect you not to be sensitive at all with the answers. Nakakainis kasi ung puro friend ng friend when it all points to you.

Back to topic, ano ba tingin ng girl sa sarili nya? I think the girl is so full of herself, expecting compliments. Inaasar pa pala sya ng guy. Then the guy knows what he's doing. Not sure kung nasabi ko na to dati, but the only way to get someone is to stand out. Like my virgin friend, sobrang ganda nga sobrang walang pintas but she was shocked na may mga guys like me and others na hindi sya binibigyan ng ganong attention.

That's the only way to put a very high woman down to the ground. Masyadong madami na yata yung hangin sa sobrang dami ng pumupuri sa kanila. The guy is doing alright lang, tama lang yun para sa babae.

To answer if he's playing games or not, hindi. Hindi naman lahat ng lalake e parang aso na buntot ng buntot. Maybe the guy has OTHER options hindi lang yung FRIEND mo na nagpapakipot.

[uls]

Bad ba how my friends and I think? Basta I don't wanna do anything that I would be ashamed to tell my parents about.

di naman sa good or bad

it's just kinda outdated

buti sana if the playing field is level... like all the girls are conservative

so guys would have no choice but to make ligaw the "proper" way -- meaning the hard way

but the dating scene is now littered with women who make it easy for guys

we guys no longer have to go thru weeks or months of ligaw just to get a girl

sila pa nga nag aaya lumabas e

natural selection favors the girls who are "easier"

lalo na ung mga aggressive girls

kaya mejo on the brink of extinction na ang mga conservative girls

hehehe

[_Cathy_]

he must be quite a catch then .

any idea why he doesnt prey, i mean date women his age?

He seems to like women younger than him eh. We have classmates kasi that are in their 30s pero he seems to be not interested in them. I think the other girl who is in her late 30s/early 40s is interested in him.

[_Cathy_]

Di ko na nabasa yung mga past posts dito. Anyways......Cathy, si 42 ba very much single pa rin ba?

Yup single. Never been married. NO children.

[_Cathy_]

You start sensitive topics, so we expect you not to be sensitive at all with the answers. Nakakainis kasi ung puro friend ng friend when it all points to you.

Back to topic, ano ba tingin ng girl sa sarili nya? I think the girl is so full of herself, expecting compliments. .

Di ka naman galit sakin no?

I don't mind getting sensitive answers. It's just that it could be said in nicer way like ab_initio, full throttle, chua_riwap, ULS and all the other tsikoteers who try hard not to offend other people with their replies.

I get what you are trying to say though. If he's doing what you're saying then isn't that playing mind games??? He used to compliment the girl all time tapos he'll suddenly stop. Eh why? Parang bigla na lang siya nagising at ayaw na niya. He doesn't even look at her anymore.

[shadow]

Cathy, instead of asking the people here, diretsahin mo na yun lalake kung bakit ka ninakawan ng halik and kung ano ba ang gusto niya or intention niya saiyo, sabihin nahihirapan ka na dahil lagi mo siyang naiisip.

and stop using yun alter ego "friend" na...parang na we-weirduhan na ako saiyo eh...hehehe

peace.

[_Cathy_]

di naman sa good or bad

it's just kinda outdated

buti sana if the playing field is level... like all the girls are conservative

so guys would have no choice but to make ligaw the "proper" way -- meaning the hard way

but the dating scene is now littered with women who make it easy for guys

we guys no longer have to go thru weeks or months of ligaw just to get a girl

sila pa nga nag aaya lumabas e

natural selection favors the girls who are "easier"

lalo na ung mga aggressive girls

kaya mejo on the brink of extinction na ang mga conservative girls

hehehe

Baliktad na pala ngayon? I thought conservative girls are supposed to be favored over liberated girls.

I know someone who is liberated and started having *** in college and doesn't go through the dating stage anymore. A guy could be her BF in less than a month of dating then they'll have *** already. There were several times that she thought she was pregnant and none of the guys owned up to the responsibility. Parang that's hard naman.

ULS what if you went through the hassle of researching a girl's phone number and home address then you come to her house unannounced but she refuses to go out(kasi nga unannounced), would you still pursue the girl?

[Lucius]

Parang bigla na lang siya nagising at ayaw na niya.

Kuha mo naman pala na natauhan na yung guy e. Nagising na sya sa katotohanan na wala syang mapapala dun sa babae and time for him to move on to the NEXT

researching a girl's phone number and home address then you come to her house unannounced

-- STALKER ALERT

[Lucius]

Cathy, instead of asking the people here, diretsahin mo na yun lalake kung bakit ka ninakawan ng halik and kung ano ba ang gusto niya or intention niya saiyo, sabihin nahihirapan ka na dahil lagi mo siyang naiisip.

and stop using yun alter ego "friend" na...parang na we-weirduhan na ako saiyo eh...hehehe

peace.

Yup, the friend thing gets tiring. Parang ung kay deathlance, sa dami dami ng sinabi sa kanya din pala babagsak. Sometimes mahirap mag-react and be nice at the same time.