Paano mo malalaman kung in love ka na?

[_Cathy_]

this is such a one-sided conservation.

i wonder what the other side has to seigh...

What do you mean dr? Wala naman ako sinasalaysay na storya so there is no "other side". Those are just my own thoughts and feelings.

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[dr. d]

What do you mean dr? Wala naman ako sinasalaysay na storya so there is no "other side". Those are just my own thoughts and feelings.

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yes. your own thoughts and feelings.
i am wondering, what the other person has to say.

[_Cathy_]

yes. your own thoughts and feelings.
i am wondering, what the other person has to say.

Has to say about what? Our situation? He doesn't like to talk about it so I don't insist

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[dr. d]

Has to say about what? Our situation? He doesn't like to talk about it so I don't insist

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well,
you talk about it here.
he doesn't talk about what you are to him.
i am just curious, what these thoughts of his about you, are.

i do not insist, either.
but it sure would be nice to know...

[_Cathy_]

well,
you talk about it here.
he doesn't talk about what you are to him.
i am just curious, what these thoughts of his about you, are.

i do not insist, either.
but it sure would be nice to know...

I'd like to know that also, what I am to him. Based on his actions though - friend.

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[misseksaherada]

May improvement na si crush because he does not miss a day anymore to text or call me. When will I get to see him kaya and touch him kahit platonic lang haha. There are days when I want him so bad and then days when I feel like cutting ties with him (when he disappoints or hurts me). Ewan ko lang why he refuses to call me on his drive to and from work and I also don't know why I don't turn him on anymore.

Nung nagri-research ako nakita ko yung "LIMERENCE".. I-google nyo Ms. Cathy.. Baka makatulong sa pag-manage ng feelings nyo kay crush.. Associated sa low levels ng serotonin and elevated level naman ng dopamine and norepinephrine.. May mga checklist din para maiwasan ang limerence..
Nakaka-amaze lang din talaga how these chemicals work sa brain natin.. Grabe yung physical attraction, once na maisip mo it sends signal from stomach area down.. Tapos sasakit puson.. Tapos makaka isip nga ng iba't ibang scenario.. Kahit aware ka sa reality, mag-take over talaga yung fantasies ng what ifs.. Palakasan na lang talaga ng isip.. Di dapat marupok..
Magpa-chase ka lang Ms. Cathy, kung back na sya sa pagiging consistent sa pag call sayo para kamustahin kung ano naging araw mo.. That's a good sign, kahit as friends lang.. Lalo na yan ang new normal.

[ray_noel]

Nung nagri-research ako nakita ko yung "LIMERENCE".. I-google nyo Ms. Cathy.. Baka makatulong sa pag-manage ng feelings nyo kay crush.. Associated sa low levels ng serotonin and elevated level naman ng dopamine and norepinephrine..

Limerence... hmmm...



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[_Cathy_]

Nung nagri-research ako nakita ko yung "LIMERENCE".. I-google nyo Ms. Cathy.. Baka makatulong sa pag-manage ng feelings nyo kay crush.. Associated sa low levels ng serotonin and elevated level naman ng dopamine and norepinephrine.. May mga checklist din para maiwasan ang limerence..
Nakaka-amaze lang din talaga how these chemicals work sa brain natin.. Grabe yung physical attraction, once na maisip mo it sends signal from stomach area down.. Tapos sasakit puson.. Tapos makaka isip nga ng iba't ibang scenario.. Kahit aware ka sa reality, mag-take over talaga yung fantasies ng what ifs.. Palakasan na lang talaga ng isip.. Di dapat marupok..
Magpa-chase ka lang Ms. Cathy, kung back na sya sa pagiging consistent sa pag call sayo para kamustahin kung ano naging araw mo.. That's a good sign, kahit as friends lang.. Lalo na yan ang new normal.

lim·er·ence

the state of being infatuated or obsessed with another person, typically experienced involuntarily and characterized by a strong desire for reciprocation of one's feelings but not primarily for a ***ual relationship.

Opposite ata kasi yung s3xual attraction ko kay crush ang hindi mawala LOL. Talagang nang gigigil ako sa kanya I get turned on with even the simplest things, sometimes I think, para naman ako manyak kasi he does something so ordinary and it becomes s3xual to me Imagine, him turning pages of documents and I find it hot?

Kanina pala he called me and his secretary interrupted him multiple times and I found it so hot when he told his secretary that it should not need his signature anymore. I asked him about it and I agree na that amount dapat manager level lang (AM pa nga e). I told him I will apply as his secretary and he said hindi ako pwede kasi I am always late HAHAHA! He also told me I get away with murder with my bosses, hmm parang gusto sabihin na sa kanya hindi ako uubra? haha

I'm pleased nga na consistent na siya kasi that's one of his traits na nagustuhan ko. Pero yung emails ko dati first thing in the morning sumagot, ngayon inaabot na ilang araw

[misseksaherada]

Opposite ata kasi yung s3xual attraction ko kay crush ang hindi mawala LOL. Talagang nang gigigil ako sa kanya I get turned on with even the simplest things, sometimes I think, para naman ako manyak kasi he does something so ordinary and it becomes s3xual to me Imagine, him turning pages of documents and I find it hot?

Kanina pala he called me and his secretary interrupted him multiple times and I found it so hot when he told his secretary that it should not need his signature anymore. I asked him about it and I agree na that amount dapat manager level lang (AM pa nga e). I told him I will apply as his secretary and he said hindi ako pwede kasi I am always late HAHAHA! He also told me I get away with murder with my bosses, hmm parang gusto sabihin na sa kanya hindi ako uubra? haha

I'm pleased nga na consistent na siya kasi that's one of his traits na nagustuhan ko. Pero yung emails ko dati first thing in the morning sumagot, ngayon inaabot na ilang araw

Not sure kung tama yung napansin ko na may positive improvement naman yung nararamdaman mo.. Di tulad dati na sobrang saya then sobra kang malulungkot.. Ngayon mukhang na-manage mo na.. Great progress yun, tingin ko your in control na sa iniinvest mo na time+feelings kay crush.. I-enjoy mo na lang muna.. Pandemic pa naman, pampalipas oras din yan.. Pang-kilig at pang-aliw.. Basta wag masyado marupok.. Hehehe tsaka dapat open ka pa din sa iba pang prospect wag ka masyado loyal kay crush para may plan B ka pa or more.. Basta masaya ka, masaya kami dito sa Tsikot.

[_Cathy_]

Naiintindihan ko na why SO even after knowing me for over 15 yrs still looked at me the same way he did when we first met. I would always ask him bakit kahit ang taba ko na he still wants me at nakaka kilig sagot niya (I miss him tuloy)

Si Dr Cutie kasi, he may have been older than me by over 2 decades pero my image of him was him at his prime (mid 20s). Siguro ganun talaga when you adore a person, kahit tumanda, tumaba, mag wrinkle, you will always see them at their most attractive...

Yung second Mom ko, I showed her videos of Dr Cutie in his 20s, hindi niya nakilala lol! (tumaba kasi Dr Cutie) pero ako, the first time I saw him guapo na agad tingin ko, when I looked up his young photos and videos e di lalo ako nahimatay sa Robin da Roza look. I miss him so much...