We need a yaya because "...for reasons of survival we both have to make kayod in the daily grind." Pero we draw the line at bringing yaya with us when we go out with the kids.
Same here pards. Yaya is there mainly to watch the kid during the day, when we're at work and hatid-sundo sa school. At night, vacations, and on weekends, it's 90% mommy and daddy. So the balance is still there.