Is it really better to work abroad?

[draiman]

I am better off resigning if I decline because like I said HQ moved heaven and earth to have me there. My boss asked me if wanted this several times. They had to justify this request with our Director. My issue is whether to request for a shorter stint (1 yr) That was all I was expecting bec I knew we were losing money. Malaki daw relocation fee.

If I stay, 2018 would be my earliest chance for promotion. And of course I have to work with people I hate (90% of them) No management support and no increase til 2018 most likely.

Opportunity knocks, don't let it pass by.

I had almost the same experience. I had to leave my parents (who are living with me for 32 years), a German Shepherd which I raised from puphood and personally trained, my siblings/nephews and niece). I was saving a net of 40k monthly, had to live alone in a flat surrounded by people from all cultures, no close friends, no confidante, basically all alone. Just work, home, mall.

Looking back, I think it's one of the best decisions I've made for my career and finances, though there are things I still regret when I left.

So in your case, 2-3 years is nothing, you won't notice it when you start making yourself busy with work and surround yourself with friends abroad. Join clubs, find a new hobby when you're bored.

Sa umpisa mahirap talaga, there will be separation anxiety and mixed emotions.