Thanks for the warning CVT.
I have no choice but to wait for his first move so if ever this goes to court somehow (mahilig sa usapang legal ang mokong) I can claim self defense. The reason for this is that I'm bigger than him, younger than him, posses hand to hand combat skills, and am a blackbelt in at least one martial art. I have to make sure I have exhausted all possibilities of keeping him at bay before going postal on him. (Judging from his behavior, it shouldn't be long now)
I've been passing by the house these past few days and the nimrod always holes up in his room as soon as he hears my truck pull up. The mother is not around so wala siyang popormahan at taga-awat. Napapansin ko na mas may angas yung kumag kapag nandiyan yung nanay. I guess this just means that he can temporarily get his balls from his wife's purse while she's around Though I don't think that they're that big to begin with as he only threatens legal mumbo jumbo rather than actually doing something. As already mentioned, he tried something last weekend and with my intervention, he's just all threats and failed dramatics now. At the end of his whole momologue (we weren't really minding him anymore) he closes the door to his room and locks it. Thing is, his wife is still outside and knocks saying "Why'd you lock the door? I'm still out here! Open up!" A few seconds later the door opens and he says "sige, pumasok ka na, pero ikaw lang" then closes the door to lock it again As if we wanted to enter that room anyways. Sheesh!
These days he seems to like slamming doors now but we still pay him no mind as I told everyone not to mind him as he just seems to grow bolder if people actually pays him mind. At least this way, we do not provoke him. So if he has another outburst and he turns violent, he cannot say we provoked him thus making a better case against him.
Last edited by HardCharger; December 1st, 2010 at 12:24 PM.
sir makikiraan lang.
sa tingin ko sir wala kayong laban dun kapag kayo na ang napagbuntunan nya once na mag-amok sya sa bahay nila. bisita ka kasi doon sir at kapag ikaw na ang pagtripan nya, pwede nyang ilaban(kung meron na legal case) na trespassing ka. so ingat nalang sir na wag magkaroon ng scuffle sa loob ng bahay nya. ilabas mo sa kalye at doon kayo mag-square.
just my 2[SIZE=3]¢[/SIZE]
Your friend can rent or stay with friends. If she really wanted to leave, she could have done it ages ago. There is a reason why she's putting up with all his $h!t. Find out the real reason why she can't leave.
+1. . .
if she will have the money to buy a house in 2 years' time, she most probably has the capacity to rent a place for herself now. . .
btw, that's the band-aid solution, kung iyon lang ang gusto nya. . .
for a permanent solution, and if the mother is in agreement, kasuhan na dapat yung father if the criminal acts she claims her father had done actually did happen