What's on this guy's mind?

[FullThrottle]

[SIZE=3]^^^ Yup I agree with woohoo. Most tsikoteers are well-meaning when they give their advise, not with the intent to offend you, but rather to make you realize the harsh truth. The fact is, most of us can sense that this guy is up to no good. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]Cheer up, madami kang kuya dito sa tsikot. [/SIZE]

[skyglider]

ms. cathy,

this is an excerpt from the Last Lecture by Randy Pausch.

"Jim Graham story. I have is there was one practice where he just rode me all practice. You’re doing this wrong, you’re doing this wrong, go back and do it again, you owe me, you’re doing push-ups after practice. And when it was all over, one of the other assistant coaches came over and said, yeah, Coach Graham rode you pretty hard, didn’t he? I said, yeah. He said, that’s a good thing. He said, when you’re screwing up and nobody’s saying anything to you anymore, that means they gave up."

sana may relevance. and im not saying that your screwing up... naalala ko lang kasi yung book eh. tsikoteers do care...

[ab_initio]

ms. cathy,

this is an excerpt from the Last Lecture by Randy Pausch.

"Jim Graham story. I have is there was one practice where he just rode me all practice. You’re doing this wrong, you’re doing this wrong, go back and do it again, you owe me, you’re doing push-ups after practice. And when it was all over, one of the other assistant coaches came over and said, yeah, Coach Graham rode you pretty hard, didn’t he? I said, yeah. He said, that’s a good thing. He said, when you’re screwing up and nobody’s saying anything to you anymore, that means they gave up."

sana may relevance. and im not saying that your screwing up... naalala ko lang kasi yung book eh. tsikoteers do care...

nice one, sky!

[_Cathy_]

Last night during their barkada gimmick, the guy showed up late and only for less than an hour. He also acted differently like he wasn't looking at the girl too much anymore. Also, after every barkada gimmick he'd always ask the girl if the two of them could go some place else after but this time he didn't.

Ano yun? Why the sudden change?

[uls]

either he's just playing mind games with her

or he's no longer into her

[_Cathy_]

So going psycho is the most effective way of scaring off men huh?

How will the girl know it it's just mind games or he no longer likes her? It's really sad when someone gives you so much attention then suddenly drops you like a hot potato. Grrrrr.

He no longer looks at the girl the way he used to before.

[uls]

So going psycho is the most effective way of scaring off men huh?

haha

yup

How will the girl know it it's just mind games or he no longer likes her?

if he suddenly goes back to normal again, then he's playing mind games

but if he doesnt go back to normal, like forever, then he lost interest in the girl

[FullThrottle]

How will the girl know it it's just mind games or he no longer likes her? It's really sad when someone gives you so much attention then suddenly drops you like a hot potato. Grrrrr.

He no longer looks at the girl the way he used to before.

By Asking! Ask the guy, I mean tell your friend to ask the guy directly. Your friend is already 28 and the guy is 42; they’re no longer teenagers. Teenagers can afford to waste time on relationship issues because they have a long way to go to learn the ups and downs of life. Adults don’t have that luxury. The shortest distance between two points is a straight line. Get it straight to the point. Your friend deserves to know the answer; she deserves an explanation. And the best way to do just that is for your friend to gather all her courage and ask.

Obviously your friend likes the guy, so the objective now is to try to find out if he kissed her because he liked her genuinely or wala lang, he just felt like it, just acted out of impulse. Kung yung pangalawa ang sagot, then she should forget about him. We can analyze and speculate, but only by asking the guy can your friend truly know the answer.

[uls]

Cathy?

ask the guy?

Di gagawin ni Cathy yan (i mean friend nya)

reasons:

a) ma-pride si Cathy

b) for Cathy, it's not proper for a lady to ask a guy things like that

c) Cathy will think what will the guy think

d) Cathy will think what will other people think

e) like Cathy said, she has already lost the upper hand, asking the guy what's going on will make her look like humahabol sya... di pwede kay Cathy yan

hehe

[FullThrottle]

Well, sayang naman kung hindi magte-take ng step yung friend ni Cathy. A know a lot of people who look back in their past and regret, thinking of the “what ifs.” If Cathy’s friend really likes the guy, I say make the step. That will not make her less of a person. Besides, like what I said she deserves an explanation for being kissed like that in the first place. At least in the future she will not look back and regret that she had a shot now but because of pride or fear of the unknown, she let it slip away. Carpe diem!