how do you get over a broken heart?

[uls]

may friend ako ginagawa ako excuse

i mean he'll call me sabi meron daw siya "lakad"

sinabi daw niya sa wife niya ako ang kasama haha

buti nalang the wife never calls me to verify

that's how married men operate hehe

[Little Missy]

But why does he keep on calling me for an hour almost daily? All I want is for him to admit that he has a wife/gf so I could finally move on

So dr u still think unattached talaga siya?

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Diba nagconfess ka and hindi siya nagreciprocate. Tapos sabi mo okay lang kahit as friends na lang kasi you enjoy your convo. So bakit mo pa hinahanapan ng meaning yung daily talks niyo other than what it is.

Hindi mo rin siya pwedeng sisihin kasi pumapayag ka sa ganyang set up. Ikaw itong nagpapakita ng affection, hindi niya binabalik, tapos naghahanap ka pa ng sagot eh nasa harapan mo na.

He's not showing any signs that he wants to pursue this outside what it is so whether single siya or attached, it doesn't matter, you have to move on. Please don't say you're okay being friends. It doesn't look like it. Umaasa ka and hindi ka makakamove on kapag kinakausap mo pa siya.

[uls]

diba may saying ang mga single na babae -- all the good men are either married or gay

[EQAddict]

Cathy. I believe Jut has been kind all these years. At the start we all were giving good advice. Listened with lots of patience, sympathy and understanding etc.

But over the years, honestly...you have shown no inclination to listen to good intentioned and heartfelt advice. No matter how many times this forum tried to help you. You cant expect infinite patience forever...its not only unreasonable, its not only unrealistic, it is also very selfish and self centered.

I think from the tone of the answers here...many people really are just exasperated and exhausted with this story and want you to happily and strongly move on. If there is anyone who can change your life and happiness here...it is you...and only you.

Can't vent your frustration on Jut and others...its misplaced. Rather vent the frustration on yourself for not doing what you know has been the right thing to do..... And that is move on.

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[shadow]

Daming paraan, pwedeng bumili ng ibang cellphone para yun lang gamitin sayo, parang wala naman siya driver sa impression ko so pwede ka niya tawagan sa kotse.

Ayaw talaga niya sayo! He's selfish dahil gusto niya hinde ka mag move on, he thinks he owns you.

And ****ing thing is you're allowing him to do that.

He's nothibg but a college boy impressing a HS girl dahil loser sa mga kolehiyala.

Or white guy feeling pogi and successful in PH dahil loser sa kanila


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[jut703]

Can't you at least be kind? Maswerte ka you didn't have to go through this kind of heartache and you had stable long term relationship until you got married.

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Kaya nga never naman ako nagcomment - you need an outlet for your heartache and that's Tsikot. I have no issue with the countless posts - OT thread naman yung posts mo so anything under the sun is fair game.

Sorry if it sounded mean, just saying the reality but it's not necessarily bad so don't take it that way. Gusto rin naman ng mga tao nagrerespond sa rants mo so it's fine.

But just note na everything being advised to you has already been said months and years ago so I'm not sure what exactly you want to do with the advise.

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[ray_noel]

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[CVT]

may friend ako ginagawa ako excuse

i mean he'll call me sabi meron daw siya "lakad"

sinabi daw niya sa wife niya ako ang kasama haha

buti nalang the wife never calls me to verify

that's how married men operate hehe

Walang laglagan, ha?...

[_Cathy_]

I'm just sad dahil dapat hinde nangyayari kay cathy ito. Educated, may pera, independent lahat ng attributes dapat ng modern woman na hinde kailangan ng lalaki sa buhay nila.

I will undertand doon sa mga walang pinag aralan na babae then plain housewife at umaasa lsng sa kita ng asawa which common naman lalo na sa mahihirap na pamilya.

And the way na hype niya yun Lalake, parang Greek God, created for women.

Eh tanong ko pa rin bakit kung perfect talaga ang nothing against cathy but since lagi naman niya ni lessen value ng sarili niya. Eh bakit siya magtyatyaga siya kay cathy? Kadaming babae na makuha siya since he's perfect!

Nothing personal sa sinabi ko cathy ha. Hinde ibig sabihin na wala ka value or anything just putting it in context veraus na sinasabi mo na perfect si crush and your noting compare to him.


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shadow, you're so good to me, I am glad you think of me that way, na I am educated and independent pero wala ako pera haha! I don't need a man naman talaga, before crush came along in 2017, my last relationship was in 2011. Naniniwala talaga ako na ang babae kahit gaano pa ka independent will still want a stronger man alongside her (like my Mom) Sa family namin sobrang laki ng responsibility ko, sa nuclear family naman na sa akin ang decision, and recently my Lola told me ako na bahala sa BUONG family namin and that also meant I have to go against my exKuya cousin who was one of the alphas I looked up to in my life.

Masyado lang ako na inlove kaya I am blind sa "faults" ni crush, alam mo naman kung ano ang pinakalamaking deal breaker diba that I compromised on diba? Saka ideally sana Spanish blood din pero iilan na lang naman yan sa Pilipinas, yung isa sana I met in 2017 also pero na bwiset sakin kaka kwento ko about crush

Hindi siya nagtiya tiyaga sakin, meron na nga siya asawa/GF diba? So spare tire ako? Si crush na din nagsabi na hindi totoo na he is out of my league. Pero kasi yung rejection niya na NEVER ko naranasan sa ibang lalaki, that really drives me crazy

may friend ako ginagawa ako excuse

i mean he'll call me sabi meron daw siya "lakad"

sinabi daw niya sa wife niya ako ang kasama haha

buti nalang the wife never calls me to verify

that's how married men operate hehe

Buti nga friend ko nakikipag kita pa. Etong si crush hindi talaga lol

[_Cathy_]

Thanks to all who posted, mag compose ako reply pero I have a headche again and when I took my temp tumaas ulit, I need to lay in bed muna