venue or locale may tip the balance of meeting your particular someone *deathlance
but it has always been the qualities you project outward (like how you carry yourself or how you come across) that'll tip the scale in you favour.
sharing some insight and a familiar pic
i couldn't tell right away that jill on the center is among those whose families are worth more than $600 million apiece. believe me she and leanne are "kalog" and unpretentious cousins despite being privilege (you know the boarding school type) like most people I know who are accustomed all their lives to wealth and immunity. i don't know where did you get the notion that there's a disparity between the sosyal types and the non-sosyal types. on the contrary the fact is the line's getting narrower and blurred especially among developed countries. siguro before in the 80's they live decadent lifestyles pero nowadays rich people are also prudent and live well below their means just like most if not the rest of us. sosyal? whatever.
my advice to you is don't prove yourself but instead improve yourself and "they" will come irrespective of your financial capability. KIT (keep it simple)