how do you get over a broken heart?

**EQAddict** · October 26th, 2020 05:33 PM

"One of the biggest mistakes people generally make, and I am guilty of it too, is wishful thinking. You want something to be true even if it isnt true, and so you ignore things, you ignore the real truth because of what you want to be true. " - Elon Musk

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**_Cathy_** · October 26th, 2020 06:27 PM

Originally Posted by EQAddict

"One of the biggest mistakes people generally make, and I am guilty of it too, is wishful thinking. You want something to be true even if it isnt true, and so you ignore things, you ignore the real truth because of what you want to be true. " - Elon Musk

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That's me

I keep on ignoring the red flags. He called me twice kanina and I didn't get to answer. He messaged me that he will call again tomorrow. I replied na I have fever since Friday and seen zoned. Wow, he really cares huh? He can't even take 5 sec to reply get well soon or ask how I am. Samantalang when he is sick I get so worried and even offer to take care of him. He still hasn't updated me on that document that I wanted him to review. Baka kung sa Tsikoteers ako dito nag ask help baka matagal ng tapos?!?! Dyahe lang kasi those involve our finances.

Lalo tuloy sumama pakiramdam ko and thinking of an RT PCR test

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**StockEngine** · October 26th, 2020 06:41 PM

**ray_noel** · October 26th, 2020 06:59 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

That's me

I keep on ignoring the red flags. He called me twice kanina and I didn't get to answer. He messaged me that he will call again tomorrow. I replied na I have fever since Friday and seen zoned. Wow, he really cares huh? He can't even take 5 sec to reply get well soon or ask how I am. Samantalang when he is sick I get so worried and even offer to take care of him. He still hasn't updated me on that document that I wanted him to review. Baka kung sa Tsikoteers ako dito nag ask help baka matagal ng tapos?!?! Dyahe lang kasi those involve our finances.

Lalo tuloy sumama pakiramdam ko and thinking of an RT PCR test

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Still not enough to get rid of him forever?

Wow ha. Grabeh ka nah.

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**_Cathy_** · October 26th, 2020 07:09 PM

Originally Posted by ray_noel

Still not enough to get rid of him forever?

Wow ha. Grabeh ka nah.

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Disappointing kasi ngayon lang naman ako nagsabi na may sakit ako, and normally people get worried pag fever. Mga friends ko nga worried na pero siya wala man lang reply. Kung si SO nag call na agad

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**ray_noel** · October 26th, 2020 08:30 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Disappointing kasi ngayon lang naman ako nagsabi na may sakit ako, and normally people get worried pag fever. Mga friends ko nga worried na pero siya wala man lang reply. Kung si SO nag call na agad

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Manhid mo naman ms cath... siguro nothing to lose na ini.isip mo sa self mo noh, whether you receive a reply from him or not... still you will continue with your crush... parang nasanay ka na... so go pa rin...

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**_Cathy_** · October 26th, 2020 08:46 PM

Originally Posted by ray_noel

Manhid mo naman ms cath... siguro nothing to lose na ini.isip mo sa self mo noh, whether you receive a reply from him or not... still you will continue with your crush... parang nasanay ka na... so go pa rin...

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Hindi ako martyr. I am not happy that he seen zoned me at one of my lowest points. Nag post na nga lang ako sa board to take my mind off things pero mahirap kasi nanghihina ako at nasusuka. Hindi ko ma imagine why I would get fever at this time? Hindi naman ako naulanan. I could only think nung lumabas ako ng October 16

**ray_noel** · October 26th, 2020 09:03 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Hindi ako martyr. I am not happy that he seen zoned me at one of my lowest points. Nag post na nga lang ako sa board to take my mind off things pero mahirap kasi nanghihina ako at nasusuka. Hindi ko ma imagine why I would get fever at this time? Hindi naman ako naulanan. I could only think nung lumabas ako ng October 16

If you have the sympthons found below better have yourself check for peace of mind...

Full list of 17 long Covid symptoms that plague body and mind - from hair loss to incontinence

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**_Cathy_** · October 26th, 2020 09:12 PM

Originally Posted by ray_noel

If you have the sympthons found below better have yourself check for peace of mind...

Full list of 17 long Covid symptoms that plague body and mind - from hair loss to incontinence

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Kahit normal healthy person will have a few of those symptoms

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**_Cathy_** · October 27th, 2020 02:50 AM

Originally Posted by Little Missy

Diba nagconfess ka and hindi siya nagreciprocate. Tapos sabi mo okay lang kahit as friends na lang kasi you enjoy your convo. So bakit mo pa hinahanapan ng meaning yung daily talks niyo other than what it is.

Hindi mo rin siya pwedeng sisihin kasi pumapayag ka sa ganyang set up. Ikaw itong nagpapakita ng affection, hindi niya binabalik, tapos naghahanap ka pa ng sagot eh nasa harapan mo na.

He's not showing any signs that he wants to pursue this outside what it is so whether single siya or attached, it doesn't matter, you have to move on. Please don't say you're okay being friends. It doesn't look like it. Umaasa ka and hindi ka makakamove on kapag kinakausap mo pa siya.

Yes, I told him I want things back to the way they were before and he said he wished there was a button he can push pero wala daw. But I did ask him if there is a possibility and he said yes.

I also thought I was okay with us being friends but when I think about him spending time with his wife/gf parang hindi ko kaya. Yung ginagawa niya sakin dati, ginagawa niya sa iba. Pero hindi ko talaga maintindihan why he still calls me and gives me an hour or more of his precious time but won't admit that there is someone else. It is so cruel to string me along.

LM!!! I really wish I had a GF I could cry to and hug right now pero kahit "ex" ko na siya, hindi ko magawa mag kwento ng disappointments ko sa kanya with my friends. Buti na lang nandyan ka. Pero yung GFs ko even if I don't say anything, the fact that this has been going on for so long without progress does not make them happy. I also have a friend who WAS a mistress and she says crush has all the signs

Hanggang ngayon masakit pa rin sakin yung I told him na hindi ko nasagot calls niya kasi 3 days na ko may fever. Hindi man lang ako kinamusta. He really does not care at all.

If you were in my place, will you tell him how you feel or just end it?

Originally Posted by EQAddict

Cathy. I believe Jut has been kind all these years. At the start we all were giving good advice. Listened with lots of patience, sympathy and understanding etc.

But over the years, honestly...you have shown no inclination to listen to good intentioned and heartfelt advice. No matter how many times this forum tried to help you. You cant expect infinite patience forever...its not only unreasonable, its not only unrealistic, it is also very selfish and self centered.

I think from the tone of the answers here...many people really are just exasperated and exhausted with this story and want you to happily and strongly move on. If there is anyone who can change your life and happiness here...it is you...and only you.

Can't vent your frustration on Jut and others...its misplaced. Rather vent the frustration on yourself for not doing what you know has been the right thing to do..... And that is move on.

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I understand naman that people are exasperated with me. I thought I have moved on from him but I get triggers where I would find him attractive again meron din that would make me want to cut ties with him. I do not want to be in this situation anymore but I can't control it no matter how hard I try. Even going abroad did nothing for me

After the pandemic, I will definitely see a psychiatrist na.

Originally Posted by shadow

Daming paraan, pwedeng bumili ng ibang cellphone para yun lang gamitin sayo, parang wala naman siya driver sa impression ko so pwede ka niya tawagan sa kotse.

Ayaw talaga niya sayo! He's selfish dahil gusto niya hinde ka mag move on, he thinks he owns you.

And ****ing thing is you're allowing him to do that.

He's nothibg but a college boy impressing a HS girl dahil loser sa mga kolehiyala.

Or white guy feeling pogi and successful in PH dahil loser sa kanila

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Yes wala naman siya driver, kaya nga malaking question mark why he refuses to call me pag nasa auto siya. Minsan marami siyang excuses na para bang tingin ata niya sakin tanga pero ayoko na lang siya i question, basta sinabi niya totoo na lang. What kind of a person does that naman? Ayaw na niya pero gusto niya hawak pa rin niya?

Originally Posted by jut703

Kaya nga never naman ako nagcomment - you need an outlet for your heartache and that's Tsikot. I have no issue with the countless posts - OT thread naman yung posts mo so anything under the sun is fair game.

Sorry if it sounded mean, just saying the reality but it's not necessarily bad so don't take it that way. Gusto rin naman ng mga tao nagrerespond sa rants mo so it's fine.

But just note na everything being advised to you has already been said months and years ago so I'm not sure what exactly you want to do with the advise.

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I apologize as well, I am extremely emotional esp for the past few days

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