What Do You Do To Overcome Sadness?

[_Cathy_]

I talk to the love of my life It's kinda weird na even if we are talking work/business, I find him so s3xy. Now he has a new fan sa friends ko. Everytime I talk to my office GF she reminds me to be good to crush. Hahaha

Medyo kainis na crush is encouraging me to take an expat assignment e I don't wanna be away from him kaya [emoji4]

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[_Cathy_]

Feeling sad again.

Pero eyes on the prize. Hindi ko alam gaano ko matatagalan ang constant rejection. Can't even reply to my text. Anyway, intayin ko na lang na siya mag text, he probably doesn't like it if I text him first.

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[Dr. Strange]

Feeling sad again.

Pero eyes on the prize. Hindi ko alam gaano ko matatagalan ang constant rejection. Can't even reply to my text. Anyway, intayin ko na lang na siya mag text, he probably doesn't like it if I text him first.

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Baka busy lang si crush

[_Cathy_]

Baka busy lang si crush

Yes, he is super busy especially since March, he has more work because of the lockdown.

I do appreciate that he makes time for me, pero naninibago lang ako kasi dati araw gabi we are talking or texting, dun nga ko nabilib sa kanya kasi siya lang ang guy who was able to do this considering na busy high power executive siya.

I can't expect things to be the way it used to be pero how long will I win him back, what if that day doesn't come?

Hindi ko alam kung may pagtingin pa ba siya sakin Should I just accept na friends na lang kami. I'm saving myself for him pa naman.

For the past few weeks ata hindi na sumasagot sa text, kaya naisip ko baka ayaw niya na ako nauuna, though hindi ko naman talaga gawain yan, sabi ng friends ko I have to do it to show crush na I am making effort, pero mukhang di naman niya gusto.

Anyway naabutan ako ng Mommy ko umiiyak sa kama ko

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[uls]

For the past few weeks ata hindi na sumasagot sa text, kaya naisip ko baka ayaw niya na ako nauuna, though hindi ko naman talaga gawain yan, sabi ng friends ko I have to do it to show crush na I am making effort, pero mukhang di naman niya gusto.

wait wait

how does your "relationship" go ba?

you're the one who texts and he doesn't reply but he calls you

so how many texts do you send to receive a call from him?

[uls]

does he call you whether you text or not?

gugulatin ka nalang sa tawag?

like you're totally not expecting bigla siya tatawag?

or you expect him to call after sending him texts?

he doesn't reply to your texts and he doesn't text you when you don't text him?

[_Cathy_]

wait wait

how does your "relationship" go ba?

you're the one who texts and he doesn't reply but he calls you

so how many texts do you send to receive a call from him?

He calls me almost daily naman, I only text him after our call, I would thank him for calling me or may mga pahabol ako na thoughts :P Bitin kasi, we talk once a day for 1 hour, dati kasi all day and night

does he call you whether you text or not?

gugulatin ka nalang sa tawag?

like you're totally not expecting bigla siya tatawag?

or you expect him to call after sending him texts?

he doesn't reply to your texts and he doesn't text you when you don't text him?

Yes he calls naman daily and I like his consistency (isa sa mga bagay na kina inlove ko sa kanya) When he is not able to call for the day, that's when he texts me. Pero yung mga lambing text ko, deadma.

Even when we were together 3 yrs ago, I never called him, he always initiates the calls, I prefer it that way kasi ramdam ko pagka babae ko at pagka "in charge" niya. Kaya match kami in that way. I like how he can "manage" me

Siguro dati he wanted me as much as I wanted him, we were addicted to each other. Pero ngayon ako na lang ang addict sa kanya. Alam mo naman, why I am so crazy for him, it's chemical/physical.

[uls]

so whether you text him or not he calls you around the same time every morning?

how long does the talk last?

then that's it? no more calls for the rest of the day? and he doesn't reply to your texts?

tapos next morning tawag siya uli?

[_Cathy_]

so whether you text him or not he calls you around the same time every morning?

how long does the talk last?

then that's it? no more calls for the rest of the day? and he doesn't reply to your texts?

tapos next morning tawag siya uli?

so whether you text him or not he calls you around the same time every morning?

yeah, hindi siya consistent sa time kasi he looks for free time in his sched, pag wala, he could call me while he is in a virtual meeting, so I do appreciate that he makes time for me. Naririnig ko when he is talking to his staff (turn on! hahaha) and it amazes me how he can talk to me and at the same time be in a conference call. Kapag super busy talaga, that is the only time he would initiate a text, to tell me na he can't call that day, bukas na lang

Dati kasi he would call me on his drive home Now hindi na

how long does the talk last?

We talk for more or less 1 hour

then that's it? no more calls for the rest of the day? and he doesn't reply to your texts?

correct, he only calls once a day and when I text him right after our call, he does not reply anymore

tapos next morning tawag siya uli?

correct again, next day na ang tawag

Bakit alam mo ang pattern? What does that mean? Is he taking things slow?

[uls]

Bakit alam mo ang pattern? What does that mean? Is he taking things slow?

i'm just imagining...

i dunno... maybe he's truly busy and can only give you that time in the morning

OR that's all he's willing to give you

magkaiba yun:

1 - gusto ka pa niya makausap (sa tanghali o sa hapon o sa gabi) pero di niya kaya talaga

2 - kaya naman niya pero ayaw niya -- sabi niya sa sarili niya "i will only call Cathy once a day in the morning"