My Date's Dad Is Hitting On Me?

[misseksaherada]

Up ko lang.. Ang haba ng topic na ito.. Baka makatulog ako.. [emoji28] Tama nga months before I joined Tsikot yung last na message..

[misseksaherada]

Natapos ko lang 1-45 and nag-start ako 730.. [emoji28]
Nakakatakot.. Ang dami ko pa talagang hindi alam sa mundo.. Madami ako natututunan talaga sa Tsikot..

[_Cathy_]

Natapos ko lang 1-45 and nag-start ako 730.. [emoji28]
Nakakatakot.. Ang dami ko pa talagang hindi alam sa mundo.. Madami ako natututunan talaga sa Tsikot..

7:30? Anong timezone? 6:15 pa lang hahaha!

Akala ko din nagiisa lang Dad ni SO kaya napa post ako sa thread because I cannot believe when it happened, but based on the thread, galawan DOM pala talaga yun

[uls]

Natapos ko lang 1-45 and nag-start ako 730.. [emoji28]
Nakakatakot.. Ang dami ko pa talagang hindi alam sa mundo.. Madami ako natututunan talaga sa Tsikot..

did you see the part where i said pareho sila psycho kaya bagay sila

[misseksaherada]

7:30? Anong timezone? 6:15 pa lang hahaha!

Post number 1 up to 45... then I skipped the rest.. Nag-start lang ako ulet 730 until end..

did you see the part where i said pareho sila psycho kaya bagay sila

Yup, nakita ko yun.. Mukhang meron nga sila mutual understanding na hindi ako maka-relate..


Ms. Cathy, I may not understand yung dynamics ng friendship/relationship nyo.. "Significant Other" pa pala sya.. Pero yung sample texts na na-post nyo grabe na ang level sakin nun.. Nakakatakot na sya sakin.. Di ko alam baka iba lang talaga environment ko.. Baka sa mayayaman normal lang yan.. Anyways, push nyo na lang si Crush.. Dun ako boto.. May warning sign sakin yang si SO mo.. Nakakatakot sya for me pati na din Dad nya..

[_Cathy_]

SO's Dad had a stroke pala. I asked him the reason and he said he took too much viagra I think he's turning 89 this year. Kasi naman why didn't he just "retire" from womanizing e. I remember SO being so problematic because his Dad was picking up girls at casinos LOL! If he didn't have a stroke he'd still be super strong but now he's weak na. SO asked me if I could come over to his house because he is so depressed. I feel bad for his Dad also, siguro naman his Dad would be tame na by now.

I could imagine his Dad like this.

[_Cathy_]

Can someone interpret how he sees me?

I appreciate that SO is still attracted to me even if I'm older, uglier and fatter than when he first met me when I was 22 or 23. It seems like his vision of me is stuck there LOL!

For the longest time I resisted the advances of SO because when we met I didn't date guys his age and he really wasn't my type. He could be a bit crass too. Also, our friend, female lawyer is SO IN LOVE with him. A few years after I met SO she straight out told me that she was dating SO and I should stay away from him because SO only wants my *part of my body* That was my confirmation that SO was prospecting me.

Anyway, for so many years I've been telling SO that I did not want to hurt female lawyer's feelings and he said I can't force him to like her. Saka may proof kasi physically that he is not attracted to her LOL. He said she looks like Michelle Obama It seems like he gave her a chance kasi hinahabol talaga siya pero wala e.

BUT BUT BUT when it comes to serious stuff like he has to go to the dentist, documents, family emergency, business or buy stuff, it's female lawyer that he calls! He only calls me when he wants to date or hang out. He RARELY asks for my help or talks serious stuff with me even if I want to! He says when he's with me he just wants to enjoy. WTF. AM I A CLOWN???

Kung babasehan ang actions, he loves female lawyer kasi diba, men, the first person they call when they are at their saddest, happiest or helplessness is the most important person to them? Am I right or am I right? I think he is in denial because physically female lawyer does NOT fit his ideal because she's morena PLUS she is a year or so older than him. I think it's safe to say he wants relatively younger women with our 15 yr age gap, he even dated another girl a bit younger than I am There was one time nga female lawyer told me they were in Greenbelt and when they saw a common friend SO disappeared. SO said he hates that guy daw, but knowing SO I am sure he didn't want to be seen with her.

Why am I ranting about this? Female lawyer said in our GC that SO is asking her help on something. It made me think, does SO see me as unreliable or incapable. Should I be happy that he never bothers me with his problems? Si female lawyer naman when they are together it's never a good time. It's always her doing favors for him.

[Ry_Tower]

Can someone interpret how he sees me?

I appreciate that SO is still attracted to me even if I'm older, uglier and fatter than when he first met me when I was 22 or 23. It seems like his vision of me is stuck there LOL!

For the longest time I resisted the advances of SO because when we met I didn't date guys his age and he really wasn't my type. He could be a bit crass too. Also, our friend, female lawyer is SO IN LOVE with him. A few years after I met SO she straight out told me that she was dating SO and I should stay away from him because SO only wants my *part of my body* That was my confirmation that SO was prospecting me.

Anyway, for so many years I've been telling SO that I did not want to hurt female lawyer's feelings and he said I can't force him to like her. Saka may proof kasi physically that he is not attracted to her LOL. He said she looks like Michelle Obama It seems like he gave her a chance kasi hinahabol talaga siya pero wala e.

BUT BUT BUT when it comes to serious stuff like he has to go to the dentist, documents, family emergency, business or buy stuff, it's female lawyer that he calls! He only calls me when he wants to date or hang out. He RARELY asks for my help or talks serious stuff with me even if I want to! He says when he's with me he just wants to enjoy. WTF. AM I A CLOWN???

Kung babasehan ang actions, he loves female lawyer kasi diba, men, the first person they call when they are at their saddest, happiest or helplessness is the most important person to them? Am I right or am I right? I think he is in denial because physically female lawyer does NOT fit his ideal because she's morena PLUS she is a year or so older than him. I think it's safe to say he wants relatively younger women with our 15 yr age gap, he even dated another girl a bit younger than I am There was one time nga female lawyer told me they were in Greenbelt and when they saw a common friend SO disappeared. SO said he hates that guy daw, but knowing SO I am sure he didn't want to be seen with her.

Why am I ranting about this? Female lawyer said in our GC that SO is asking her help on something. It made me think, does SO see me as unreliable or incapable. Should I be happy that he never bothers me with his problems? Si female lawyer naman when they are together it's never a good time. It's always her doing favors for him.

You are his happy pill.

On the other hand, "You are not unreliable and incapable, it's just that he sees female lawyer as more reliable and dependable". Lawyer eh, magkamali man mabilis palusot dyan.

[_Cathy_]

I had lunch with my friends today and I noticed that female lawyer wasn't happy when she found out that SO and I are talking again. I have no plans of making SO my BF e pinapaubaya ko nga sa kanya and that's always the cause of SO getting mad at me kasi pinagpipilitan ko for them to be romantic. I did NOT want to talk about True Green yet with them since bago pa kami but I was forced to show her that I have someone and I am NOT interested in her man (na ayaw naman sa kanya)

Napunta sa usapan na how come I am NOT health conscious and even when I became overweight the guys I date (80%) are fit and have nice bodies - 32 waistline consistent (no joke) Extreme kasi ako either bear or fit.

Female lawyer said maybe because the fit guys they want people to look at them kasi kapag maganda kasama sa babae titingin. WTF. Medyo na shock ako and I told her verbatim "so are you saying pangit ako?" then she said "no, baka ayaw lang nila ng head turner" Que Horror! So it that supposed to be less insulting? Alam ko hindi ako head turner but was that supposed to make me feel better??! Double whammy e, nagassume na narcissist the men I date and that I am a date down/unattractive.

That's when I felt like, wow this woman hates me subconsciously. Maybe for her fat = ugly/undateable. She even asked me how True Green feels about how I look now. GRABE TALAGA!!!! I said he's okay kasi he had an ex din naman na chubby.

Why is female lawyer like that e she's overweight na rin since she menopaused I'm not bothered that she thinks I am unattractive, I just didn't expect na she thinks so low of me just because I got fat na

Kapag ako naging 50 kg I will wear tube tops again. Just kidding.

[_Cathy_]

I just recalled another reason she said why there are fit guys that date overweight women (like moi) kasi walang masyado naa attract na ibang guys. So she practically said, kasi mataba/pangit ka so guys date you para wala sila kaagaw. Double insult again because she assumes I date insecure men?

She did NOT mean to be rude to me but her words gave her away! I saw the panic in her face when I told her "so are you saying pangit ako?" I told my Paulinian friend about it and she said ang taas pala ng tingin ni Female lawyer sa sarili niya. Just because she's accomplished, fluent in Spanish, sophisticated and cultured e she deserves better men than us peasants? I met her I was early 20s so hindi naman ako pangit/fat that time.

Kaya nalilito din ako kasi some men say those things DO NOT matter, some say that it does. The question is, I've known her for almost 2 decades and she didn't have a man all those years Mahilig kasi sa guapo, then when I dated a big guy in the early 2010s, he's tall, maputi and so huggable naman. I can't forget her words na "Are you crazy?". That shows ang baba ng tingin niya sa overweight.

Naisip ko tuloy comment na "Huwag choosy kung hindi juicy"