Do you still value virginity?

[s_quilicot]

the hard truth is, good virgin girls fall for bad boys. kaya magtatanong ang WAS a virgin girl: "bakit kayong mga lalaki,virgin pa ba kayo?"

well the guy that screwed you is not a virgin.

What exactly is a bad boy??? If bad boy = bulakbol, mayabang at babaero. I can't imagine how any girl (virgin or not) would find "bad boys" attractive.

* rion

well, napansin ko nga ito .. just like sa mga classmates ko .. lagi ako napapaisip ..

hmm good girls always fall to a badboy talaga .. yup korek cathy BULAKBOL MAYABANG BABAERO WARFREAK .. minsan pa nga sa ADIK


bat kaya?

[judoman]

hmm good girls always fall to a badboy talaga .. yup korek cathy BULAKBOL MAYABANG BABAERO WARFREAK .. minsan pa nga sa ADIK

wala na pala ako pag-asa.

actually, i am also guilty of being a cherry popper too....just once hahaha but i never did again and im sorry for being one. i was young and never knew any better...nobody was there to give me advice...and being young...all i thought about was being "macho" and being "made"...the problem with males kasi is our testosterone...and the placement of our brain...its located at the opposite end,somewhere in the other head...even monks and priests fall prey to this except for the most devout.

let me share something about ***ual misconduct, *** is used as a tool for procreation...now,if something is used for something other than its intended use then it can also be considered as ***ual misconduct as well...such as for recreation in excessive amounts,with the opposite *** and of course,to some extent-pre marital ***...we are only human naman so we still step on the line...

now,as for a deflowered girl not deserving love or respect,i dont think that would be right. criminals deserve to be loved as well so why should we do less to people who have done something out of ignorance then? i once thought of the other way...but i had girl friends who were de flowered and another had a kid out of wed-lock...it doesnt make a difference anyways...theyre still women but of course, value added yun intact flower...parang free gas promo na pautot ng suzuki APV bwahahahaha with or without the gas,if you like the car,you will like it anyway...

PS: a way i learned on how to avoid ***ual misconduct...when the urge comes along...just observe it...dont entertain it...in awhile mawawala na din yan...after awhile...you will become..unpassionate...if thats a good thng or not...nasa iyo na yun hehehe depends on what you want and what you are after in life

sir, kailangan po ba talaga virgin kahit male? sawang-sawa na kasi ako sa pang-aasar ng tropa. di ko ginagawa kasi gusto ko gf ko hindi kung sino lang. baka kasi maadik ako or worse, mainlab pa sa bayaran. pero tama, naiiwasan naman yan. may kamay pa ako kahit nakakasawa na but still mapapalayo ka sa pre-marital ***.

[Jun aka Pekto]

gusto ko yung sagot mo Sir pitbullz.

the hard truth is, good virgin girls fall for bad boys. kaya magtatanong ang WAS a virgin girl: "bakit kayong mga lalaki,virgin pa ba kayo?"

well the guy that screwed you is not a virgin.

but marami pa namang virgin na lalaki ah. a lot of guys pretend they are not virgin to look more manly. pretend to have been laid to get laid technique. hehe...

Agreed. I'm inclined to believe there are a lot more single males in the Philippines who are still virgins than many would care to admit. The culture over there is simply not conducive for early *** even in this time and age. Whether that's good or bad, I don't know. I do understand the pressure.

I have no problems admitting I was a virgin while I was in the Philippines. That's not to say I didn't try to get my cherry popped. My uncle over there wanted to set me up with a hooker. But, my aunts got wind of it. So, that plan fell through. Boy, that was a big fiasco. I couldn't visit them for a while He He.

Then, I wanted to see about getting a hooker of my own. But, an incident with a "she-guy" in a jeepney kind of turned me off. Bleh.

Add: That whole period was a learning phase for me and I'm pretty sure a lot of single Pinoy guys are also going through the same. I didn't associate too much with women because none of their activities appealed to me. I wasn't much for chit chat and idle talk. So, I was at a disadvantage. I stumbled and fumbled a lot. Case in point:

I was attracted to a girl who was 2-3 years older than me. At that point, my hormones were raging between my legs. Anyway, I sensed she seemed to like me. Whenever we studied together we could feel the flames. At some point, I made a pass. I probably should've been thinking with my brain because she actually said she'd do it out of love.
I probably should've just nodded and I would've been in heaven. But.... I was too honest and said I just wanted the ***. I won't say what happened next. But, I was hurting and limping for a week afterwards. It seems funny now. But, not back then. Pain. Oh pain.

[_Cathy_]

* rion

well, napansin ko nga ito .. just like sa mga classmates ko .. lagi ako napapaisip ..

hmm good girls always fall to a badboy talaga .. yup korek cathy BULAKBOL MAYABANG BABAERO WARFREAK .. minsan pa nga sa ADIK


bat kaya?

Baka naman di tunay na "good girls" ang mga classmates mo

At a certain age, girls (teens) find bad boys attractive because they are not boring to say the least. But past a certain age (after college), the bad boy appeal gets old as women out of college look for a different set of characteristics than they were younger (Respectful, polite and stable) Characterictics that are to be found in "good boys".

I once made a mistake of choosing a "bad boy" over a "good boy" in college. The bad boy that I chose then is still living the life of a wreckless bachelor (good thing I left him) and the guy I chose over him is now married, has a house of his own, a brand new car and a stable career.

[_Cathy_]

Sorry. The good boy that I didn't choose is now [COLOR=blue! important][FONT=verdana, geneva, lucida, 'lucida grande', arial, helvetica, sans-serif][COLOR=blue! important][FONT=verdana, geneva, lucida, 'lucida grande', arial, helvetica, sans-serif]married[/FONT][/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR], has a house of his own, a brand new car and a stable career.

[webmiester]

Yes, my girlfriend and I are both virgins.

A recent study showed that couples who strive to stay as virgins until marriage have far fewer divorce and separation rates compared to couples who have had premarital ***. It is why, in my opinion, it is a factor which can help contributes to a solid family later on.

This has been a recurring topic, and many of my classmates have confronted me regarding this.

As for the legalities though, our law tends to be chauvanistic. By legal definition, virginity only applies to the female gender, not to the males. Kaya there is no such thing as a virgin man in the eyes of the law, only a virgin woman.

[don8dares]

value virginity?

not really a big deal...not unless lahat na yata nasakyan sya... but having one won't hurt...

[rion]

funny that once in a while I hear my virgin gal friends or maybe some pretending virgin gal friends says that they would prefer their first time is with a guy who has experienced in *** na. kasi daw para hindi daw akward at may magle-lead sa kanila.

I believe you guys already have heard this statements from girls too right?

kaya sino namang lalake who have never had *** who hears this statement, of course a virgin guy would pretend they are experienced narin diba?

[ghosthunter]

I dunno but I find it fun sometimes to talk about *** with girls who haven't done it yet especially their varied reactions from "oh" to "yuck" and to even their wide eyed stares of learning something new. :shocked:





:naughty2: Corruption of the innocent! :evillaugh

[Jun aka Pekto]

kaya sino namang lalake who have never had *** who hears this statement, of course a virgin guy would pretend they are experienced narin diba?

I heard a lot of such stories during beer parties that lasted overnight into dawn. Everyone knew I hadn't popped my cherry yet. So I was always the one without a story and had to listen to everyone else recount their conquests.

Most of them were so outlandish I remember thinking, "You lying b*st*rds. You expect me to believe that? You're just as much a loser as I am".

Of course, I didn't say that out loud. Well, you know..... It's their beer. I was guzzling their beer like water and eating platefuls of their food while they talked. They were too drunk to realize I was the one finishing off their beer and food. They'd get up and get some more and then keep talking. Me, I just kept drinking and eating.