Dating mid-30's & older women... [merged]

[Horsepower]

Obviously, it's money. It's pretty obvious. Anyone who says it's love is an idiot. :bwahaha:

[gonzo]

Or we put the other way around.. successful older women that dates younger boys they just consider them Boy toy...

Give them some bucks after the fun... mama san

[empy]

marami palang latang walang laman sa tsikot :hihihi:

[Gen. Miting]

I don't quite agree bro. There's always that 'inflection point', where almost all of them (note: I didn't say all) tend to lose 'market value' (sorry for the lack of a better term). When I say it, I meant opportunity for a serious and lasting relationship with a younger man, consistent with this thread....

7606:mobile1:

i thought infection point. pero have to warn you guys, women above 30 are more prone to yeast infection

[Gen. Miting]

Dating women in their early 30's is very different with dating naive youngsters.

They have experience and they already know what you are after. Wiser. Some of them appear dumb and fall for you even though they know you're just after some good time.

They could get a bit possessive though.

Most of the girls you can date in this age bracket are lawyers, executives, single moms, graduate school students, usually very beautiful women who let the trains pass by waiting for a better one.

Remember, if you know the woman is married, walk away. No matter how hot she is, it is not worth it to be imprisoned and get raped in the ass. hehe.

This age bracket requires maturity and intelligence. They usually despise men who lack those.

But of course, like any other thing, after the orgasm, things are clearer. It always is. You begin to realize that this is not what you want. That, as a young man, you need a younger woman because you need someone within a safe reproductive age bracket unless you don't have any plan of continuing your lineage. You begin to think, what your parents and siblings are going to say about her. Will people laugh at you when you're seen together? What are your batchmates gonna say?

Then you quit. Then they get heartbroken again. And the cycle continues.

In short, forget about it. Don't even think of doing it.

Women are humans who have feelings, who deserve to be respected and loved genuinely by someone who'll be with them through good and bad times - regardless of age and intellectual capacity. They are not toys to play with whenever one is bored.


^

very true. and to add/to share to you what my older friends told me

mas ok ligawan ang 30++, why bec. they just got out/sick of a very bad relationship(s)

which made me think, pano kung nun college mayroon ka hot friend na hindi ka pinansin at mas pinansin mga gwapo/mayaman mong kaklase. by 30's, and if you find them in facebook/friendster na still hot mama, and their husbands as big as an elephant or lousy

all it takes is for you to go the gym, and look like in your teener years pero 30+ ka na din take note, sigurado ok na adventure

para sa mga basted noon, there is a 2nd shot

[ab_initio]

somehow, i have read more myths rather than meaty discussion about women.

i am quite surprised of the displayed ignorance that men have about women. i know tsikot's always been a men's world but i'd rather get shot than letting those gender insensitive comments about women pass by with impunity. hear me out, please. thanks for the anticipated indulgence.


Myth 1:
older women who are single are unhappy

Fact 1:
on the contrary, single older women are happy because they have such greater freedom to plan for career advancement and personal development. the freedom is curtailed when they are in a relationship, much less when they have kids. why? because women, as they progress, the society hasn't corrected the imbalance of role fulfillment...they have career and yet, they are primarily tasked to take the lead in parenthood.

Myth 2:

women, aged 30 and above, are prone to yeast infection

Fact 2

yeast infection is never associated with age, rather, it is sometimes attributed to changes in the ph balance of the vagina, in which the intake of antibiotics and steroid may contribute to the change in the ph balance. it's what you're gonna take, and yes, hygiene...never with age.


***i believe it is wrong to assume that women are dumb in choosing to date a much younger guy. they are not dumb, they just want to experience dating one so they would be wiser in the process. dating isn't tantamount to being in love. dating is different from loving.

the TS should know that the fears are unfounded and when you succumb to it, it'll make you dumb.

***on getting hurt, just like you guys, deception will truly hurt us. the only difference is we can cry unabashedly.

***as the woman gets older, her field expands, giving her more room to choose the kind of man for a partner. maybe, by the time she reaches 35, she gets to encounter men of different sorts, namely, complicated men (those annulled with kids and still get to see the ex wife for visitation rights), men who deferred marriage (at a time when the society tells them to get married but opted not to marry), men, who for quite sometime, cannot spell out their ***uality. at marami pa....


from my end, i know that i will get to the age bracket imagined by the TS but i am very much confident that i would be as happy as i am today...happier even(even when i opt to remain single)

life just amazes me for years...and i know life will continue to amaze me. i hope this piece helps the TS in discovering those beautiful, lovely, and wonderful attributes of a woman.

an adventure filled journey be yours.

[creepy]

Or we put the other way around.. successful older women that dates younger boys they just consider them Boy toy...

Give them some bucks after the fun... mama san

Marami kayang nabigay si Pops?

[mark_t]

somehow, i have read more myths rather than meaty discussion about women.

i am quite surprised of the displayed ignorance that men have about women. i know tsikot's always been a men's world but i'd rather get shot than letting those gender insensitive comments about women pass by with impunity. hear me out, please. thanks for the anticipated indulgence.


Myth 1:
older women who are single are unhappy

Fact 1:
on the contrary, single older women are happy because they have such greater freedom to plan for career advancement and personal development. the freedom is curtailed when they are in a relationship, much less when they have kids. why? because women, as they progress, the society hasn't corrected the imbalance of role fulfillment...they have career and yet, they are primarily tasked to take the lead in parenthood.

Myth 2:

women, aged 30 and above, are prone to yeast infection

Fact 2

yeast infection is never associated with age, rather, it is sometimes attributed to changes in the ph balance of the vagina, in which the intake of antibiotics and steroid may contribute to the change in the ph balance. it's what you're gonna take, and yes, hygiene...never with age.


***i believe it is wrong to assume that women are dumb in choosing to date a much younger guy. they are not dumb, they just want to experience dating one so they would be wiser in the process. dating isn't tantamount to being in love. dating is different from loving.

the TS should know that the fears are unfounded and when you succumb to it, it'll make you dumb.

***on getting hurt, just like you guys, deception will truly hurt us. the only difference is we can cry unabashedly.

***as the woman gets older, her field expands, giving her more room to choose the kind of man for a partner. maybe, by the time she reaches 35, she gets to encounter men of different sorts, namely, complicated men (those annulled with kids and still get to see the ex wife for visitation rights), men who deferred marriage (at a time when the society tells them to get married but opted not to marry), men, who for quite sometime, cannot spell out their ***uality. at marami pa....


from my end, i know that i will get to the age bracket imagined by the TS but i am very much confident that i would be as happy as i am today...happier even(even when i opt to remain single)

life just amazes me for years...and i know life will continue to amaze me. i hope this piece helps the TS in discovering those beautiful, lovely, and wonderful attributes of a woman.

an adventure filled journey be yours.

Kaya puro myth kasi hindi naman sila babaero.

[_Qwerty_]

yung kay Raymond B. eh obvious naman.. two things.. he's out of his mind na talaga.. or tama yung post sa taas.. it's all about money!

yung kay Jomari.. hmmm i don't know... sabi pera din daw dahilan?? or baka naman yung lips ni Pops! hehehee

in regards with dating older women.. hmmm does age really matters?? kung na in love kayo sa isa't isa eh diba? kahit ilang years pa ang gap nyan.. it's the same kung bakit may mga girls na pumapatol sa men older than them.. yung iba pera pera lang talaga.. pero yung iba na kilala ko.. i think it's true love talaga....

[testament11]

Myth 1:
older women who are single are unhappy

ganito ang palaging bukang bibig ng 2nd ex ko. kulang daw ang buhay. pero in the end, hanggang ngayon, sinasabi niya na masarap, masaya ang maging single. she has her freedom daw, walang sasaway sa kanya, walang sisita, walang magmomonitor.

ganito lang yan, its a matter of contentment in life. kung kuntento ka sa pagiging single, then that is your choice kasi happy ka eh. kaya nga kung saan tayo masaya, dun tayo. kung kuntento ka na sa ganun, then i'm happy for that. pero kung hindi ka happy or contented, maghahanap ka pa ng ibang bagay na pwede makakapag-fulfill ng happiness mo. kaya ako, kung ano meron ako, then i gladly accept it. at least i have something to ponder on, yun lang...

OT: you look cool in your new avatar ah, hehehe...