Do you still value virginity?

[_Cathy_]

^^^ That's good to know. A lot of girls (not all) like to talk about the naughty stuff that they do with their BFs. But I guess it's different when girls talk about their BFs to their girl friends 'coz we don't exactly try to imagine/picture the scenario. hehe.

My ***ually active friend really enjoys telling me her stories. I don't wanna disappoint her by telling her that it's too graphic for me so I just listen to her. hehe.

[SaberRider]

Virginity is a very important factor in my life BUT not a defining factor.

[judoman]

virginity is like pringles daw.. once it's popped..you cannot stop

[_Cathy_]

^^^ Yes I've heard. I've been telling my friend to have a "second virginity" or to abstain from having *** again until after she gets married. She told me that she can't do that coz once you do it, the body looks for it already.

[s_quilicot]

^^^ Yes I've heard. I've been telling my friend to have a "second virginity" or to abstain from having *** again until after she gets married. She told me that she can't do that coz once you do it, the body looks for it already.

how old is your friend?

[Jun aka Pekto]

And I thought boys never talk about *** with their friends. Isn't that disprespectful to the GF? I mean, don't guys (who talk) realise that their friends might see their gfs differently after telling their stories?

Could be. But, most guys here have had numerous girlfriends in their lives. Most look at a topless picture of someone's girlfriend for a bit, and then forget about it. I've also been to more than one party where the wife of a friend in a drunken stupor would just pull up her shirt and "flash" everyone.

My wife sometimes asked what kind of friends did I have. I just grinned and gave a shrug.

Women here aren't exactly that uptight either. Our neighbor behind loves to sunbathe but hates tan lines. One time, I was cleaning the backyard when I glanced across the concrete fence and saw her sunbathing on her back topless. She saw me. But she didn't get mad. She merely changed position and lied down on her belly. We see each other in school often when picking up our kids. My view of her hadn't changed. I still treat her nicely and with respect.

[li0nh3a12t]

^^^ Yes I've heard. I've been telling my friend to have a "second virginity" or to abstain from having *** again until after she gets married. She told me that she can't do that coz once you do it, the body looks for it already.

meron ba talagang second virginity? isnt virginity suppose to refer to the "first" so pag nacross na ung boundary, na pop na ung virginity, ala na un di ba? hehe...
cguro the term would be, abstinence. hehe... which is really hard... it would take a lot of hard work and discipline... haha...

[_Cathy_]

My friend is 29 na eh. hehe. You're right abstinence. I just read an article somewhere that some girls like to call it as a "second virginity". May iba nga pinapa reconstruct pa ang hymen which is riduculous in my opinion.

[s_quilicot]

May iba nga pinapa reconstruct pa ang hymen which is riduculous in my opinion.

for me too .. for what? para mag pretend sa isang guy na virgin sya?

good as new kaya?

[_Cathy_]

Could be. But, most guys here have had numerous girlfriends in their lives. Most look at a topless picture of someone's girlfriend for a bit, and then forget about it.

My friend was right. She basically has no boundaries when it comes to doing it but she never has pictures or videos of her taken. I can't imagine how a guy would show his gf's body to his friends. Baka naman those aren't serious gfs (wife material)?