There's this funny quote from a book I read " Busy is another word for a**hole, a**hole is another word for the guy ur dating"
So if he cant find time daw to be with you he's busy spending time with someone else. Totoo ba un?
Its easy naman for us girls to know when the guys cheating, we just know. We have that intuition kc more often than not its true eh kaso nga lang minsan guys call it tamang duda daw ahahaha
dami siguro tinamaan dito, buti na lang ako medyo nakakailag pa.. hehehe
sana naman wag ako impluwensyahan ng mga mdidlim na likha ng kalikasan.. newlywed pa lang eh..
pero sabi nga nila, tao lang tayo na nadadarang at natutukso din.. hehehe
sad to say, i was a victim of that very same female intuition thing. Kumbaga kung tama nga kayo more often than not, sakin napunta ung "THAN NOT" na babae hehehe it just so happens na i have many female close friends, and of those many ones, madaming magaganda, kaya ayun, pinagdudahan talaga ako ng husto, at ginatungan pa ng mga magagaling na friends nya. I even at some point started to feel that i may be cheating on her, pero even without knowing kung kanino (in other words, nabubuwang nako) I eventually got sick and tired of it all, feeling guilty over nothing, nawalan talaga ako ng gana and napagod kaka explain ng lahat ng kilos ko, and eventually ended it. There was even a period after the break up when she and her friends would ask around in our circle of friends kung sino ung pinagpalit ko sa kanya. By the time they realized na wala talaga, she tried to ask me back Too late.
Anyways, ang sakin lang is...aside from all the tips or tell-tales or intuitions people can claim on how to detect infidelity...the best way is, and always will be open communication PLUS trust...yes both the intangible as well as tangible one w/c comes in different flavors.