Do you still value virginity?

[webmiester]

funny that once in a while I hear my virgin gal friends or maybe some pretending virgin gal friends says that they would prefer their first time is with a guy who has experienced in *** na. kasi daw para hindi daw akward at may magle-lead sa kanila.

I believe you guys already have heard this statements from girls too right?

kaya sino namang lalake who have never had *** who hears this statement, of course a virgin guy would pretend they are experienced narin diba?

Yeah, I had this difficulty while I was dating certain girls at school. Two of them mentioned there was something wrong with me after I didnt want to have *** with them. It's somewhat of a pressure sometimes, especially when our egos are being challenged. This is one of the ways for me to find out whether a girl is still a virgin or not - whether or not she tries to seduce me on the third date... Ive said no to each of them.

[webmiester]

I heard a lot of such stories during beer parties that lasted overnight into dawn. Everyone knew I hadn't popped my cherry yet. So I was always the one without a story and had to listen to everyone else recount their conquests.

Most of them were so outlandish I remember thinking, "You lying b*st*rds. You expect me to believe that? You're just as much a loser as I am".

Of course, I didn't say that out loud. Well, you know..... It's their beer. I was guzzling their beer like water and eating platefuls of their food while they talked. They were too drunk to realize I was the one finishing off their beer and food. They'd get up and get some more and then keep talking. Me, I just kept drinking and eating.

Good for you that you dont believe them Jun!

In St. Augustine's writings, he revealed that at the height of his youth, when he wasnt saintly yet, he would make up stories of his ***ual misadventures so to impress his friends. He had lots of experiences, but he wasnt satisfied with them, so he would make up some more. I wouldnt be surprised if many guys really do make up or exaggerate their stories in parties.

Anyway, virginity shouldnt be only a physical thing. It's a state of being, meaning, that we can actually restore it if we like. It's called "secondary virginity", and its also a very beautiful trait. I think we can google it, it should come out.

Another Catholic mystic, also noted that God's love is so powerful he can revirginize people. Much like the secondary virginity aspect, so if certain people didnt value it before but want to value it again, it can be restored with the proper grace, so never lose hope.

[Jun aka Pekto]

Good for you that you dont believe them Jun!

In St. Augustine's writings, he revealed that at the height of his youth, when he wasnt saintly yet, he would make up stories of his ***ual misadventures so to impress his friends. He had lots of experiences, but he wasnt satisfied with them, so he would make up some more. I wouldnt be surprised if many guys really do make up or exaggerate their stories in parties.

Anyway, virginity shouldnt be only a physical thing. It's a state of being, meaning, that we can actually restore it if we like. It's called "secondary virginity", and its also a very beautiful trait. I think we can google it, it should come out.

Another Catholic mystic, also noted that God's love is so powerful he can revirginize people. Much like the secondary virginity aspect, so if certain people didnt value it before but want to value it again, it can be restored with the proper grace, so never lose hope.

Sorry, sir. I'm just a simple guy. I'm not a bad guy. I'm no saint either. I'm not much for making up stories. I also never hid my lack of experience. But, I was sooooooooooooo relieved when I finally popped my cherry. . For a single guy, that was a lot of pressure to bear almost like a ball and chain. That was one less curiosity for the cat to worry about.

Guys at work still reminisce about their conquests, esp during graveyard shifts. I don't listen that much anymore even though they were more believable and when they have um, photos.

[_Cathy_]

Girls want *** on the third date??? So that's not even BF and GF yet?!? Do they perceive *** solely as a pleasurable "activity"?. Parang wala ng value ang ***. Sheesh. I feel so old. During my time, it takes months before a couple have their first kiss.

[Lucius]

I usually hit the home base between 1st to 3rd meeting, depende din sa girl. Kung game talaga sayo, kahit di mo na i-date papayag. Meron iba kahit anong bigay mo ng gift di bibigay, guys should get it right away - ung iba kasi nagbubulagbulagan.

[webmiester]

Girls want *** on the third date??? So that's not even BF and GF yet?!? Do they perceive *** solely as a pleasurable "activity"?. Parang wala ng value ang ***. Sheesh. I feel so old. During my time, it takes months before a couple have their first kiss.

Yup, ganun nga experience ko cathy. I think they think I can get pressured to hang on to them longer (and become possible BF or possibly even possible Pikot victim), if I agree to what they'ld like. I think its more of a little bit of desperation because some girls are also pressured to find a partner (for whaterver reason), as it is for a guy to be pressured to do it (for whatever reason too). In my experience, the girls did try to challenge my manliness by telling me that they think they was something wrong with me when I say "no".

[rion]

I heard a lot of such stories during beer parties that lasted overnight into dawn. Everyone knew I hadn't popped my cherry yet. So I was always the one without a story and had to listen to everyone else recount their conquests.

Most of them were so outlandish I remember thinking, "You lying b*st*rds. You expect me to believe that? You're just as much a loser as I am".

hehe... my friends doesn't tell stories but they will give "the look"

the look that labels them: I'm calm, been there, did that. I'm experienced!

deep inside pala, I smile evil-ish, I'm not there yet, I'm desperate!

[_Cathy_]

And I thought boys never talk about *** with their friends. Isn't that disprespectful to the GF? I mean, don't guys (who talk) realise that their friends might see their gfs differently after telling their stories?

[li0nh3a12t]

And I thought boys never talk about *** with their friends. Isn't that disprespectful to the GF? I mean, don't guys (who talk) realise that their friends might see their gfs differently after telling their stories?

hi guys, new here in this forum. ngaun ko lang naexplore, busy kakabasa sa mga car talks...
anyway, i think its really disrespectful for the girl na pag-usapan xa over barkada talks. pero kung love namn talaga ng guy ung girl, respect should come with it, therefore i don't think na ikkwento nia ung details ng mga pangyayari, or i don't think that they would tell it at all...
i mean, delikadesa na lang dun sa guy na ikkwento nya ung love nya. parang imaginary pinahiram nya ung girl nya sa mga barkada nya.cguro f guys would tell stories about their hookings, they would not tell their experience with their loved ladies, instead only those with no strings attached...

that is just my opinion...
anyway, this conversation is really mature and healthy, im enjoying it. keep it up tsikoteers...

[rion]

And I thought boys never talk about *** with their friends. Isn't that disprespectful to the GF? I mean, don't guys (who talk) realise that their friends might see their gfs differently after telling their stories?

of course it is disrespectful. the stories usualy are from one night stand girls and hookers.